Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Question 6

            Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children. Use specific reasons and examples to support your opinion.

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  1. NAME: AHMAD NAJHAN BIN HASSIM
    MATRIX NO: J09DN0062

    PARENTS OR OTHER ADULT RELATIVES SHULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR (15 TO 18 YEARS-OLD) TEENAGE CHILDREN

    Regarding to the title above, I’m strictly agree with the statement. In my opinion, nowadays the teenage children should be giving the opportunity to make decision in certain manner of their life. It’s true that we have to respect our parents which they are the earliest who gain many experiences before us. But in this new era, our life is having more challenges where need us to think for the best way to cope on it. And sometime, some of the problem need to be handle ourselves and shouldn’t involved our parents or others eldest persons.
    As a growing person, I also make use in this situation. For my own side, I prefer to make my own decision for any situation. It’s because, at the end these young child will grow up and becoming the eldest. So, let them make a decision to create their own future life as they plan because each of us not has the same opinion and decision. By making our own decision can teach the child to be more independent person with the matured thinking. For example, it’s the actual reality where one day, our parents will go to die. So, if we’re fully depends on them, once this situation happens, we don’t know how to manage and continue our life without them. So that’s why I’m said, the opportunity to make decision should be give to this child.
    In certain manner like marriage, nowadays parents shouldn’t have the right to make any decision to choose the life partner for their child. Maybe it’s the way that people use during their era. But in our millennium era, this opportunity goes to us to choose the right person to be married. It’s because, only ourselves that really know and understand our partner’s behaviour and characteristics. Not to be rude to our parents, but at the stage before marriage, maybe the parents can monitor their child either they make a relation with the suitable person or not. Just monitor and give opinion about this manner but not to state for any decision.
    So, for the conclusion, the child should give the chance to speak out on what they are thinking. They can make a discussion with their parents or eldest person before reach the phase of making decision because this job is belongs to our own selves for our own happiness of the life.

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  2. Many people hold the opion that parents or other relative adults should make important decisions for their older teenage children, since they do not want their children to make any wrong decision or mistake during the important life stage. While, I do not agree with them at all. Because age fifteen to eighteen is such a crucial period for the teenage children to form their personality, to learn how to make decisions and take responsibily of it, as well as to develop where their talent lie. No one can make the important decisions for their life but themselves.

    First, the age fiftteen to eighteen, accoding to many research, is the time for teenage children to form thier personality. They need to make their own choices and follow their own hearts. If all the decisions were made by their parents or adult relatives, we can not image where is the creative side, and where is the distinguish side. The world will be lack in innovation.

    In addition, it is also the age for the older teenage children to learn to be responsible for themselves. No matter the child is a girl or a boy, most of the important decisions in thier life should be made by themselves. On one hand, children will be dependent on their parents and adult relatives' decision making and do not want to and feared to make their own decisions. How is their parents and adult relatives who made the important decisions for them pass away? How can they make their own decisions in their later life? They should have the ability to make their own decision even when they are only teenage children. On the other hand, all the decisions could be ricky, who can take responsiblity to the children if the decisions do not benefit? It is the child's own life, so, in order not to make anyone feel guilty or regret for the results, it should be the child who make the decisions in his own life.

    Furthermore, parents and adult relatives should not make the important decision for the children since people are different from each other, no one knows the child better than the child himself. The child knows on which field he can be really good at, and on which field he lacks talent in. During the age I was eighteen, my parents make the decision for me to go to study Finance, but for me, Asian studies seems much more attractive and I have strong will to study on that. Since they make the decision and I did not obey their will, four years collge life on Finance make me feel really bad. And I even fell to pass two of the courses since I have no interest in them. I feel so regret for the desicion, and it takes me more time to achieve the success on Asian studies during graduate school. This is what a parents-making decision will lead us to. On most circumstances they only follow their own will to choose for you but ignore where your talent are.

    Adimittedly, parents and adult relatives do all the things to make the children benefit the best and not to make wrong decisions. But they fail to notice that it is their own life and the life should be choosen by themselves. They are themselves and they should decide which direction to go but not follow their parents or adult relatives' guide.

    SELVARANI SUNDRAM
    J09DN0140

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  3. Mohammad Sabri Bin Sahudin
    J09DN0087

    Decision and Teenager
    Independent is the most significance word all over the world, especially for the country which had been colonized under the power of other race or country for long time ago just likes what had happened to Malaysia for about 446 years ago which when the first attack of Portugal by ship on Sultanate of Malacca land in the year 1115 and then followed by many other country until 31st of August 1957 Malaysia are become independence. From what had happened to Malaysia, being independence are important in order to be more better and good among the other. From my opinion as the teenage in the age of 15 until 18 year old, there need an to choose and decide what they want. Parent and adult relatives just can be the guidance for them or an adviser for the teenagers.

    Teenager is the assets of the country so, there need to be very productive and efficient in doing their job in order to build better future for the country. To achieve that they should be given an opportunity to choose what they want to be, especially for their ambition so that there will show better performance rather than become boring with their job that had been chosen by their parent and will lead to unproductive work. Beside that, teenager also can do want their parent want and fulfill their ambition at the same time too by dividing the time efficiently. This had been proved by successful person like Dato’ Chef Wan which his parent want him to be an accountant rather than a chef but he choose to be both and now successfully in cooking skill as well as an accountant.

    Furthermore, teenagers are very fresh with a good and modern idea, which are can be practically done in this globalization era. For example we can take over look to all secondary school in this country are hardly promote the innovation of science and technology programs among the teenager range from 15 to 18 years old. This program required teenager think how to make life better with science and technology. We can say that even governments are believed on them why not parent just let the power of making decision in their son and daughter.

    The best thing always is the priority for the parent but there need to know that nothing are best or perfect but life is challenge which means we should to try when there is a chance in front of us. When there is a situation two chances in the line parent need to guide their teenager no to force to choose so that their curiosity will lead to the right decision and sweetness of the successful will be tasted in the future.

    Despite from being to protective and scare of the same mistake as they make will be repeated, parent should share their life with their family member so that their experience will help the teenager to choose the way of their life without any force or stressful environmental factor which are very risky for their future.

    As a conclusion we can say that let the power of making decision in the teenager hand and the parent should be guidance. Only with this way the wright decision can be make and the future of their life will be better.

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  4. Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Parents and adult relatives should make important decisions for older teenage children( age 15--18)...Use specific reasons and examples.

    Many people hold the opion that parents or other relative adults should make important decisions for their older teenage children, since they do not want their children to make any wrong decision or mistake during the important life stage. While, I do not agree with them at all. Because age fifteen to eighteen is such a crucial period for the teenage children to form their personality, to learn how to make decisions and take responsibily of it, as well as to develop where their talent lie. No one can make the important decisions for their life but themselves.

    First, the age fiftteen to eighteen, accoding to many research, is the time for teenage children to form thier personality. They need to make their own choices and follow their own hearts. If all the decisions were made by their parents or adult relatives, we can not image where is the creative side, and where is the distinguish side. The world will be lack in innovation.

    In addition, it is also the age for the older teenage children to learn to be responsible for themselves. No matter the child is a girl or a boy, most of the important decisions in thier life should be made by themselves. On one hand, children will be dependent on their parents and adult relatives' decision making and do not want to and feared to make their own decisions. How is their parents and adult relatives who made the important decisions for them pass away? How can they make their own decisions in their later life? They should have the ability to make their own decision even when they are only teenage children. On the other hand, all the decisions could be ricky, who can take responsiblity to the children if the decisions do not benefit? It is the child's own life, so, in order not to make anyone feel guilty or regret for the results, it should be the child who make the decisions in his own life.

    Furthermore, parents and adult relatives should not make the important decision for the children since people are different from each other, no one knows the child better than the child himself. The child knows on which field he can be really good at, and on which field he lacks talent in. During the age I was eighteen, my parents make the decision for me to go to study Finance, but for me, Asian studies seems much more attractive and I have strong will to study on that. Since they make the decision and I did not obey their will, four years collge life on Finance make me feel really bad. And I even fell to pass two of the courses since I have no interest in them. I feel so regret for the desicion, and it takes me more time to achieve the success on Asian studies during graduate school. This is what a parents-making decision will lead us to. On most circumstances they only follow their own will to choose for you but ignore where your talent really lie.

    Adimittedly, parents and adult relatives do all the things to make the children benefit the best and not to make wrong decisions. But they fail to notice that it is their own life and the life should be choosen by themselves. They are themselves and they should decide which direction to go but not follow their parents or adult relatives' guide.

    TANABALRAJ S/O KAMARAJ
    J09DN0156

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  5. In this modernization world, time is growing very fast so that the people around us in aspect of economy the people around us, in aspect of economy, the people attitude and behaviors are changing for every second. We can’t judge one of us easily. Even our life style also main point one of the main point.
    I would like to agree with the statement of parents or other relatives should make important decisions for their (15-18 years) teenage children. I am as a teenager yes I do have many dream, in aspect of living styles my ambitions, easy life, even to choose my life partner. But every decisions we take is not hundred percent is perfect. We must always have a guider to guide us. of course till now my parents my relatives are good guide for me.
    Firstly we must set up an ambitions before we choose it we must ask some other ideas because its our life, of course before I start my nurse course I ask my mum, she supported me as well. Yes many of the teenagers nowadays thinking that the parents are over ruled them but they doing this but in the other hands they never think that they doing this for their good.
    If our parents never guide sure will we will lose our control. We will run out of the circle because teenage age always follow what friends are telling. they theirself won’t realize that they follow in good way or in wrong way. So that to know their children’s friend they must invite the friends to house .by that they can find out whether they are not friend with wrong friends.
    Another things nowadays most of people will think that that their children’s will choose their life partner. Most of love will think that their children will choose their partner .most of love will end in puppy love. some more the children will not realize that they are good or bad boys or gurls. The children started to disobey the parents but they don’t realize that parents are really take care of them in every aspects.
    The age grows older our mind set, thinking our behaviors, everything changing . this is due to the living thing standard in the era modernizations. furthermore our neighbor country is Singapore. sure would follow their life styles. It is not wrong we follow the trends but whatever we choose it wisely and we must know what we doing.
    The conclusions is before we choose anything is better to get our parents permissions from my view our parents always shows the best for us and they will not think bad for us. we must appreciate we have now. Without them we will not will be here . so that we must try to be good child to our parents and respect as well as we respects our god. No world without them.

    name : Ahnanthie D/O Subramaniam
    matrix number : JO9DN0063

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  6. In this modernization world, time is growing very fast so that the people around us in aspect of economy the people around us, in aspect of economy, the people attitude and behaviors are changing for every second. We can’t judge one of us easily. Even our life style also main point one of the main point.
    I would like to agree with the statement of parents or other relatives should make important decisions for their (15-18 years) teenage children. I am as a teenager yes I do have many dream, in aspect of living styles my ambitions, easy life, even to choose my life partner. But every decisions we take is not hundred percent is perfect. We must always have a guider to guide us. of course till now my parents my relatives are good guide for me.
    Firstly we must set up an ambitions before we choose it we must ask some other ideas because its our life, of course before I start my nurse course I ask my mum, she supported me as well. Yes many of the teenagers nowadays thinking that the parents are over ruled them but they doing this but in the other hands they never think that they doing this for their good.
    If our parents never guide sure will we will lose our control. We will run out of the circle because teenage age always follow what friends are telling. they theirself won’t realize that they follow in good way or in wrong way. So that to know their children’s friend they must invite the friends to house .by that they can find out whether they are not friend with wrong friends.
    Another things nowadays most of people will think that that their children’s will choose their life partner. Most of love will think that their children will choose their partner .most of love will end in puppy love. some more the children will not realize that they are good or bad boys or gurls. The children started to disobey the parents but they don’t realize that parents are really take care of them in every aspects.
    The age grows older our mind set, thinking our behaviors, everything changing . this is due to the living thing standard in the era modernizations. furthermore our neighbor country is Singapore. sure would follow their life styles. It is not wrong we follow the trends but whatever we choose it wisely and we must know what we doing.
    The conclusions is before we choose anything is better to get our parents permissions from my view our parents always shows the best for us and they will not think bad for us. we must appreciate we have now. Without them we will not will be here . so that we must try to be good child to our parents and respect as well as we respects our god. No world without them.

    name : Ahnanthie D/o Subramaniam
    matrix number : JO9DN0063

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  7. Teenagers are people who are in age between 15-18years old. They can be classified as active people in this world. Most of the teenagers like to do things by their own self. Moreover, nowadays teenagers attempt in too many violent things such as vandalisms. So in this, teenagers can loss their future and become a unmoral person in society.

    As I know, for my opinion by seeing nowadays teenager’s life, I will agree to the statement that parents or other adult relatives should make important decision for their 15-18years old teenage children because they considered as eldest and older people who pass trough by many good and bad experience in their life. Parents are the most important person in every teenager’s life. It is because parents the one who will guide and teach their children many good things. They also will truly take care their children and protect them from doing negative things which can spoil their children’s future.

    Other than that, the teenagers are not fully prepared by mentally and physically. So they should be guided by parents or other older adult relatives. It is because nowadays teenagers who aged between 15-18years old easily can be influenced by others to do immoral activities. For example, teenagers involve themselves in open sex and it is mostly happen in secondary school children. Because of that many teenage girls getting pregnant before married. This thing can spoil the teenage girl’s life. So the teenagers who under care of parents and other adult relatives will think about their parents before they do any negative things. By this they can avoid from this kind of negative things happen.

    Nowadays parents are more concern to their children’s studies. It is because those days’ people not give importance to studies. They will always think about earning money for their family members and for their future. So those days’ people will go to work in early stage and not give importance to studies. But nowadays, studies are one off the most important thing in life to live peacefully in future. So parents do not want their children go trough whatever they experience in their life. They also don’t wan their children to repeat the same mistakes because in age 15-18years old they have two important exams such as PMR and SPM.

    At last as a conclusion, parents are the person who really care and guide the teenage children in good way and able to make most correct decision in teenagers life. So, teenagers in age between 15-18years old should listen to parents taught and follow it. By this, the teenage children go trough peacefully in their life and get a bright future.

    SHARMELA D/O MANOKARAN.
    J09DN0145.

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  8. NAME: NUR ASMA BINTI OTHMAN
    MATRIC NUMBER: JO9DN0114
    Nowadays teenager which is 15 to 18 years old is matured enough to do their own decision. I totally disagree if parents make important decision for them. They are grow up enough to make a correct decision for their own future. They still can ask their parents opinion but let them decide which way they want to follow. Sometime have parents that really care to their child until the smallest or simple thing they will decide. This is not good because they need to accept everything eventhough they do not like their parents decision.
    Benefit if we let them do their own decision are a lot. One of it is when they are 15 years old they need to decide which course they will take for form four whether science class ,economic class, art class and others. Parents want the best for their child so they will force their child to have pure science class without ask they like or not. Parents think if their child take art or economic class they will do not have bright future. For me let them make their own decision because they are the only one who have right to choose their future looks like. They will look many aspect to make a decision because only they know which subject they most interested and occupied their ability . This is good because they will use their critical mind to think and be independent.
    They will stimulate their skill if they do own decision. Example, if they like to write or drawing. They will use their skill to make such wonderful picture by using their art skill. Not all people can draw and only certain people have that ability. Nowadays, by sell one picture the can get thousand of money which is more expensive compare doctor salary one month. All people can write and create a story or poem. Unfortunately, they writing do not have any quality. Different to people who have really like to write they will learn to make such a perfect writing by using their skill in term of language. Imagine if this child do not love to become a doctor but their parents force them to be a doctor. They will stress and suffered or maybe this will cause them suicide because to stress.
    At the age 17 to 18 teenager will have desire to know opposite sex of them. They will start to fall in love. Parents should not stop their desire because this is normal at their age . let them know love and be friend with opposite sex. This will increases their experience and knowledge not only for relationship but also the meaning of true friendship. They know which friends is good for them. Parents can’t control everything include which one they should be friend and which one their child should not be friend with. As a parent we must know what our child want and try to know their friends by invite their friends come to house and have some conversation. If their parents do not like their child friends. Parents can give advice to their child and tell why they do not like. Let them think and decide because parents just meet their for several hours but their child know better. Teenager nowadays can differentiate which one is good or not.
    As a conclusion what I can said it there have several things that parents can decide for their child but they must know what actually their child want. Give opportunity to their child to make their own important decision. This will make they become more matured in thinking and smart to make decision. Parents should not too force their child to follow all their decision because this will give impact to their child actually such as they prone to stress. Stress can cause them to involve in bad activity such as smoking, drink alcohol and others. Parents should know their child desire and understand them very well. As long as parents support them in their interest they will do the best as prizes for their parents.

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  9. NAME: NUR ASMA BINTI OTHMAN
    MATRIC NUMBER: JO9DN0114
    Nowadays teenager which is 15 to 18 years old is matured enough to do their own decision. I totally disagree if parents make important decision for them. They are grow up enough to make a correct decision for their own future. They still can ask their parents opinion but let them decide which way they want to follow. Sometime have parents that really care to their child until the smallest or simple thing they will decide. This is not good because they need to accept everything eventhough they do not like their parents decision.
    Benefit if we let them do their own decision are a lot. One of it is when they are 15 years old they need to decide which course they will take for form four whether science class ,economic class, art class and others. Parents want the best for their child so they will force their child to have pure science class without ask they like or not. Parents think if their child take art or economic class they will do not have bright future. For me let them make their own decision because they are the only one who have right to choose their future looks like. They will look many aspect to make a decision because only they know which subject they most interested and occupied their ability . This is good because they will use their critical mind to think and be independent.
    They will stimulate their skill if they do own decision. Example, if they like to write or drawing. They will use their skill to make such wonderful picture by using their art skill. Not all people can draw and only certain people have that ability. Nowadays, by sell one picture the can get thousand of money which is more expensive compare doctor salary one month. All people can write and create a story or poem. Unfortunately, they writing do not have any quality. Different to people who have really like to write they will learn to make such a perfect writing by using their skill in term of language. Imagine if this child do not love to become a doctor but their parents force them to be a doctor. They will stress and suffered or maybe this will cause them suicide because to stress.

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  10. continue from they will stress and suffered....

    NAME:NUR ASMA BINTI OTHMAN
    MATRIC NUMBER: JO9DN0114


    At the age 17 to 18 teenager will have desire to know opposite sex of them. They will start to fall in love. Parents should not stop their desire because this is normal at their age . let them know love and be friend with opposite sex. This will increases their experience and knowledge not only for relationship but also the meaning of true friendship. They know which friends is good for them. Parents can’t control everything include which one they should be friend and which one their child should not be friend with. As a parent we must know what our child want and try to know their friends by invite their friends come to house and have some conversation. If their parents do not like their child friends. Parents can give advice to their child and tell why they do not like. Let them think and decide because parents just meet their for several hours but their child know better. Teenager nowadays can differentiate which one is good or not.
    As a conclusion what I can said it there have several things that parents can decide for their child but they must know what actually their child want. Give opportunity to their child to make their own important decision. This will make they become more matured in thinking and smart to make decision. Parents should not too force their child to follow all their decision because this will give impact to their child actually such as they prone to stress. Stress can cause them to involve in bad activity such as smoking, drink alcohol and others. Parents should know their child desire and understand them very well. As long as parents support them in their interest they will do the best as prizes for their parents.

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  11. Many people hold the opinion that parents or other relative adults should make important decisions for their older teenage children, since they do not want their children to make any wrong decision or mistake during the important life stage. While, I do not agree with them at all. Because age fifteen to eighteen is such a crucial period for the teenage children to form their personality, to learn how to make decisions and take responsibly of it, as well as to develop where their talent lie. No one can make the important decisions for their life but themselves. In my opinion, parents surely have many experiences in life.

    Parents often impose their thoughts on the children’s decisions since they are mature enough to come to a best determination which is suitable to their kids, but in some situations they do not. The children have their own aspirations somewhat different from what their families expect, and sometimes children’s ability can not satisfy the hope of their families. Therefore these children don’t put hard effort into what parents force them to do which leads to unexpected side effects. First, the age fifteen to eighteen, according to many research, is the time for teenage children to form their personality. They need to make their own choices and follow their own hearts. If all the decisions were made by their parents or adult relatives, we can not image where is the creative side, and where is the distinguish side of them.

    Parents in most case want their children go in a good ways, but sometimes rough ones teach them more than what are so easy. Even when their children fail or have wrong choices, experiences from life they got will make them stronger, more confident and more self-responsible and be easier to accept than what parents told them. More importantly, the children get the need of their families to overcome these failures. By this way, the children will achieve mastery of making important decisions to take steady steps into hard further life as their families don’t stand side by side with them anymore. In addition, it is also the age for the older teenage children to learn to be responsible for themselves. No matter the child is a girl or a boy, most of the important decisions in their life should be made by themselves. On one hand, children will be dependent on their parents and adult relatives' decision making and do not want to and feared to make their own decisions. How is their parents and adult relatives who made the important decisions for them pass away? How can they make their own decisions in their later life? They should have the ability to make their own decision even when they are only teenage children. On the other hand, all the decisions could be risky, who can take responsibility to the children if the decisions do not benefit? It is the child's own life, so, in order not to make anyone feel guilty or regret for the results, it should be the child who make the decisions in his own life.

    PAVANJEET
    (J09DN0132)

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  12. continue from the above

    Furthermore, parents and adult relatives should not make the important decision for the children since people are different from each other, no one knows the child better than the child himself. The child knows on which field he can be really good at, and on which field he lacks talent in.Moreover, children should also decide their own society. Parents may not need their children to mingle with other children from slum. They may not need their children to be friends with someone who always steels other people’s belongings. However, they should not force their children. Children should make a decision by themselves what kinds of friends they need to associate with. They may decide to mingle with bad friends but that will cause them understand the real life. After that, when they grow up, they will know what kinds of people should not associate with and how to prevent themselves from those people. Parents can not protect children forever; thus they should give their children a change to select their own society. . On most circumstances they only follow their own will to choose for you but ignore where your talent really lie.

    Admittedly, parents and adult relatives do all the things to make the children benefit the best and not to make wrong decisions. But they fail to notice that it is their own life and the life should be chooses by themselves. They are themselves and they should decide which direction to go but not follow their parents or adult relatives' guide. Concerning getting married, it is a purely personal question for each person, and a decision on whether to get married and to whom should be made by a person him- or herself, but not by the parents or other relatives. Though, it would be a good idea to take into account family members' opinions, so that a new member of the family would fit each of them. If some family members are not glad with the choice of a marriage partner, it will create some tension in the family.

    In conclusion, I know that all parents always want to give their children the best things. However, making all important decision for their children may make children become weak and diffident people. Giving children an opportunity to make any decision by themselves will cause them able to stand on their own feet when they grow up. But even if a teenager takes all the responsibility and take a decision solely, it may be useful to consult with other more experienced family members to abate the probability of making a wrong decision.

    PAVANJEET
    (J09DN0132)

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  13. QUESTION 6

    FARAHIN BT ROSLAN
    JO9DN0074

    INVOLVEMENT OF PARENTS AND ADULT RELATIVES IN
    MAKING IMPORTANT DECISION FOR 15-18 YEARS TEENAGE CHILDREN

    During the years of adolescence, the parents are making all the decisions for the children. In some families this tendency still takes place as the children are growing and becoming more mature. I strongly believe that starting with 15-18 years old, teenagers must start making important decisions up to their own discretion. Doing that, teenagers will become more independent, increase self-confidence and prevent themselves from unintentional mistakes their parents could make.
    First, the age fifteen to eighteen, according to many researches, is the time for teenage children to form their personality. They need to make their own choices and follow their own hearts. If all the decisions were made by their parents or adult relatives, we cannot image where is the creative side, and where is the distinguish side. The world will be lack in innovation.

    In addition, it is also the age for the older teenage children to learn to be responsible for them. No matter the child is a girl or a boy; themselves should make most of the important decisions in thier life. On one hand, children will be dependent on their parents and adult relatives' decision making and do not want to and feared to make their own decisions. How are their parents and adult relatives who made the important decisions for them pass away? How can they make their own decisions in their later life? They should have the ability to make their own decision even when they are only teenage children. On the other hand, all the decisions could be risky, who can take responsibility to the children if the decisions do not benefit? It is the child's own life, so, in order not to make anyone feel guilty or regret for the results, it should be the child who make the decisions in his own life.

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    Furthermore, parents and adult relatives should not make the important decision for the children since people are different from each other, no one knows the child better than the child himself. The child knows on which field he can be really good at, and on which field he lacks talent in. On most circumstances they only follow their own will to choose for you but ignore where your talent really lie.

    Admittedly, parents and adult relatives do all the things to make the children benefit the best and not to make wrong decisions. But they fail to notice that it is their own life and the life should be choosing by them. They are themselves and they should decide which direction to go but not follow their parents or adult relatives' guide.

    Summarizing, I adhere to the opinion, that in age of 15-18 years old, teenagers can and ought to act up to their own discretion making important decisions by themselves. Indeed, it teaches them how to be independent, increases their self-confidence and protects them from possible mistakes of their parents

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  15. Question 6
    Title: Important decision for teenage
    Talking about the family society is a big matter. Family society has played the main role to induct their family member. Each of family member should take participate to ensure the institution is harmony and happy. For the statement of parent or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children, I absolutely disagree with this statement. Yes we must admit that parent they want to see that their child growth as the use man or women. They don’t want their child be the useless people. Therefore I think teenage have a right to select their own life but does mean they have to leave behind their parent.
    As teenage, I think I deserve my right to choose what I like including my education, friends and also my career. For education term, if the parent forces their children just for their need for example they force their children to learn about medical but the child like to learn the art. Children don’t like to be force, if they don’t like something maybe they can’t reach to successful level. Only do children themselves know what they are really interested. Parent can be the guidance and advise the children in what they doing. Parent should support their children decision.
    Moreover, children should also decide their own society and friend. Parents may not need their children to mingle with other children from slum. They may not need their children to be friends with someone who always steels other people’s belongings. However, they should not force their children. Children should make a decision by themselves what kind of friends they need to associate with. If parent don’t like their children friend, they should talk to their children. As offspring to both parents, we should consider what parent have advise, this is because they don’t want we to repeated what they just doing in their teenage life. Parents can’t protect children forever; thus they should give their children a change to select their own society.
    Finally, children should select their own job and career. Parent should support what their children want to be. If their children like to be the architecture, let them reach their dream. Yes, I admit that parents may not need their children to work very far from their own home. They may not want their children to work for a small company. However, children may think that working far away can broaden their society. Moreover, small company may be able to give them a good position. Parents, thus, should respect children’s decision.

    In conclusion, I know that all parents always want to give their children the best things. However, making all important decision for their children may make children become weak and diffident people. Giving children an opportunity to make any decision by themselves will cause them able to stand on their own feet when they grow up.
    NAME: NADIA NUR AINA BINTI SHAMSUDDIN
    MATRIX NO: J09DN0100

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  16. As we grow in our life we learn many things, from teachers, parents or some other experienced person. We face many failures and achievements both give us some bad and good experiences. By facing all ups and down of life we become mature enough to take better decisions. Same is with our parents or other adult who are older than us they have gained ample of knowledge from their experiences. I think parents or other older relatives can make important decisions for their teenage children. Parents have seen this world more than teenagers; they can understand better that what is right or what is wrong for them.

    Whether parents or other adults should make important decisions for older teenagers is a matter some debate. While some argue that young adults need guidance from their parents or older relatives, others believe that young adults should be allowed to make their own decisions. I believe teenagers should be allowed to make all of their own decisions as they will both learn from their mistakes and develop a sense of responsibility.

    Second, children’s from fifteen to eighteen years old like to have some privacy in their lives and to live in the way and style that they like to live. Also, when parents make important decisions for their child then there is also a possibility that the child will not be convinced by his parent’s decisions. For instance, when a child needs to decide for which county to travel for education his parents might decide for him to go for Paris, but the child might want to go to Canada so that he wouldn’t miss his friends that he had in the school. As a result, the child might not work hard to achieve his parent’s aims, as he will not be motivated and convinced with them.

    In addition, it is also the age for the older teenage children to learn to be responsible for themselves. No matter the child is a girl or a boy, most of the important decisions in their life should be made by themselves. On one hand, children will be dependent on their parents and adult relatives' decision making and do not want to and feared to make their own decisions. How is their parents and adult relatives who made the important decisions for them pass away? How can they make their own decisions in their later life? They should have the ability to make their own decision even when they are only teenage children. On the other hand, all the decisions could be risky, who can take responsibility to the children if the decisions do not benefit? It is the child's own life, so, in order not to make anyone feel guilty or regret for the results, it should be the child who make the decisions in his own life.

    So, as a conclusion, I can say that it is true that adults should made decisions for their teenage children. Children need guidance to do something such as in their choosing, their life. Without parents or adults, children cannot do everything in a right ways. They have sense of advising enhanced solution for any problem. They should make decisions for wellbeing of new generation. So, our generation will be a good and quality generation.

    Norfazrihan Binti Yunus
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  17. SHUBASHINI A/P MOHAN
    J09DN0147
    Age of 15 is the age of numerous changes in one person. Children at this age always want to express themselves and make their own decisions. But anyway parents still should make important decisions for their over 15 year-old children.

    The first reason for this is that no one understands children as well as their parents. Parents know what their children want, what they need and they make the best decisions for them. These decisions are very essential and useful. They help children a lot, bring them in a right direction to develop. For instance, parents should decide which school their children will attend. A good school will benefit children a lot, bring them a pleasant condition that they can improve their knowledge and skills much more remarkably.

    Second, if children are allowed to make their own decisions, they are likely to get in a lot of troubles. Therefore they not only can't learn anything from their mistakes but also can be put in an extremely stressful state. This is very not good because it will distract children from their studies, make them always feel confused and disheartened. Moreover, children who cannot cope with the stress may commit suicide. This will remain heart-rending suffering for the children' family.

    In addition, nowadays lots of parents, especially who divorced, indulge their children. They give their children a lot of money, allow them to do everything, to make any decisions. By this means, they are spoiling their children as immature children with no control of parents are probably become corrupt. They will have no interest in studying, all day hang out with the others or maybe commit social evil. These results of children making decisions are disastrous and can harm a lot to society.

    In conclusion, parents should be who direct and make important decisions for their teenaged children. Teenagers who follow their parents' advices will have a good preparation for their future lives.

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  18. Parents Should Make Important Decision For Their
    (15 to18 year-old Teenage Children

    Parents are our first teachers and friends. From me I have to agree that, the important decisions should be made by our parents or adult relatives. For example parents decide in our clothing in order to maintain the good name of the family. There are some reasons to support my statements. First of all, teenage children above 15 years old, they think that they have the tendency to live in their own without depends to their parents. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. Teenagers are basically is want to be independence and try to be freedom.

    Second of all, I think that parents have right to interfere in their children's lives. They need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their time with them and the behavioural of the friends. This is because, nowadays some of the parents found out that, the teenagers are influenced in negative habits. For example, taking drugs, smoking and some of them influenced to the sexual activities.

    The parents wants their children to be good in all of the ways. For examples, in their studies, sports and so on. Besides that, parents have some ambitions and ideas about their children carrier since they are small. So they can choose their childrens carrier well with discussing with them. For example for the Form 4 students, they can choose in which division they want to continue their studies, either science or arts stream. So, the parents are more well-known about their children studies level and giving their opinion on what division of studies should their children have to continue.

    Finally, parents have many experiences in their life and they went through it. So, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes. Besides that, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best in their life.

    R.Chandara Khala
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  19. NOASHIKIN BINTI MOHD NARAWI
    J09DN0104
    QUESTION 6
    Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children. Use specific reasons and examples to support your opinion.
    Children are just like a white sheet. It depends on their parents on how to bring them up. It goes the same to the teenage. It is their responsible on guide the children so that they are not become useless people in the future. By the way, parents should not decide all the things on behalf of their children. This is because; the children might have their wants and dream. In my point of view, I am not support the idea of parents should make the important decision for their 15 to 18 year-old children because the children might have their own agenda, the children have to be brave to make decision for themselves, and parents should not use the power as a parents to force their children.
    Teenage are growing up. The children may have their own dream and wants. They might be look at their idol or anyone around them, and try to be like them. As a parent, they should observe their children’s like, and courage them in a nice way. Parents should give them guide and give them the way on how to achieve their dream.
    A child is not forever a child. As they are grown up, parents should give them chance to make their own decision. This is such a kind of teaching a child to do an important decision and think back to take the risk that may come. This will lead to a mature thinking in children.
    Parents as a guardian. We all know the fact. In that case, they should not use their power to force their children to obey all their wants. Sometimes, parents should be compromise in order to fulfill their children wishes.
    As a conclusion, a good communication is important in a family, so that the important decision can be make together.

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  20. The issue stated by the topic is weather or not parents should make important decisions for their teenager children. In my opinion, parents are in most cases our first teachers and friends and from my everyday experience. I have to agree with the statement that important decisions should be made by our parents or other adult relatives.

    First of all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. When I was 18 years old I thought that the world was perfect and everything seemed to be simple. Teenagers are basically inexperienced; they aspire for independence and try to make their first steps towards freedom. I think that it is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support. An independent life is a big and significant part in a person's life. So, my point is that it is very important to make this step right.

    Second of all, I think that parents have right to interfere in their children's lives. They need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their spare time. For example, I had an eighteen years old friend who got really angry with his parents when they prohibited him to be friends with a young man. Somehow his parents found out that that young man was occasionally hot tempered. He always beat my friends until one day she becomes fainting. After that incident, my friend thanked his parents for that interference.

    Finally, parents should make important decision for their children because people just say that by making important decision on their own can make a child mature, but this is not the right time for testing the maturity level. For example, if a teenager chooses a subject for higher education, then there will be some chance that they will not survive with that subject and they will fail in the examination. Parents know their child very well, they know their children capabilities, and so they will always choose better option for their children.

    We are just teenagers and lack of experience about real life. We should listen to the people who love and understand us the most is our parents and other relatives. To sum up, I believe strongly that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best.

    MARIYAH ULFAH BT SUBAWEH
    J09DN0083

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  22. SHAVINA A/P SURANDARARAJAN
    J09DN0146

    In my opinion, parents surely have many experiences in life, but this doesn’t mean that they should make important decisions for their children by themselves. During the years of adolescence, all the decisions for the children are being made by their parents. I strongly believe that starting with 15-18 years old, teenagers must start making important decisions up to their own discretion. By doing so teenagers become more independent, increase self-confidence and prevent themselves from unintentional mistakes their parents could be made.

    First of all, sooner or later child will be in situations when he must do his own choice. Seventeen years old is exactly the age when teenagers are applying for the college and, therefore, have to leave their home and live away from their families. If one was always told what to do by his parents, he would not be able to make such basic decisions alone. Therefore, making their own decisions in the early stages of teenage years will give children necessary experience, indispensable for living alone.

    Secondly, observations of your own successful decisions will increase self-confidence in personality of the child. Positive experience will make teenagers believe in themselves and act decisively in the future. My cousins, Viraj, was seventeen years old when he won a lottery. Despite his parents wanted him to put these money on the bank account, they let Viraj to make his own choice how to spend it. Viraj bought a stock which had tripled in the half of year. It was the right decision which Viraj did by himself. Therefore, making their own decision, children strengthen confidence in themselves.

    Finally, parents should not try to help their teenage children by making decisions that are inherently wrong. If teenagers made they own choice which school and program to apply for, probably, parents are not necessarily the best ones for their teenagers who can come up with more effective solutions.

    Summarizing, I adhere to the opinion, that in age of 15-18 years old, teenagers can and ought to act up to their own discretion making important decisions by themselves.

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  23. The generation gap, the problem of parents and children is the one of most serious problems in the world. Parents give life to their children, they give them an education and up-bringing, take care about them. However, I firmly believe that parents shouldn't always make an important decision for their children.
    First, parents as experienced adult should lead their children into experienced ones too,making all important decisions which might be a crucial lesson for them should be prohibited. Theoretically, making a decision is almost the same as solving a Mathematics problem since one uses his experience and knowledge to overcome such tasks. In fact, having parents decide what to do all the time for children, which like teachers always indicate solutions, deteriorates their judging skill. As death is inevitable, parents should recognize that one day they exist nowhere, they should let their children make a decision by themselves so that they can manage how to make a decision better in long run.
    Only children themselves know what is inside their deepest urge. Parents' advice might be fine in their point of views but not in children's point of views. Believe me, obligating children to follow their parents' pace will lead to a failure in the future.

    Parents should perceive that we, teenagers, want to act like we're now mature so the best thing to do is just giving us love and information not a pure decision. n everyday life, we have to face problems in making a decision; the decisions we made now can payback to us anytime. The better one knows how to make a proper decision, the better for him to grow into a promising adult. The thing is parents shouldn't help their children in making a decision by tell them what to do because that might make their children into inexperienced adult, contrast to their ideas and disgrace them.
    Children should realize that parents because of their life experience sometimes are able to make more correct decision than a child himself. Parents, on the other hand, should not to intervene every time in life of their teenage children and give them an opportunity to make their own decisions, their own mistakes. Anyway, parents should respect their child's choice and admit the right of child to make his own decision, especially in important questions of life as choice of profession.
    At last, child has to get a responsibility for his decisions, so that he could not tell in any unlucky result that it was his parents' fault because they did not give him a freedom in actions. Sometimes it is very important just prompt to child a right way, but not to press on him. Intelligent parents behave like that and they have fewer problems with their teenage children.

    NASRAH HASHIM
    J09DN0102

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  25. Nowadays, teenage tends to make their own decision. They are mature enough to deny total care because it impedes their development. In another hands, mother and father strive to make decisions instead of their teenage children, because they consider them not clever enough for making their own decisions. Parents are in most cases our first teachers and friends. That is the facts that we can’t denied from the very beginning. I strongly agreed with the statement that important decisions should be made by our parents or adult relatives.

    First of all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. Is this a reality or just their fantasy? Teenagers are basically inexperienced; they aspire for independence and try to make their first steps towards freedom. I think that it is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support. An independent life is a big and significant part in a person's life. So, my point is that it is very important to make this step right.

    Second of all, children, from their side, becoming teenagers do not realize themselves like babies, they consider that know everything in this world and think that parents get nothing in the modern life, so they cannot help them to make correct decisions. Children want to rush out from parents' concern; they are attracted by adult life. I think that parents have right to interfere in their children's lives. They need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their spare time. Children should realize that parents help them because of their life experience sometimes are able to make more correct decision than a child himself.

    Finally, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes. Child has to get a responsibility for his decisions, so that he could not tell in any unlucky result that it was his parents' fault because they did not give him a freedom in actions. Sometimes it is very important just prompt to child a right way, but not to press on him.

    To sum up, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best.

    NAME:MUHAMMAD AIZAD BIN LUDIN
    MATRIX NO:J09DN0096

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  26. Teenagers are the middle age after growing up from the children and before being an adult to make proper decisions in life. Teenagers are defined from the age of 13 until 24. Although after many years of freedom from the Britain and the Japanese, there are small groups of parents making important decision for their children whom are in the age of 15 until 18 especially. Why is this so? Why the parents are doing so?
    I strongly agree that parents should make important decisions for their children whom are in the age of 15 until 18. It is simply because the teenagers are not matured enough to make decisions in their lives. The decisions that the teenagers are taking in this age by their own would affect their lives in future. It would even affect the names of the family in future. For an instance, this is the age where most of the teenagers mislead their lives by falling in love with the opposite sex. Indirectly due to this puppy love, the teenagers wouldn’t hesitate to run away with the person that they are attracted to and this would lead to bad names to the family due to their misbehaviour.
    Firstly, parents take important decision in the teenagers’ lives because they want us to have the best in everything that we do in our lives. For an instance, our parents know us from the head until the toe, so they know what is needed in our lives according to our age. They even take decision about our future on what college are we supposed to enrol to further on our studies. As for me, my parents do take the important decision in my life such as sending me to the right college according to my capability.
    Secondly, parents do take important decision in teenagers’ lives to avoid us from repeating the mistakes that our parents did previously during their teenage age. As for my uncle, he made a huge mistake in his life until he regrets until now. In the age where he was supposed to gain knowledge in his high school he begun to skip his classes and enjoy with his friends by watching movies. Now, he has ended up working in a factory as a labour due to his attitude during teenage.
    As a conclusion, based on my opinion, parents should really take important decisions in lives to avoid misleading in lives. As the saying goes, prevention is better than cure.

    Name : Evelyn Sharmini
    Matrix No : J09DN0071

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  27. PARENTS SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR TEENAGE CHILDREN (15 – 18 YEARS OLD)

    Nowadays teenagers are more likely want to make their own decisions without knowing it is good or not. Parents should interfere in this matter so that their children will not be influence to unhealthy activities such as drug addict, smoking and others. This kind of social problem should not be happen to teenagers.
    A social problem is a condition that at least some people in a community view as being undesirable. Everyone would agree about some social problems, such as murders and DWI traffic deaths. Other social problems may be viewed as such by certain groups of people. Teenagers who play loud music in a public park obviously do not view it as a problem, but some other people may consider it an undesirable social condition. Some nonsmokers view smoking as an undesirable social condition that should be banned or restricted in public buildings.
    Every newspaper is filled with stories about undesirable social conditions. Examples include crime, violence, drug abuse, and environmental problems. Such social problems can be found at the local, state, national and international levels.
    There are many social problems that teenagers go threw. Drugs and Teenagers Drug use is the increasing problem among teenagers in today’s high schools. Most drug use begins in the preteen and teenage years, these years most crucial in the maturation process. During these years adolescents are faced with difficult tasks of discovering their self identity, clarifying their sexual roles, assenting independence, learning to cope with authority and searching for goals that would give their lives meaning. Drugs are readily, adolescents are curious and venerable, and there is peer pressure to experiment, and there us a temptation to escape from conflicts. The use of drugs by teenagers is the result of a combination of factors such as peer pressure, curiosity, and availability. Drugs addiction among adolescents in turn leads to depression and suicide.One of the most important reasons of teenage drug usage is peer pressure. Peer pressure represents social influences that effect adolescents, it can have a positive or a negative effect, depending on person’s social group and one can follow one path of the other.
    The conclusion is parents should be more often to see their children behavior so that they will not be a bad teenagers that will bring trouble to their own family. Teenagers also should listen to parents advice and remember it.
    Matrix Number : J09DN0090
    Name : MOHD FAIZ BIN JAMALUDIN

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  29. ARIFFNOR BIN AZMI
    J09DN0067

    Have you met or asked maybe a friend of yours that frequently experienced problems in making decision toward something that maybe for some of his or her friends among the group (15 years to 18 years old) had been given full authority to go on with their own decisions such as in making friends or to choose their favourite educational track? For myself honestly, by the age of 15 to 18 almost all the big issues of mine was made by my parents such as choosing the best stream that suite with my result. But ,is not a very big deal for me, as I mostly agreed with all that have been decide for me, because before I asked for their opinion, I also had come out with my own opinion and perception toward something. My task is to explains all the rationale, so that they will put my condition as their first priority before making the final decision.

    And for that, I agreed that parents or adult relatives should take part actively in making important decision for their teenage especially for those between the age of 15 to 18 years old. The first reason is, at this moment teenage will experienced the biggest changes in their physical, mental and emotional developments because of hormonal changes activity. And for that, they should be guide purposely in making the right choice for their own good since this moment onward. Although parents should give their kids some spaces and freedom to come out with their own decision, but to make sure they got the best for their life, parents should observed and monitor those decisions with fair judgement especially in matter related to their study field and choosing the right friends.

    Another reason that should be understand, at this age level, teenage were easily been influenced by anything that attract their minds and hearts or something that really closed to them without thinking clearly about all the possible consequences regarding their action. For example, about love and friendship at the early ages. Maybe for myself that came from a single gender residential school it’s not a big problem in controlling our desire to have a close relationship with the opposite sex from other school, because our top most focus had been tuned to achieve the best grade in our study. But, how about other teenagers out there which from the ordinary school? They are more prone to experience close relationship with opposite

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    sex or in other word falling in love. For me, it is not a wrong thing if we fell in love with someone if we can manage the relationship for good. What do I means is, the relationship will be worth if both couples always motivate and compete to each other in achieving better result. But the problem occurred when the main focus had been diverted into something bad such as having a sexual intercourse before married either with one partners or many without knowing the complications. And before all these happened or become worst, parents should strictly made a decision for their kids or at least, allowed their teenage to make their own decision under some conditions. Other than that, one of the simplest ways to monitor their teenage buddies is by meeting them face to face. By that, parents should be able to identify whether their kids have chosen the right buddy or not.

    Another rationale reason why I said that, parents should help their teenage making the best decision is because; they do not want them to repeat the same mistake as their parents did. Because of generation gap, sometime the misunderstanding arose between the two generations. Both side wants to defend their opinions and egos, but for myself in personal, I rather follow my parents decisions because of their experienced, maturity and care. Just tell me, which of the parents want to destroy their teenage life? Moreover, they always ready to sacrifice everything they have just to see their children life worthy. But teenage nowadays, mostly disagreed with their parents acts. They forced their parents to understand themselves and their conditions by asking them to stop all the nonsense lectures, advices and over control things with rationale they had grown up and matured enough to make their own decision.

    In short, it’s not a matter either needs parent roles in making important decisions or giving total freedom to the teenage to pick the best for their life. The most important thing is, all the decisions should be worthy and it will never hurts anyone feelings. Just like my mom always said, “Life is an option, but times that create life never give us option”. For me in personal, I always take into consideration few things before making any decision such as the impact of my action to myself or anybody around me and whether those actions will grant me a valuable experience in the future.

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  31. Parents or adult should make important decision for their teenage children.
    What is mean by children? Children mean a young person of either sex especially one between infancy and youth, hence one who exhibits the characteristics of a very young person as innocence, obedience, trustfulness and limited understanding. So that, in this situation I am strongly agree that parents should make an important decisions for their children.
    Children tend to change their personal appearance looking. One of that is fashion. Fashion not only applied to clothes but also to the whole life. Some of it was harmless enough. Throughout history, the instinct to confirm to current clothing styles wore school uniform, in leisure hours, adult clothing. The t-shirt and jeans culture was born, the t-shirts carrying anti-establishment legends, references to hard left social policies, the lure of uncontrolled sex, the support of homosexuality, the attraction of the ‘drop out’ culture and the wonders of the fast growing hallucinatory drug scene.
    Other than that, children also tend to attract other sex. Sure enough at this stage, children will have their psychological changes. They confuse with what are the best for themselves. Children starting learn to gossip. Gossip is malicious talk about someone behind his or her back. Usually, girls will gossip about a boy with their peers. Even though when they fall in love with someone, they will share their feeling to their friends. This may lead children tend to listen what their friends opinion and take a short mind and conclude it as final decision.
    Besides that, discipline make for respect which is the creation or development of self-esteem in motivation. Discipline becomes important because there is a realization that we owe something to the aspirations of parents, whose expectations spring from love. Unfortunately, in some countries, many young people at age of 15-18 years become the victims of drug and anarchic manipulations and choose to opt out of responsibility. This is the reason why parents over protective to their children. They do not want their children involves in crimes. They want their children fulfill the perceived actual and potential role in the society.
    Moreover, sometimes children ‘speak louder than words’. This was common problem to parents that do not have time to spend more with their child. Parents busy with their personal life such as working, handling their family or own business, outstations for earn money for family income. So that, parents not have much communications with them. It also makes their children not practice a good manner such as how to speak with older people than them. This scenario occurs because children spend more time with their friends than parents. If we see nowadays, children show their rude manners which do not have their respect when talking to a person. Even they talk to their parents, they talk to them like talking with their friends. So that, parents must take serious to build their child manner which is not only for

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    their child good, but it also make people respect with the parents success build their child to be good.
    There is a broad way for their children persuade their study. Besides that, their children have a lot of choice to choose for their profession soon. Usually, children that go for science stream will success with good profession such as doctor, engineer, teacher and so on.
    Children brought up with a religious background believe prayers are always answered. One day, when I was small girl, I had been stopped by my father from doing something I wanted to do, and I was angry. It came to bedtime, and prayers. Finally ‘God bless’. So I said with my father present, ‘God Bless mum, granny, grandpa and all of my siblings’. It took me some years to realize that God takes a rather more sophisticated view of our prayer life. So that, parents must take an important role to shows a good examples to their child.
    Perhaps, however kind parents may be to their children, their conduct to each other is not always perfect. If we are fortunate as young children, we tend to idealize parental relationships. Differences soon become apparent, however another illusion is soon shattered. Final illusion to go the same way be attributed to a strong body and a good constitution, we as a child must appreciate our parents.
    RUZIANA BINTI ANUAR
    J09DN0138

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  33. Nurfarhanah Binti Ahmad Fadillah
    J09DN0124

    Teenagers nowadays are so different and always trying to do something different and something beyond expectations in their life. This is because they are so growing up and need a lot of educations in themselves whether from the parents or other adult relatives. Average age for teenage children is considered among 15 until 18 years old. But the question here is should the parents or other adult relatives make important decisions for their teenage children? In my opinion I totally agree this is because teenage are still need more guidance than the old.
    Moreover they are still had not reached a high level of maturity in their life because they are still in a high school yet not in a higher education for example college and university. They completely need guidance from their parents until they can reach a high level of maturity because they are not mentally stable. Besides, actually teenage children can also be considering as a matured people, but I think they are not completely mature to make important decisions. For example the parents need to choose the best school for their children.
    Apart from that, the mother or father wants us to be the best on our life. Maybe because they don’t want us to repeated same mistakes when they are younger. For example choosing the wrong friends. Thus to know with whom our children are being friend, we can invites their friend into our house. Thus by seeing their attitude such as the way they talk, eating and sitting on chair we can see their bad or good mannerism.
    Additional parents nowadays are still thinking that, by giving full protection to their children they can make their children save from any dangerous. For example from the snatcher and kidnapping. This is to prevent from bad life. This is because the world today has changed, and many adverse events may occur to their children. Definitely, the parent will provide a car from the beginning to the end of the school and will never let their children walk alone.
    Last but not least we also should give them a little bit of space to think and try making their own decision until they can be independent one day. Thus by this way, they will not feel depression and trapped in their life. Because some parents are over protected until they don’t want the children to get out from their house and never give to do any activities.

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  34. NAME:NUR RAIHANA BINTI ROSLU
    MATRIX NUM:J09DN0119
    WEEK 2 QUESTION 6

    Parents are in most cases our first teachers and friends. From my everyday experience I have to agree with the statement that important decisions should be made by our parents or adult relatives. In the following paragraphs I will give my reasons to support this statement.

    First of all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. As my own experience, when I was 18 years old I thought that the world was perfect and everything seemed to be simple. Teenagers are basically inexperienced; they aspire for independence and try to make their first steps towards freedom. I think that it is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support. An independent life is a big and significant part in a person's life. So, my point is that it is very important to make this step right.

    Second of all, I think that parents have right to interfere in their children's lives. They need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their leisure time. For example, I had an experience of arguing about boys with my girl friend. She try to hit me just because her boyfriend wants to be friend with me. If I not allowing my parents to interfere, definitely I’ve been beaten by that girl, and finally the case was settled and found that I’m not guilty.

    Finally, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes. To sum up, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best. Even if their children do wrong, they still accept and willing to help so that their children will be better. Teenagers must realize that parents had gone through many obstacles first so they are more experienced in any aspects. If they not taking us to the bad aspects, so I think definitely teenagers need to allow and accept their parents’ guide for a better future.

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  36. Name:Nurshafiqah munirah
    Matrix number: JO9DN0126
    PARENTS OR OTHER ADULT RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR (15 TO 18 YEARS-OLD) TEENAGE CHILDREN

    Teenagers are the middle age after growing up from the children and before being an adult to make proper decisions in life. Teenagers are defined from the age of 13 until 24. Mostly teenagers more prefer to decide their own decision on their life without accept any suggestion from their parents and any relative. Continue to the title, I totally agree on that topic parent should make important decision for their teenage child because our parents more know better than child.
    Most of the parent will care about their child life because they all want the best among the best to their child. The most important decision that parent must care is about education, most of the child after PMR they want to continue their further study, to take SPM examination they should fine the best to continue study in science, accountant or etc. Normally parent will make decision for the child and it is also to create a future of their child. Besides that, parent will follow and setting ambition for their child so that their child will be a perfect person letter.
    Beside that, why parent should make important decision to their child is to care about the social life and to prevent their child from prematal sexs. Mostly some child after finished their school life they more reefer to find work at city or town. Parent should prevent their child if they want go far away from home to prevented any bad moral because parent can’t observe the child.
    Furthermore, parent should take important decision for their child is to control the behaviour of child and also to change the style of child. Parents should more understand their child so that if parent make are decision for the child, the child will followed. Besides that, it is the one way to prevent the child from wrong affairs.
    One more why parent should make important decision for the child is on age 15-18 child mentally is unstable because they not have many experience on life and the parent do not child do a same mistake in life.
    As the conclusions, parent must do decisions for the child for the child life, and beside that it is to make sure that the child gets the best among the best in life because parent already done learn about life and they got many experience before this.

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  37. Nowadays, many social problems such as truancy, vandalism, bully, and others occur in our country. After an investigation done, most of school students involved with this problem, especially secondary school. So, I am agreeing if parents or adult relatives should make important decisions for their teenage within 15 to 18 years old.
    As a child, decision that make from parents is a good things for their future. One of the important decisions that parents should make is about friends that their children choose. It is to identify either their friends have a good behaviour or not. It also to prevent their friends gives a bad influence for their children such as vandalism, smoking, bully, and others.
    Besides that, parents also have their right to setting up an ambition for their children in future. For my opinion, the children should understand what their parents make for their life because it is all for their benefits. For example, in age 16 years. Students should choose either want to continue their study in sciences stream or art stream. In this situation, they should discuss with their parents and get opinion from them to ensure the right choose. It is because as parents, they know about their children’s interest.
    Furthermore, in this range of ages, their thinking is not fully rational and they still in pre-matured. So, parents as a protective to prevent their children influenced with the bad things such as country shock, social life, and others. The other rational that parents should make the decision for their children because they don’t want them repeated the same mistake like they are younger. The parents also want the best thing for their children’s life in future because of their bad experience in past.
    Even though, in this age, they are already become teenagers, but they still cannot think rationally and confused with their life because of psychological changes. So, parents should be like good friends for them to share all the problems either about study or relationship. Furthermore in this age, they more attract to entertainments and social life such as gossip, fashion, and others. So, parents should make decision to limit their activities and focus to study.
    Last but not least, it does not meant the teenagers cannot make own decision, but for important things for their future, parents should have right to ensure their children have a good future. For my opinion, all parents want to see their children have a good life in future. So, we must trust all the decision that parents make for them.

    Sharifah Nurhadaina bt. Syed Baharuddin
    J09DN0144

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  38. Nadzirah Ahmad Nazri J09DN0101
    Parents or other adult relatives should make important decision for their 15 until 18 year old teenage child .In my opinion, I do not agree the statement. Since I lived in my family , I think I more prefer to do my own decision in select of my own education , my friends, my job and everything in my life or my future as long as not bad to me.
    Children should decide what they need to learn .only children by themselves know what they are really interested. After I was finish my high schools, my parent give a chance to decide my faculty that I wanted to continue in a university or college. Moreover, they know the best things that I made. They also share and always give information of each faculty. I very excited because they give a trust to me .they also give financial support when I need to take courses for entrances examination or interview to enter university or college. My parents, however never force me to select any faculty before . I very happy because successful in my education simply because my parents never made decision to me. I very lucky have the parents that supported me at the back to do anything in my life.
    In addition, children also decided their own friend and who need to social with. They may not need to be friends with someone. However, they should not force their children .children should be themselves kind of friends they need to communicate and associate with .only themselves know their behavior and attitude of friends. They may decide to mingle with bad friends but that will cause them understand the real live. After that, when they grow up they not be culture shock and know kind of people should associated with and how to prevent themselves from those people. Parents cannot protect children forever but they only give an advised to get a change to select of friends.
    Finally, children should select their own job. Parents may not need their children to work very far from their own home. They may not want their children to work for a small company. However, children may think that working far away can broaden their society. Moreover, small company may be able to give them a good position. Parents, thus, should respect children’s decision.
    In conclusion, I know that all parents always want to give their children the best things. However, making all important decision for their children may make children become weak and diffident people. Giving children an opportunity to make any decision by themselves will cause them able to stand on their own feet when they grow up.

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  39. Q2 WEEK 2
    In my opinion, I agree with the following statement which is parent or other adult relatives should make important decision for their older 15-18 years old. This is because, when we want to make decision, especially the important decision, we want to get the best decision. We must thankful to the God because we have both parent who can take care of our life.
    Our parent want the best for us. This is because, they want to see we success in our life. We can’t think what are they make is bad for us. Sometimes, when they make the decision for us, we can feel hurt and do not like that decision at all. But, all the hurt decision is good for us.
    Otherwise, we will feel regret what we have done. Nowadays, a lot of teenagers can’t accept what are the parent want. Sometimes, they left their sweet home and do not listen to their parent any more. In certain time, they can realize, what are the parent’s decision is good for them. So, they will return to their sweet home. This is also, they do not their parent feel worry any more. In addition, when they become older, they can think and they can feel regret about what they did in the past.
    Besides that, parent is the most understand about their children. For example, although my parent is draughtswoman and draughtsman, but they want me to be a nurse in my future. My parents said, nursing is a good career for nowadays children. From the beginning, I do not like nursing. But, maybe the decision they make is good for me. So, I followed their decision. Now, I feel when I followed their decision, I feel God always bless me in my study. This is pray from my lovely parent.
    Other than that, we think we have mature enough and can make our decision by own. We are totally wrong actually. This is because, we cannot think in a good manner. From this age, a feel all the teenagers used their ego to make a decision.
    In addition, our parent have enough experienced in their life. So, they do not want we do same mistakes like them before. This is because, they know what are the good and the bad thing. They also do not we feel hurt from any angle. They want we as their children know what are the best thing in our life.
    As a conclusion, we should listen to the people who are love and take care about us, which is our parent and other relatives. They want the best thing in their children life.
    Nur Afiqah Binti Borhannordin J09DN0111

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  40. Most parents feel they are have a right to help choose their children’s career.Many young people,however,feel that this is a choice which affects the rest of their lives and therefore, they think any decision about their lives,the should be made on their own.But I agree parents should make important devisions for their teenage children.
    Generally,all parents have the experience and would be in a better position to give advice on job opportunities and career prospects.Sometimes,however young people do not base their choices on facts but on feelings.Parents also have a right to get involved in their children’s lives because they are paying for their children’s education.It seems unreasonable not to allow parents to at least voice their preferences.Whether or not the children agree with them is another matter.
    Parents also have know their children better than the children know themselves. Children can be impulsive and may take wrong decisions.There are also some parents who want to control their children’s live because they don’t want their children influence in wrong peers such as vandalism,gangsterism,bully,truancy.They feel they must have a say in every decision their children make.These parents have already made up their minds what they want their children to be,regardless of their talents and interests.
    Parents have pay for the many money for their children’s education,they have a right to offer advice.However,parents also do not have the right to force their children to do what they do not want to do,but they have their right to give advice for their children.For example,many parents want their children to be doctor or engineers,but they also must listen to their childen’s interests and feelings.
    In my opinion,young children should seek the advice of their parents and teachers when choosing their careers.Some careers may appear glamorous,for example singing or modeling but the prospects may not be good.However, I feel,in most cases,a person has to make up his own mind after talking to a number of people,including their parents.So that,parents also have their right to give their knowledge and advice for their children’s life.
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  41. QUESTION 6

    In this globalization era, teenagers are the most important group of people for the growth and development of the country in the future. This group is define as the people who are in the middle age after growing up from the children stage before enter the early stage of an adult. For sure , they are people who is in the age of 15 to 18 years which is most of them still learning in the secondary school. In my opinion, this kind level of age people should be guided by somebody and exactly their parents and relatives for their bright future. Because of that, I strongly agree that with the statement which is parents and other adult relatives should make important decision for their teenage children.

    For the first reason, teenage children will experience the biggest changes in their life including their physical, mental and emotional development because of hormonal changes in their body. This is a premature level before they enter the age of an adult. In this stage , all of their decision will be come out without knowing it is good or bad for them because of unstable of controlling their emotion and thinking. Because of that, parent’s guidance is very important in making the right decision for their teenage children’s future either in their study field or in their lifestyle.

    Another rationale reason is the teenage children can be easily influenced by anything surrounding them that can attract their immature minds without thinking the possible consequences regarding their action. The researches state that most of the teenager students involved in many immoral things such as premature sex, bully, smoking and also vandalism because of being influenced by their closed friend. The sophisticated media also is one of the factor that contribute to the teenager’s action such as internet and television. As a prove, we can see that many of the students especially for those in the secondary school like to follow their popular artist as an idol especially the way of dressing even though it is quite sexy and not suitable for them .That is why parents should strictly make the right decision before their children’s action become worse.

    The last reason why I strongly agree with the statement is maybe the parents or other relatives does not want their teenage children repeat the same mistakes that have been done before in their previous age. This is because they are love their children so much and willing to sacrifice anything including money , time and others for their children worthy. For example, my uncle had done a big problem in his previous age which is he had done a wrong decision by following his friend smoking in the school. At the end, he had been thrown out from the school after being captured by discipline teacher while doing that immoral action.

    As a conclusion, the teenage children should follow their parents decisions because of their experienced, maturity and care after having the discussion from heart to heart. This is because the parents around the world wanted the best for their children in getting the brightest future. Last but not least , we should use our brain by thinking deeply not follow our heart directly for the all actions being taken for the best decision .

    MOHD AMRU AL AS BIN MD RADZI
    J09DN0088

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  42. QUESTION 6

    There are certain parents or other adult relatives make important decisions for their teenage children and some are not. There are many agree than disagree about it that we can discuss.

    One of the agree statement are it can help their teenage children to setting up their own ambition. For example, parents will ask to their children what they are want to be when they were grown up and if they cannot find the answer for it, parents will give their advise for which ambition that will suitable for them and encouraged them to work hard to achieve ambition that they want to be. With the advise, it can avoid their children from choose the wrong ambition.

    Another point are parents can help their teenage children to choose the suitable class. What i mean is when the teenage start to go for form four, they have to choose which class they want, whether art or science stream classes. When they feel loss, they will ask their parents which is most suitable. The parents will take their roles by giving advise and tell them to go with their own interest.

    When teenager reach age 15 years old,they start to feel attract to the opposite sex. Sometimes, the teenager wil act with the love one more than just a couple. As a parents, they will tell their child which is wrong or right and which is they should do and not suppose to when with the opposite sex that they like. Think about the study first and if they finish their studies, then they can fall in love with the want they like.

    For the disagree point of view, i think it will help the teenager to be very dependent. For example, if the teenager have well educate from their parents, when it comes for certain decision to make, the parents will let them make their own decision because they know their teenage children make a right decisions and know which is the best and which are not.

    In conclusion, I agree that parents or other adult relatives should make important decision for their teenage children because they want the best for their life and don't want they go to the wrong path.

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    SITI ZUBAIDAH BINTI ABD GHANI
    J09DN0152

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  43. QUESTION 6
    Age of 15 to 18 is the age of numerous changes in one person. Children at this age always want to express themselves and make their own decisions. But anyway parents still should make important decisions for their over 15 year-old children.


    The first reason for this is that no one understands children as well as their parents. Parents know what their children needs, what they want and they make the best decisions for them. These decisions are very essential and useful. They help children a lot, bring them in a right direction to develop. For instance, parents should decide which school their children will attend. A good school will benefit children a lot, bring them a pleasant condition that they can improve their knowledge and skills much more remarkably.

    Second, if children are allowed to make their own decisions, they are likely to get in a lot of troubles. Therefore they not only can't learn anything from their mistakes but also can be put in an extremely stressful state. This is very not good because it will distract children from their studies, make them always feel confused and disheartened. Moreover, children who cannot cope with the stress may commit suicide. This will remain heart-rending suffering for the children’s family.
    In the other hands, the parent think that is important for them to selected who is suitable to be friend with their children, this is because they don’t want their children to get mix with wrong peers that can give bad influence, for example smoking or drug abuse. Besides that, they don’t want their children to repeat their mistake. For example, the parent wants their children to be a doctor, and the children has the qualification to study in that field but the children refuse and their interest in more to music, and they think become a musician is no future, that is why the parent should decide that the best for their children future.

    In addition, nowadays lots of parents, especially who divorced, indulge their children. They give their children a lot of money, allow them to do everything, to make any decisions. By this means, they are spoiling their children as immature children with no control of parents are probably become corrupt. They will have no interest in studying, all day hang out with the others or maybe commit social evil. These results of children making decisions are disastrous and can harm a lot to society.

    In conclusion, parents should be who direct and make important decisions for their teenage children. Teenagers who follow their parents' advices will have a good preparation for their future lives.

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  44. QUESTION 6
    Age of 15 to 18 is the age of numerous changes in one person. Children at this age always want to express themselves and make their own decisions. But anyway parents still should make important decisions for their over 15 year-old children.


    The first reason for this is that no one understands children as well as their parents. Parents know what their children needs, what they want and they make the best decisions for them. These decisions are very essential and useful. They help children a lot, bring them in a right direction to develop. For instance, parents should decide which school their children will attend. A good school will benefit children a lot, bring them a pleasant condition that they can improve their knowledge and skills much more remarkably.

    Second, if children are allowed to make their own decisions, they are likely to get in a lot of troubles. Therefore they not only can't learn anything from their mistakes but also can be put in an extremely stressful state. This is very not good because it will distract children from their studies, make them always feel confused and disheartened. Moreover, children who cannot cope with the stress may commit suicide. This will remain heart-rending suffering for the children’s family.
    In the other hands, the parent think that is important for them to selected who is suitable to be friend with their children, this is because they don’t want their children to get mix with wrong peers that can give bad influence, for example smoking or drug abuse. Besides that, they don’t want their children to repeat their mistake. For example, the parent wants their children to be a doctor, and the children has the qualification to study in that field but the children refuse and their interest in more to music, and they think become a musician is no future, that is why the parent should decide that the best for their children future.

    In conclusion, parents should be who direct and make important decisions for their teenage children. Teenagers who follow their parents' advices will have a good preparation for their future lives.

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  45. QUESTION 6
    Age of 15 to 18 is the age of numerous changes in one person. Children at this age always want to express themselves and make their own decisions. But parent playing big role in making decision for their children

    The first reason for this is that no one understands children as well as their parents. Parents know what their children needs, what they want and they make the best decisions for them. These decisions are very essential and useful. They help children a lot, bring them in a right direction to develop. For instance, parents should decide which school their children will attend. A good school will benefit children a lot, bring them a pleasant condition that they can improve their knowledge and skills much more remarkably.

    Second, if children are allowed to make their own decisions, they are likely to get in a lot of troubles. Therefore they not only can't learn anything from their mistakes but also can be put in an extremely stressful state. This is very not good because it will distract children from their studies, make them always feel confused and disheartened. Moreover, children who cannot cope with the stress may commit suicide. This will remain heart-rending suffering for the children’s family.
    In the other hands, the parent think that is important for them to selected who is suitable to be friend with their children, this is because they don’t want their children to get mix with wrong peers that can give bad influence, for example smoking or drug abuse. Besides that, they don’t want their children to repeat their mistake. For example, the parent wants their children to be a doctor, and the children has the qualification to study in that field but the children refuse and their interest in more to music, and they think become a musician is no future, that is why the parent should decide that the best for their children future.

    In conclusion, parents should be who direct and make important decisions for their teenage children. Teenagers who follow their parents' advices will have a good preparation for their future lives.

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  46. QUESTION 6
    Age of 15 to 18 is the age of numerous changes in one person. Children at this age always want to express themselves and make their own decisions. But parent playing big role in making decision for their children

    The first reason for this is that no one understands children as well as their parents. Parents know what their children needs, what they want and they make the best decisions for them. These decisions are very essential and useful. They help children a lot, bring them in a right direction to develop. For instance, parents should decide which school their children will attend. A good school will benefit children a lot, bring them a pleasant condition that they can improve their knowledge and skills much more remarkably.

    Second, if children are allowed to make their own decisions, they are likely to get in a lot of troubles. Therefore they not only can't learn anything from their mistakes but also can be put in an extremely stressful state. This is very not good because it will distract children from their studies, make them always feel confused and disheartened. Moreover, children who cannot cope with the stress may commit suicide. This will remain heart-rending suffering for the children’s family.
    In the other hands, the parent think that is important for them to selected who is suitable to be friend with their children, this is because they don’t want their children to get mix with wrong peers that can give bad influence, for example smoking or drug abuse. Besides that, they don’t want their children to repeat their mistake. For example, the parent wants their children to be a doctor, and the children has the qualification to study in that field but the children refuse and their interest in more to music, and they think become a musician is no future, that is why the parent should decide that the best for their children future.

    In conclusion, parents should be who direct and make important decisions for their teenage children. Teenagers who follow their parents' advices will have a good preparation for their future lives.

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    MATRIX: JO9DN0141

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  47. The first reason for this is that no one understands children as well as their parents. Parents know what their children needs, what they want and they make the best decisions for them. These decisions are very essential and useful. They help children a lot, bring them in a right direction to develop. For instance, parents should decide which school their children will attend. A good school will benefit children a lot, bring them a pleasant condition that they can improve their knowledge and skills much more remarkably.

    Second, if children are allowed to make their own decisions, they are likely to get in a lot of troubles. Therefore they not only can't learn anything from their mistakes but also can be put in an extremely stressful state. This is very not good because it will distract children from their studies, make them always feel confused and disheartened. Moreover, children who cannot cope with the stress may commit suicide. This will remain heart-rending suffering for the children’s family.
    In the other hands, the parent think that is important for them to selected who is suitable to be friend with their children, this is because they don’t want their children to get mix with wrong peers that can give bad influence, for example smoking or drug abuse. Besides that, they don’t want their children to repeat their mistake. For example, the parent wants their children to be a doctor, and the children has the qualification to study in that field but the children refuse and their interest in more to music, the parent think become a musician is no future, that is why the parent should decide what’s the best for their children future.

    In conclusion, parents should be who direct and make important decisions for their teenage children. Teenagers who follow their parents' advices will have a good preparation for their future lives.

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    MATRIX: JO9DN0141

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  48. Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their 15-18 years teenage children. About the above statement I really agree with that. It is because, as long as parents or other adult provide some assistance to their children or other younger people they cannot help avoiding taking one important decision affecting the younger people. There are many other areas where it may be appropriate and in the interest of the children in the group of 15 to 18, to let more knowledgeable and experienced people to take some decision.

    In 15years old, they can setting up the ambition with their parents guide. It is can shape their children with their parents guide. It is can shape their children with the bright future. Another than that,about friends their parents can know who their children friend with. From that, they can invite them to come home if have any celebration, discussion or study group. They also having the changes of physical and physiological changes after puberty. At this age,they will more to be fashion and be a style teenager.

    At 18 years old, there are a big matured enough. But for me we still under age to thinks a bad and good thing enough. We still need to have a guardian from our parents. From that we can know where to further study. So what decisions should this age group be allowed to make? Whether to attend school or not? Driving? They do not want the bad influence to their children. So, I guess what it might finally come down to is the fact that with regard to law, parents might legally be responsible for their children until they do turn 18.

    Seeing that, then children make safety to the age of 21 is enough of chellenge. They will have plenty of time to realize the consequences of them action and hopefully will have learned from the good advice of their parents.

    NUR SHUHAIDA BINTI HAMDAN
    J09DN0120

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  50. Make important decisions are a very big statement that we should aware, this is about a whole life of somebody. There is a statement said that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 years old) teenage children. Am I agree with this statement or not? I have a few reasons why I am not totally agree with this statement.


    As we know parents want their child get the best in their life, but before children move to that stage. Children must have a chance to make their own decisions such as choosing a science or an art course for their future studies. This will make children think more about advantages or disadvantages some choices they have. This is also making children more matured and independence.


    For choosing friends for example, it is a good when parents aware of their children sociallife. Sometimes children have chosen the wrong person to be friend. As parents you can advice your child regarding their friends but you cannot force them because they are so sensitive in this age. So choosing friends is a good basic to learn how to choose the best decision for next time.


    Children at this age are almost not mentally stable that why sometimes they make an unpredictable decision. This make their parents worried about. As I said before children at this age usually like this. So, this is why they need a practice and build confident to make their own decision from the beginning. For example if mother has choose a dress for her daughter, but when the times come her daughter has no idea and does not have any courage and confident to choose by herself. Parents can not choose a dress for their children every time.


    Parents make decisions for their child because they said that their children have no experience to make a big decision such as setting up their ambition. In my opinion, experience cannot be gain if parents itself did not give their children a chance to choose even once. This is because parents make decision for their child in every circumstance.


    Lastly, I am not totally agreed with the statement that parents should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 years old) teenage children because if they did not do any mistake from their own decision, children will not learn for the next time.


    FATIN ASHILA SAHIDAN
    J09DN0075

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  51. Almost 400 years that our country has been hold by foreign country started by Portugal. And at last we get the independent from British and from that day we get again our country. Actually is not easy to get the freedom like today, the people at that time has been do everything in order to get the independent and to life freely in own country. Children at that time also involve with their parent to get independent. In this modernization time, children are grow faster than the children at that time, and the children now are more matured in making decision.

    Parents or other adult relatives actually should not make the important decision for their teenage children. Teenage children are classified around age 15 to 18 year old. At this stage, parents are should be given chances to their children to make their own decision in important cases. Through that, teenage children will be feel more free and they will think deeply before they make own decision. For example, at the age 15 year old teenage children think about their future. At this time, at school they will have big exam known as PMR and according to this result they have to make the decision about which field they will choose. Is it sciece stream or art stream.

    Moreover, children nowadays become more matured than their real age. They can think more creatively in many thing and sometimes their opinion are more creative than adult. Parents nowadays should always give their teenage children power to make the important decision in their life. This is not the meaning that parents don’t have any power to make decision for their own children but they still can give advice to children in order to make the decision.

    Actually, parents still have the power toward their children but in making decision they have to trust their children to make by their self. For the example, parents should not make the decision with who their teenage children should be friends but they have to advice and guide their children in way to choose the correct friends. Naturally, every parents will worried to their children, they don’t want their children will influence to bad people that why they always taking care of their children. Because of that every parents still can give advice and have to guide their children in order to make the important decision in their children life.

    The conclusion is, every parents or other adult relative actually should not make the important decision for their teenage children but they actually have to give their children to make their own decision. As a parents, they should always advice and guide their children to make the right decision in their life.

    Name : Nurul Izwani Binti Razali
    Matrix no. : J09DN0130

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  52. NUR AIN BINTI MOHAMAD MARZUKI
    J09DN0113
    Parents are the most cases our first teachers and friends. I am very agree for this statement. This is because this statement is very important that parents and other adult relatives give their decision. When the age of the teenage usually think that the world was perfect and make many things are very simple. In my opinion, I’m agree for this statement because when the teenagers now because this teen time is they have to socialize with their friends and everyone more to the family and the teachers or lecturer.
    Their parents want they more to be matured in any situation because seems like they are to be adult later, they can make own decision. So the parents and the relatives must to take their responsibilities for them. Besides that, as a responsibility’s people, the parents more want their children to studies especially since they are six years old. When they are 15 to 18 years old, the parents make ambition for them after SPM, because of this, they want the child to study hard so they can be a good workers after study. More important, the ambition is must be good ambition, so their life can change and successful.
    Other than that I think the parents give the decision for their child and parents give opportunity for them such as a chance to study driving license. So from this, the teenagers can easy go to anywhere and control by their parent or relatives. Furthermore, the parents wants their child to be matured thinker, this is because from that, they can learn about bad things and good things.
    Overall, I’m so agree for this because not all the parents can make decision. So from their decision our life of their children is more better different with parents who are not make decision for their child. Without parents, who’s can help us? So, only parents can make happy and have a good life.

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  53. Name : Muhamad Aiman B Tajuddin
    Matrix Number : J09DN0093

    Teenager nowadays, leader for tomorrow was a government slogan for the Youth Day, a couple years ago. It was been made as praised and a reminder to the contribution of the youth on the countries development and civilization for a long time ago until now. But nowadays, problems especially in love that affected teenagers and youth were increasing year by year due to the social ill and the modern world influences. A statistic from the Ministry of Family Development, Community and Women proved that main point of the social illness that affected the teenagers, most of it was cause by lack of love from a family and parents especially. But, if the parents will contributed in every aspects especially in the matters of their children, is it the social illness will be also decreased?

    As a teenager, they does not want their decision to be made by others, but they want their voice to be hear. They want to speak up, to be heard so the parents know what the things they need, especially in the love matter. The need to be treat as an adult, negotiate and discussing in every part of the matter so both, is the best conclusion to the parents and children to understand each other better. The parents should give their opinion not a command when it relating to their children life.

    Some of the culture especially in the East, parents is the best for making a decision for their children. It is cause by the culture and the respect for the elder. But after a modernization movement and freedom influence from knowledge and education, seems that most of children and youth were indepent in making their best choices such as what to wear, who they want to be friend with and the most crucial part of the life, marriage. Education and minglings around make their knowledge and ability to choose were independent.

    Some of the children nowadays for example, was so dependable until they can get their own financial support by using their knowledge and specialities such as ability in gadget and internet. They does not need family back up cause with the strong income, they can fulfill their desires and needs. It goes along with the life, as they can manage it well equalised to their dependable in searching for their financial’s flow.

    Actually, I am not completely disagree with the idea parents should contribute in their children’s life, but childrens also have the right to manage their life but under the supervision of their parents and opinion from the parents were appreciated because to live in the modern world like nowadays, we need a strong person that can be independent, compromise and creativity in order to compete well in order to survive.

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  54. NAME:PUTERI RAGENI ASHIKIN BINTE HAMID
    NO.MATRIX:J09DN0134
    In this era, many parents wants to see their children happy in life, successful in life. But children don’t know how their parents love them so much but children says parents want to restrict their life. Although age around 15-18 is teenage children want to enjoyed in their life. They don’t want their parents restrict their life sometimes anything matter want solving with parents. And cannot solved by self. In their age a lot of friends their have.
    I, as a children, agree why parents should make important decision. A lot advantage are there. I also have a lot of friends. But sometimes parents also want to know with who we friends so, i inviting friends at my house and can introduce to family. From that matter, parents can introduce their self. Such as, parents can ask their live, age and so on. They can ask so many question at my friends and they also can make a relationship very closed from parents and their friends.
    Besides that, why parents sometimes restrict with their children cause they have a lot experience all their life. In this era, many crime are there. Example of the crime is kidnap. Now,no age around 4-9 years will be kidnap but around age teenage can be happen. Besides that, murder be come to do as one wishes will be happen. That why parents always ask with who we friends cause they don’t want something happen at their children.
    Furthermore, parents always over protect their children cause with this matter they can give children have a license in 17years old, they give their children after spm before they continues their study in university. Because parents don’t want their children waste their life and time.
    Many children got a culture shocks when they at the college cause sometimes have children from kampung so their parents maybe cannot shows a new environment or facilities. Sometimes their children can follow new environment and new friends.
    In addition, their parents wants to see their children can should think to be matured and independent.

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  55. Teenagers nowadays think that they are wise enough to make decisions. In my opinion, I believe that parents should make important decisions because teenage is a very important period for their children.

    The reason that I choose parent should make decision for their teenagers are not mature enough to make decision by themselves. The decisions that teenagers make could be a wrong move sometime that can affect their future. So, it is advisable for parents to get involve with the decisions that teenagers make.

    In the age of teens, teenagers tends to listen more to friends talk. Sometime the words of their friends would be like honey to them. If the friend of teenager is a good friend, it is lucky of the teenager to have friend someone like them but if the friend not a good behavioral person, teenagers tend to fall into the same characters of their friends such as smoking and drinking and etc. this is the fear of most parents.

    Parents should make important decision for their children because people just say that by making important decision on their own can make a child mature, but this is not the right time for testing the maturity level as teenage period would determine their future. Sometimes some teenagers especially girls would still be in child behavior, they have not yet the mature thinking.

    Furthermore, if a teenage chooses a subject for higher education, then there will be some chance that they will not survive with the subject and they will fail in the examination. Parents should be involve in this education decision. They know their child very well and they know their capabilities as well. For a good conclusion in future, if the teenager tell their parents what they desire to be, parents can advise them and also choose better option based on their desire.

    In my opinion, I think if teenager and parents work out together to make decision, there would be better outcome that we could see. For example, there would be better understanding among them and the teenagers also can learn how to make decisions wisely from their parents as well. So, parents should lead the teenagers to make decisions since they are mature and they know about the real world and they can make important decision correctly.

    RATHIGA SELVANATHAN
    JO9DN0136

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  56. Teenagers are in between 15-18 years old. In this ages, they feel to be more freedom from their parents. Teenage children’s are some matured and some are immature, when taking decisions in life. So that, I agree to this statement, which is parents or other adults relatives should make important decisions for their ( 15-18 years old) teenage children’s.

    Teenage children’s who was between 15-18 years old, they confuse when take any important decisions in their life. It because, in this ages they felt friends are important than parents and other adult relatives. So, they will follow their friends way. for examples, at age 16 years old, which was after PMR, they needs to go form 4, it will divided into two categories, which is science and arts stream. In this situation, teenage children forget to think about their future and they follow their friends. When their friends go for science stream, they also follow it. They have think their capability.

    Otherthanthat, in this teenagers they will easy to attract by other opposite sex. It because, in this periods their hormones will changes. They will start to gossip about others. It can be their hobby. In this time periods,they needs advices or guides from parents or other adult relatives. But, most of teenagers never accept their parents advices. Because, they think what they we doing and it is correct for them.

    Morethanthat, in this ages childrens most of them easy to influence to in wrong appears. For examples, they will likes to follow their friends, if their friends are smoking, drinking alcohol or in gangsterisme and so on. In this times, parents or other adult relatives should be a guided for them. Parents or other adult relatives should tell their mistakes when they were in teenages. Then, teenage childrens will realize the mistakes and effects from listened to their parents stories.

    Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their 15-18 years teenage childrens. Some teenage are matured and can take their decisions themselves. It will be correct and sometimes may be wrong. But, for their safety and for bright future, they should listen to their parents.

    RUBINEE BARLAH
    J09DN0137

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  57. Question 6

    Nowadays, children may tend t do their own decision. There are thinking that they are big enough to do all decision myself. They have set their mind that they are matured enough to deny total care from anyone cause for them it will impedes their development. So, for this topic, I totally agreed that parents should make important decisions for their over 15 year-old children.
    For me, parents should make important decisions for their over 15 year’s old children because they more know what the best is for their child. They afraid if their child chooses wrong way for the future which is maybe didn’t ensure the future life.
    Parents also need to took place in making decision for their own child because they afraid if their children will get influence by their friends or anyone when doing own decision. Moreover,at the age of 15-18 years old, teenage is in their way to find their own identity and sometimes confuse with their own identity.
    Parents need to play their important role to guide their child.However,there is also youth that rebellious. Sometimes their cannot accept the decision that parent do for them. They keep asking why and why not. This type of children usually will have difficulty on future live cause they maybe didn’t have parents to guide them for the best. Even though parents will make decision for their child, parent also need to know on their children capability. They can’t just decide and force their to follow what did they have planed.
    As conclusion that I can summarize it here is parents actually need to play the best role in making decision for their children to ensure the best for their child. However, parents can’t force their child in follow their decision but they also have to has give and take among child and parent for making decisions

    NUR RAHIMI BINTI MOHAMAD
    J09DN0118

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  58. PARENTS OR OTHER ADULT RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR TEENAGER CHILDREN

    Making decision in life is an important matter to think among our social life, because this has brought a lot of complication among the families. This problem usually occurs among the teenagers. As for my opinion i disagree that parents should’t make important decision for their teenager children.

    First of all, i would like to tell that or later child will be in situations when they must do their own choice. Seventeen years old is exactly the age when teenagers are applying for the college and, therefore, have to leave their home and live away from their families. If one was always told what to do by their parents, either do the homework or go to bed, they would not be able to make such basic decisions alone. Not to mention living for months, studying and providing with the sustenance. Following directions of their parents still be allow even in 20 and 25. Therefore, making their own decisions in the early stages of teenage years will give children necessary experience, indispensable for living alone.

    Secondly, observations of your own successful decisions will increase self-confidence in personality of the child. Such positive experience will make teenagers believe in themselves and act decisively in the future. As for my own experience , my parents at first they took decision until i was 18 years. After that they gave money for expenses and just taught me how to use the money. This really make me to be more mature and independent. So i believe that Teenagers making their own decision strengthen confidence in themselves.

    Finally, parents, trying to help to their teenage children by advices sometimes unintentionally making decisions that are inherently wrong. As for my experience, at first my parents suggested to do lower six studies which is STPM. I studied for 3 months and i realised that i was suffering rather than studying. I didn’t liked it they way or method of studying. So i decided to quite from form six. They asked me that what i want to study . so decided to do nursing as my carrier. Even through i know nursing was hard enough but i decided took the challenge in life. They gave me a chance in my life . Now i am studying nursing and my parents knows that i have chose the suitable carrier for me. Hence, decisions, being made by parents are not necessarily the best ones for their teenagers who can come up with more effective solutions.

    Summarizing, I adhere to the opinion, that in age of 15-18 years old, teenagers can and ought to act up to their own discretion making important decisions by themselves. Indeed, it teaches them how to be independent, increases their self-confidence and protects them from possible mistakes of their parents.

    SHANTINI DEVI RAMOO
    J09DN0143

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  59. Question 6
    I agree with the statement that parent or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 years old) teenager children. Why I agree with this statement? Reason cause I’m agree with that is at the aged of them they want to learned something new. Instinct to know is harder inside deep heart of them. So if we not control their behavior, what they want to do it will make their life become worst without supervision from own parents.
    With who our children be friends is the most important thing to parents get know. Some people says not because of the friends our children become bad person or something like that, but the reality one friends is the one of the main factors. Choose wrong person or friends. Children may changes in many ways. Good or bad depends to who there are been friends, example if friends is smoking, although our children not smoking but they may be influenced. From friends, I have seen with my own eyes, many cases cause of choose wrong friends and have been influenced by them.
    Another thing is in setting up their ambition. All parents in this world want their children get the best in their life future. So parents have the right to make sure their children become the one like they want. I’m says this because if our children not be supported on what they want to be assume result may effect to them as well as their aged increase year by year their ambition may not become their first thing to be but may change as their growth. If the good one of course we don’t mind but if the one that they want to be is more worst just think it.
    And for the solution parents have to know their children’s friends. Invite their friends to house and just know who they and that been friends to your children. Another thing must observe, make a checkup to their studies, don’t easily let them go as they may became influenced by negatives thing. More over our children must get supported for what they done, so as parents we should not just busier on our work at the office and others. Parents should make decision for their children so that in future our children get the best one in their life.
    NAME: FARAH WAHEDA BINTI MAT ALI
    MATRIX NUMBER: J09DN0073

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  60. “Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 year old) teenage children”. I totally disagree with the following statement because not all important decisions must to decide by parents. Teenage children between 15 to 18 years old must decide how to setting ambitions, socializations, and what to do after SPM examination and especially under their parents supervision. By under supervision was not meant that parents must decide all but parents must guide and supervise their child to decide for the best.

    According to the children decisions, they may able to see the positive and negative impact by themselves. As example, setting ambition whether to choose nursing or art for their further study. From both different courses have their own benefits and also have negative impact. The parents must guide and let them to choose and decide whether nursing or art that as all knows nursing has larger opportunity than art course.

    Furthermore, the children will be more independent to do and decide something for their own benefits. As example, socialization with others. At the age 15 to 18 years old teenage children, they are interested more to meet and be friend with different gender. The parents also must guide and advice them but not totally protect them because at this age of teenage children, there were more unpredictable person. Let them be more independent by choose their own friends but parents must know with who their children be friends.

    Other than that, their level of maturity will be increase if they has to face the reality of sadness and the parents must help them by giving support back to them. Let them learn how to be suffer rather than too lenient.

    As conclusions, not all decisions must to decide by parents or other adult relatives because by encourage, support and guide teenage children to decide by their own have a lot of benefits as well as positive impact. Do not be too pampered and protect of the child that will cause a lot of problem for their future.

    NAME: SITI HAJAR BINTI OTHMAN
    MATRIX NO.: J09DN0150

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  61. ZURI BIN AWANG NGAH
    J09DN0159
    Q2
    In our life, we grow older every day and learn many things. Our parents, teacher, or other relatives keep giving us lessons that are valuable for us. We face many failure and achievements in our life that brings us bad and good together. By all the experience, we became mature and able to make better decisions. Our parents also have experience the same process and gained much knowledge for themselves. In my opinion, parents should make the decisions for their teenager children. They have seen a lot in this world and able to understand better of what is right or wrong for them.
    In this modern world, teenagers want their own life. They dislike too much interruption from others in making decisions. For example my younger sister wanted to ride a motorcycle at the age of 12 years old. My father did not agree with the decisions but he insists. As a result, he tries to ride it with her friends. As we told her, she is too young to ride a bike and will face difficulty in handling the motorcycle. Then, she crash out the motorcycle. Luckily, nothing happen to her selves and the motorcycle only suffer minor damage. That shows the importance of parents making decisions.
    We face many situations when teenagers like to follow their own decisions. As they are not mature enough, their decisions are influenced on their inner feelings. I think our parents are the best advisors as they can help in making decisions like choosing our carrier. Parents or other adult relatives inculcate sense in teenager to make proper decisions. Nothing can teach better than experience which our parents and other adult relatives have. In choosing our carrier, we must choose carrier that will guarantee our family future. That is the best carrier. Our parents will know that.
    Besides that, parents should make decisions for their 15 to 18 year old teenage children because this can avoid the children from being influenced by wrong peers. It could lead to wrong decision making and could affect the teenage future. As we can see, there are many teenagers nowadays that involved in drug abuse and destroy their future. There are also teenagers that involve in illegal racing that actually endangering their life. That is happen when parent did not take a good care of their child and let them choose the wrong decisions in their life.
    So, finally I can say that it is true adults are more mature than teenagers. They have sense of advising enhanced solutions for any problems. They should be making decisions for the new generations so that the new generations can blossomed.

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  62. Week 2 question 2
    MOHAMAD SHAMSULHUDA BIN HASSAN
    J09 DN 0086


    PARENTS OR OTHER ADULT RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR TEENAGER CHILDREN

    When I was in 15 years old my father had told me to further my studies in sciences stream. He said he want me to have a better future if I take this stream. Nowadays with the basic that I had in the two years studied in sciences stream I can further my studies in nursing. It helps me during my studies because I can have more understanding than other of my friends which is did not have any basic in sciences stream. So do you think that decision made by my father was wrong or good for me?
    So for me I agree that parent or other adult relative should make important decision for their 15 to 18 year’s old teenager child. For me teenager at this age still lack of knowledge and experience to decide which is the best decision to be made and a lot of their decision was being influence by other factor such as friends and mass media. For example parent should have men to men talk with their child about to further their study in sciences stream or art stream to get a right decision then both side will agree and it will easy in conversation for both side.
    In addition I also agree that parent should make a decision to control their child social life. Parent should know with who their child friend with and the way to control it by inviting their friends to the house and by that way also parent will be more understand on what their child want in their teenager life. At this stage also a teenager still having mentally unstable. They still cannot differentiate what is good and what is not.
    Furthermore parent should make an important decision to their children because the reason is they don’t want their children do a same mistake as they are. For example maybe a long time ago their parent did not do well in their study and they don’t want their children also follow their step foot.
    As a conclusion I once again agree that parent should make important decision to their children and by that only their children will have a guidance in choosing the right decision and furthermore in writing their future.

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  63. Nowadays , teenage children between 15-18 years old have different level of thinking and make a decision and they tends to make decision on their own. If a long time ago, our mother and father depends on their parents to make important decision. It does not mean that they are not independent but they felt that parents always make the right decision for their own children. Now, I think that teenage children still need their parents or other adult relative to make certain important decision for them. For example, a matter about serious relationship and friends.
    Actually, teenage children in this globalization era must understand what was their parent feel because when they are making any important decision for their children they do not want anything they just want the best for their children life. For example, when their children start to have a serious relationship at the age as young as 15 years old they will definitely worried and against the decision because their children was still studying and they afraid that their children cannot focus in their study. At last who was going to regret and to be blame. So appreciate every decision that our parents made for us because parent always want the best for their children and do not want them to be influences by wrong peers and involve in the activity that was low in moral.
    Furthermore, at the age 15-18 years old, teenage children still finding their own identity. At here, parents have to play an important role to guide their children so that they were not choosing the wrong way for their life. That is why parents made their decision for their own children. So that, their teenage children will be in the right way and not ruin their life at this very young age. It was true sometimes teenage children cannot accept that, but they should think positively why their parents do that, what is the rational and what is going to happen if they do not do the decision for you. Also, parent must do it in the way that their children can accept, do not force them and try to slow talk with them.
    As a conclusion, parents should make the important for their teenage children. Not to force or fetter them but just want the best for them and they do not regret in the future and for the rest of their life. Also, with their experiences, parents have their rights for their teenage children as long as what they are going to decide was suitable for their children.

    NUR HIDAYAH MOHAMD RADI
    J09DN0116

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  64. Teenager is a person that the age between 13-19. Usually, the teenager that the age between 15-18 years old start to do whatever they want and don’t want to hear any objection from other people. So, is it should for parents or other relatives make important decision for teenager that the age between 15-18 years old?

    According to the above statement, I agree if the parents should make important decision for teenager that the age between 15-18 that is because, parents have many reason to make important decision for their children than the teenager make the decision. One of the reason is, usually, teenager make the decision with influence by friend that don’t know the effect at future. This is why nowadays many people that don’t want to continue their study although all of them have the chance to continue the study. As what you know, friend can make teenager be a good person but a friend also can make teenager be a bad person. So, it’s better for parent to make decision because parent more know what the best for their children.

    Besides that, the parents should make decision because the parent exactly did not want teenagers do the same mistake as what teenager that had done the mistakes while children. Parents also did not want teenagers do the same mistakes as what parent or other adult relatives do. In parents mind ,just have one what they really want that is, their children get the best in their life.

    The parent want the best for their children because they had through this life many year than their children. So, the got mote experienced in the way of through this life. With their experienced, it can help the parents to make decision for their children. The parents don’t want teenager waste their time with teenager wrong decision because the chance to success in our life did not wait for teenager so for avoid teenager make wrong decision, the parents come first with their decision for their children

    The conclusion, parents more suitable to make teenager decision than teenager make decision for themselves because parents and other adult relatives know what the best for teenager.

    SITI HAIDA BINTI A.RAHMAN
    J09DN0149

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  65. NURUL HAFIZAH
    J09DN0129
    QUESTION 2: PARENTS OR OTHER RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR TEENAGE CHILDREN

    First of all, there are important developmental differences between a fifteen-year-old and an eighteen-year-old, as well as differences in their legal rights. An eighteen-year-old, for example, can drop out of school, vote, and join military service, whereas younger teens by law cannot make these choices for themselves. The issue raised in the question is far too broad and complex for a simple yes or no assessment.
    As long as parents or other adults provide some assistance to their children or other younger people they cant help avoiding taking one important decision affecting the younger people. One who is providing the help has to take decision on what help and support to provide and in what form. If we don't accept this position, the only alternative is children will have to give the right to demand and get from adults, whatever they want. Clearly this is not a practical proposition.
    There are many other areas where it may be appropriate, and in the interest of the children in the age group of 15 to 18, to let more knowledgeable and experienced people to take some decision on their behalf. I am not saying that the adults should be able to dictate term to younger people. But when adults who love and care for their children, give some advice, the younger people would benefit by paying attention to it.

    Also when it is possible for children to take decisions and implement them independently, they will be justified in asking for autonomy. But there are many situations which affect many people in the family, in such cases if a joint decision cannot be arrived between adults and children, I believe it will be in the general interest of all to give veto power to adults
    There are some arguments in favour of letting children take decisions also. First of all adults cannot always understand the needs and feelings of children. Second, a major part of growth of children is learning to be independent. A very important part of this growth is to progressively take more and more important decisions independently. Children should be allowed to do this even if means making some mistakes (only mistakes - no blunders). Therefore, adults must voluntarily refrain from taking more and more important on behalf of their children.
    In sum, I will that there is no age limit when adults should suddenly stop taking decisions on behalf of children. There is a need for the children to take more and more decisions independently. On the other hand, if there are some critical decisions which the children are unable to take for themselves, they should not hesitate in taking help of elders. Similarly elders will be justified in exercising their veto power when situation demands

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  66. NURUL HAFIZAH
    J09DN0129
    QUESTION 2: PARENTS OR OTHER RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR TEENAGE CHILDREN

    First of all, there are important developmental differences between a fifteen-year-old and an eighteen-year-old, as well as differences in their legal rights. An eighteen-year-old, for example, can drop out of school, vote, and join military service, whereas younger teens by law cannot make these choices for themselves. The issue raised in the question is far too broad and complex for a simple yes or no assessment.
    As long as parents or other adults provide some assistance to their children or other younger people they cant help avoiding taking one important decision affecting the younger people. One who is providing the help has to take decision on what help and support to provide and in what form. If we don't accept this position, the only alternative is children will have to give the right to demand and get from adults, whatever they want. Clearly this is not a practical proposition.
    There are many other areas where it may be appropriate, and in the interest of the children in the age group of 15 to 18, to let more knowledgeable and experienced people to take some decision on their behalf. I am not saying that the adults should be able to dictate term to younger people. But when adults who love and care for their children, give some advice, the younger people would benefit by paying attention to it.

    Also when it is possible for children to take decisions and implement them independently, they will be justified in asking for autonomy. But there are many situations which affect many people in the family, in such cases if a joint decision cannot be arrived between adults and children, I believe it will be in the general interest of all to give veto power to adults
    There are some arguments in favour of letting children take decisions also. First of all adults cannot always understand the needs and feelings of children. Second, a major part of growth of children is learning to be independent. A very important part of this growth is to progressively take more and more important decisions independently. Children should be allowed to do this even if means making some mistakes (only mistakes - no blunders). Therefore, adults must voluntarily refrain from taking more and more important on behalf of their children.
    In sum, I will that there is no age limit when adults should suddenly stop taking decisions on behalf of children. There is a need for the children to take more and more decisions independently. On the other hand, if there are some critical decisions which the children are unable to take for themselves, they should not hesitate in taking help of elders. Similarly elders will be justified in exercising their veto power when situation demands

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  67. Question 6

    Nowadays, teenage child are more easily to expose and easily influence to get involve in negative activities especially in social problems. That is why parents or other adult relatives should get involve their children's life. Even though, maybe they will think that this is ridiculous but they did not realize that they did it for their future. No any parents do not love their children and want their life in miserable. Truely, they always want the best for their child and they will work hard to fulfill their desire.

    Parents are always want the best for their children. That is why, sometimes they have to get involve in their children's life. In addition, they also want to make decision for them especially the important decision which is relate with their future. For example, parents also make decision about their education. Sometimes, they want their children to be a doctor or lecturer. In conclusion, no any parents want their children's life destroy. They always think and want the best for their future.

    Besides that, parents have more experience life than their children. They have their right to make decision in their children's life since they know well the life it is. Actually, they don not want their children to repeat their mistake when they are still young. But, sometimes some of the children cannot accept their parent's decision until they want to run away from their home. Truely, parents know exactly what they did and they have their own reason why they made this to them.

    Not only that, it is important for the parents to make decision for them. Nowadays, children are easily influence with social problems especially for the teenage child. Parents have their right to know with whom their children friends. Children should not blame their parents, instead they should try to convince them if they did not agree and not satisfied with the decision. Every parents will understand and will agree if the children can managed to convince their parents.

    As a conclusion, I am agree that parents or other adult relatives make important decision for their (15-18 years old) teenage children. Maybe, some of them did not agree if they interfere in their life. Actually, they did not realize that they did it for their future. Frankly, only parents know what they do and they only just want to protect their children. Nobody knows what exactly the best for them except their own parents only.

    NAME : SITI HALIJAH AZMI
    MATRIX NUMBER: J09DN0151

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  69. PARENT’S OR OTHER ADULT RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT FOR THEIR CHILDREN

    Today, teenage tends to make their own decision. They are mature enough to deny total care because it impedes their development. In another hands, mother and father strive to make decisions instead of their teenage children, because they consider them not clever enough for making their own decisions. Parents are in most cases our first teachers and friends. That is the facts that we can’t denied from the very beginning. I strongly agreed with the statement that important decisions should be made by our parents or adult relatives.

    First all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. Is this a reality or just their fantasy? Teenagers are basically inexperienced; they aspire for independence and try to make their first steps towards freedom. I think that it is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support. An independent life is a big and significant part in a person's life. So, my point is that it is very important to make this step right.

    The second is, children, from their side, becoming teenagers do not realize themselves like babies, they consider that know everything in this world and think that parents get nothing in the modern life, so they cannot help them to make correct decisions. Children want to rush out from parents' concern; they are attracted by adult life. I think that parents have right to interfere in their children's lives. They need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their spare time. Children should realize that parents help them because of their life experience sometimes are able to make more correct decision than a child himself.

    Finally, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes. Child has to get a responsibility for his decisions, so that he could not tell in any unlucky result that it was his parents' fault because they did not give him a freedom in actions. Sometimes it is very important just prompt to child a right way, but not to press on him.

    As a conclusion, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best.

    MOHD AZWAN BIN ABDULLAH
    J09DN0089

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  70. Question 6
    Decisions should always be taken by those who are affected. Everyone should know what is good for him/her. For me, I not agreed with statement that parents or other relatives should make important decision for their (15 to 18 year old) teenager children. Although parents have more experiences and they are more reasonable and mature, kids should be allowed to take their own decisions to a certain degree. I strongly believe that starting with 15-16 years old, teenagers must start making important decisions up to their own decision.
    First, teenager children’s (15- to 18-years-old) usually had reached puberty and became mature enough both physically and mentally, as their brains had developed enough. Therefore, parents should give their children the opportunity to try how to make decisions on their own. This is because; when children’s goes for education in universities in different country’s than the country that his parents, there is a big possibility that the child will live alone and there might not one that could help him to make or to decide on his important decisions. Therefore, making their own decisions in the early stages of teenage years will give children necessary experience, indispensable for living alone.
    Second, children’s from (15- to 18 years old) like to have some privacy in their lives and to live in the way and style that they like to live. Also, when parents make important decisions for their child then there is also a possibility that the child will not be convinced by his parent’s decisions. For example, when a child needs to decide for which state for next education, his parents might decide for him or her to go for studying at Kuala Lumpur, but the child might want to go to Johor Bahru so that he wouldn’t miss his friends that he had in the school. As a result, the child might not work hard to achieve his parent’s aims, as he will not be motivated and convinced with them.
    Other than that, we cannot say in general what an important decision is. Some parents may think to decide what kind of sports their kids do is important, or what kind of friends their kids have. In some cases it might be good when parents let kids not take painful experiences and lead them to good education and behavior. For example a kid should be allowed to choose his own friends.

    As the conclusion, in my opinion, that in age of 15-18 years old teenagers can to act up to their own discretion making important decisions by themselves. Indeed, it teaches them how to be independent, increases their self-confidence and protects them from possible mistakes of their parents.

    FAIZAH BINTI HASIM
    J09DN0072

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  71. Most of the parents now have their teenage children at the age of 15-18 years old. At this age, they had a lot of important decision to make by their own. As the parent, they should be worried of their teenage children either the decision made is correct or wrong. But for me, parents or other adult relatives should not make decision for them.
    On of the reason is the way to make them to be independent. For example, in their social life. Of course they want to try all kind of things at their age such as in making friends with other gender, hanging out with friends at shopping mall, dating with friend, and many more. Just let them being take care of themselves. So that they know to be independent without the parents.
    Furthermore, the age of 16, they have to choose the course of science stream, technical engineering or art stream for their study in after SPM soon. In these, they are able to make decision in life by their own. So that, they will not regret or blame anyone including their parents if their failed to perform well in their studies, choosing by themselves.
    Moreover, at the age of 16 also, they intend to know more about opposite sex. They are so interested in fashion, sexual and also in making gossip. Of course they made a lot of gossip influence by their own behaviour with friends. By these, parents have no right to know all about their talking with other friends. In other words, the teenage world is the most interesting and exploring.
    After SPM, they will busy to do part time job before the result come out and want to earn money by themselves. So that, they can buy anything for their satisfied without asking money from their parents.
    In ambition aspect, parents should let their teenage children to choose their own future. So that, the children will not waste their time to study the course choosing by the parents that they are totally did not interested with. By making their own decision, it intend to stimulate their own creativity towards their ambition that they dreams on it.
    Lastly, for the parents, try not to be so control and careless of their teenage children. Not all the decision made can totally decide by them same as the parents.

    FATINATHIRAH BT.ZULKIPLI
    J09DNOO76

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  72. QUESTION 2

    During the years of adolescence, all the decisions for the children are being made by their parents. In some families this tendency still takes place as the children are growing and becoming more mature. I strongly believe that starting with 15-18 years old, teenagers must start making important decisions up to their own discretion. Doing that, teenagers will become more independent, increase self-confidence and prevent themselves from unintentional mistakes their parents could make.

    First of all, sooner or later child will be in situations when he must do his own choice. Seventeen years old is exactly the age when teenagers are applying for the college and, therefore, have to leave their home and live away from their families. If one was always told what to do by his parents, either do the homework or go to bed, he would not be able to make such basic decisions alone. Not to mention living for months, studying and providing him with the sustenance. Following directions of his parents hi still is callow even in 20 and 25. Therefore, making their own decisions in the early stages of teenage years will give children necessary experience, indispensable for living alone.

    In addition, it is also the age for the older teenage children to learn to be responsible for them. No matter the child is a girl or a boy, most of the important decisions in their life should be made by themselves. On one hand, children will be dependent on their parents and adult relatives' decision making and do not want to and feared to make their own decisions. How are their parents and adult relatives who made the important decisions for them pass away? How can they make their own decisions in their later life? They should have the ability to make their own decision even when they are only teenage children. On the other hand, all the decisions could be risky, who can take responsibility to the children if the decisions do not benefit? It is the child's own life, so, in order not to make anyone feel guilty or regret for the results, it should be the child who makes the decisions in his own life.

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  73. Most of the parents now have their teenage children at the age of 15-18 years old. At this age, they had a lot of important decision to make by their own. As the parent, they should be worried of their teenage children either the decision made is correct or wrong. But for me, parents or other adult relatives should not make decision for them.
    On of the reason is the way to make them to be independent. For example, in their social life. Of course they want to try all kind of things at their age such as in making friends with other gender, hanging out with friends at shopping mall, dating with friend, and many more. Just let them being take care of themselves. So that they know to be independent without the parents.
    Furthermore, the age of 16, they have to choose the course of science stream, technical engineering or art stream for their study in after SPM soon. In these, they are able to make decision in life by their own. So that, they will not regret or blame anyone including their parents if their failed to perform well in their studies, choosing by themselves.
    Moreover, at the age of 16 also, they intend to know more about opposite sex. They are so interested in fashion, sexual and also in making gossip. Of course they made a lot of gossip influence by their own behaviour with friends. By these, parents have no right to know all about their talking with other friends. In other words, the teenage world is the most interesting and exploring.
    After SPM, they will busy to do part time job before the result come out and want to earn money by themselves. So that, they can buy anything for their satisfied without asking money from their parents.
    In ambition aspect, parents should let their teenage children to choose their own future. So that, the children will not waste their time to study the course choosing by the parents that they are totally did not interested with. By making their own decision, it intend to stimulate their own creativity towards their ambition that they dreams on it.
    Lastly, for the parents, try not to be so control and careless of their teenage children. Not all the decision made can totally decide by them same as the parents.

    FATINATHIRAH BT.ZULKIPLI
    J09DNOO76

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  74. continue...
    Furthermore, parents in most case want their children go on rosy ways, but sometimes rough ones teach them more than what are so easy. Even when their children fail or have wrong choices, experiences from life they got will make them stronger, more confident and more self-responsible and be easier to accept than what parents told them. More importantly, the children get the need of their families to overcome these failures. By this way, the children will achieve mastery of making important decisions to take steady steps into hard further life as their families don’t stand side by side with them anymore.

    Summarizing, I adhere to the opinion, that in age of 15-18 years old, teenagers can and ought to act up to their own discretion making important decisions by themselves. Indeed, it teaches them how to be independent, increases their self-confidence and protects them from possible mistakes of their parents.

    IRMANENGSI JURAIMI
    J09DN0078

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  75. QUESTION 7

    The chart shows the types of music albums purchased by people in Britain according to gender and age.
    Albums of Pop Music mostly purchased by male with 28% compare to female which is only with 18%. According to the age, the highest percentage of the purchased is by the age of 25-34 years old with 35%. Age of 45 years old and above people with 10% of purchased of Pop Music is rated as lowest purchased for the category. Like the Pop Music, the highest percentage of gender who buys the Rock Music is male with 26% while female only with 18%. Rock Music is most liked by age 25-34 years old with 35%. In addition, age of 45 years old and above people is the lowest percentage of purchasing the Rock Music album with 5% of them only. Male is the highest rate for purchasing the Classical Music with 8% of them compared to female only 6% of them. Different with the other album, Classical Music is most liked by the age of 45 years and above with 20%.
    As a conclusion, male loves music more than female. This is according to the percentage, male is high than female for each album.

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    NOASHIKIN BINTI MOHD NARAWI
    J09DN0104

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  76. Teenagers is a person who is in age between 15- 18 years old. They are very active and easy to be influence by other. More than that in this age the teenagers will take everything as a challenge, and they will do it .At this age the teenagers also hate to the advised. They also will be more confuse in making a good decision. So from my opinion I support the statement that parents or adult relatives should make important decision for their (15 to 18 years old) teenager children.
    My first reason why parents or other adult relatives should make an important decision for their children is because they are more elder and oldest people than everyone . Parents are the one who had pass through the same thing like us when they are young. So they have more experience than the children. That’s why parents can guide , teach, and correct their children mistake. Parents also can be a role model to the children. Parents will always take care their children and protect them from involve in negative thing which can spoil their future. They are the one who love their children more than everyone and whatever they do all have the benefit behind it.
    The second reason is because the teenagers cannot make a proper decision in their lifes at this age. This is because nowadays the teenagers can be easily influenced by others to involve in moral activities. They will be more confuse to choose which is a correct way to continue their life but normally they will choose a wrong way. At this age ,the children is still not mature to make a decision by their own . This is why they have to depends on someone to guide them. Parent is the one who always find the better things for their child in life.
    Furthermore , the teenagers are not fully prepare by mentally and physically. They are more easy to be influence by others. So the parents must guide the children until they can stand on their own feet and can manage themselves to make a good decision. If not the children will destroy their future by their own . For examples , nowadays we hear that most of the secondary school girls are pregnant because they involve in unmoral activities. This is because their parents give them the rights to make a decision by their own . So it is much better if the parents make a decision for them. This is because the teenagers who under the care of the parents and others adults relative will think twice before they do any negative things .
    Other than that , the parents always will make a good decision for their children because they don’t want their children to repeat the same mistake as what they did before this. That’s why parents always notice their children behavior. Parents are the one who really love at us and they want their children to have a bright future.
    As a conclusion the parents should make a decision in their children life for certain age. The parents are the only true friend for their children to believe, and share all the problems., so the parents can be a example for their child to continue their life.

    VIJIYA VANI d/o RAMENY
    J09 DN 0157

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  77. Muhamad Amirul Bin Ramlee
    J09DN0094

    Q.6

    PARENTS OR OTHER ADULT RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR (15-18 YEAR-OLD) TEENAGE CHILDREN

    According to title above,I totally agree that child should make important decision by their own self,it make the child more independence and their experience that guide him in future.For my self to make decision is not easy but all the think that I want to do my parents does say not to me.some of the parents does feel that their child has to make the important decision and I think that not good for their child.As a good child we all always say yes what parents say but in heart only god know.
    A good method in giving education is experience,experience does not make us forget and that why some of success people may make their important decision by their own self,don’t afraid to tell oue parent what we want because our parent will think about it first and then they will make the decision that they decide is right or wrong.
    Example in situation that parents decide to send their child take medic but they does know that their child more like to art than medic,this will make their child go crazy and does finish the study and will waste their child time and parents money.When parents want to make decision for their children,its good to take their child opinion first and then procide with that decision if child say ok but that child must tell the truth to their parents.
    conclusion is,the decision that parents make to their child is important but they have to consider about their child ambition,life is only once and every people has right to decide their own life.Don’t make child suffer in moral because that will cause a deep scar in their child soul.

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  78. Mohamad Ismat Izzuddin bin Md Salleh
    J09DN0085

    The important decision

    The issue stated by the topic is whether or not parents should make important decisions for their teenager children. This is a very important issue it has to tell that what kind of decisions can make by the teenager. In my opinion, I believe that parents should make important decisions because teenage is a very important time period for their children.

    The reason I prefer that parents should make important decisions for their children because teenagers are not yet mature enough for making such important decisions. An example- If a teenage child makes some decision, then there will be some probability that the decision could be wrong, and this decision reflects some bad effect in their life. So parents should make some important decisions.

    Furthermore, I think parents should make decisions for their children because teenage is an only time period, where a teenager can indulge in some bad activities. At that time all the children are either studying in school or just passing out from school. They don’t know about the real world, and they easily indulge in some activity like smoking and drinking. If their parents are able to choose their school and friends, and also make some important decision, then they can control their child.

    Finally, parents should make important decision for their children because people just say that by making important decision on their own can make a child mature, but this is not the right time for testing the maturity level. For example- if a teenager chooses a subject for higher education, then there will be some chance that they will not survive with that subject and they will fail in the examination. Parents know their child very well, they know their children capabilities, and so they will always choose better option for their children.
    In conclusion, Parents should make important decisions for their children because in this world parents are the only member in our family who always want their children’s happiness. Parents are mature, and they know about the real world, and they can make important decision correctly.

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  79. NURAFIQKHA BINTI ABDUL RAHIM
    J09DN0123

    During the years of adolescence, all the decisions for the children are being made by their parents. In some families this tendency still takes place as the children are growing and becoming more mature. I strongly believe that starting with 15-16 years old, teenagers must start making important decisions up to their own discretion. Doing that, teenagers will become more independent, increase self-confidence and prevent themselves from unintentional mistakes their parents could make.

    First of all, sooner or later child will be in situations when he must do his own choice. Seventeen years old is exactly the age when teenagers are applying for the college and, therefore, have to leave their home and live away from their families. If one was always told what to do by his parents, either do the homework or go to bed, he would not be able to make such basic decisions alone. Not to mention living for months, studying and providing him with the sustenance. Following directions of his parents hi still is callow even in 20 and 25. Therefore, making their own decisions in the early stages of teenage years will give children necessary experience, indispensable for living alone.


    Secondly, observations of your own successful decisions will increase self-confidence in personality of the child. Such positive experience will make teenagers believe in themselves and act decisively in the future. One of my friends, Matt, being seventeen years old juvenile, fortuitously won substantial sum of money in lottery. Despite his parents wanted him to put these money on the bank account, they ultimately decided to let Matt to make his own choice how to spend it. Matt has bought a stock which has tripled in the half of year. It was the right decision which Matt did by himself. Ever since he never hesitates how he should spend money and never need any advice of anybody else. Matt became mature independent man. Therefore, making their own decision, children strengthen confidence in themselves.

    Lastly, parents and adult relatives do all the things to make the children benefit the best and not to make wrong decisions. But they fail to notice that it is their own life and the life should be choosen by them. They are themselves and they should decide which direction to go but not follow their parents or adult relatives' guide.

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  80. Teenagers means people who in year of 15 to 18 years old. Usually their study in secondary school. Nowadays so many of immoral things such as vandalism, open sex and many more. In their age their don’t know to take the correct decisions. They really need somebody’s opinion to take any important decision in their life.
    As my opinion I agree the statement that parents or other adult relatives should make important decision for their 15 to 18 years old teenage children. A parent is most important people in our live. Parents or other adult relatives are considered pass through many type of experience they may have more knowledge and lesion from that experience.
    First decision that parents must take in teenagers live is their studies. Especially when they form four parents must give correct way to children growth up in future. When the teenage in from four their age is 16 years old. They definitely cannot make a correct decision. Usually they follow their friends.
    Other than that, parents mostly consent on their children’s because they don’t want to children’s to do the same mistake when they in young age. Especially when the children mix around with the friends. Parents normally meet the children’s friends or ask them to come to home. So that the parents can well know about the friends. When the parents tell to the children’s the children must take that as an advice.
    More than that parent is the only person that thinks about our best future .They always think that what they can do best to the children. So that they always aware when the children do any things. Nowadays the social problem was increase among the teenagers. We can see in newspaper or media that school student or teenagers spoil their life. So parents also feel fear when think about their children’s life.
    Finally, we can see the decision that adult people take is usually correct to the younger people. Parents always think good things to the children. As children they must understand parents feeling and listen to them. In the teenagers age we cannot take a good decision for our life. So we must take our parents opinion as a guldens true our life.

    ARCANA D/O UDAIYAKUMAR
    J09DN00 66

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  81. QUESTION 6

    PARENTS SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISION FOR THEIR (15 TO 18 YEARS OLD) TEENAGE CHILDRREN


    Nowadays many teenagers want to make their own decision in many things that’s related to their live. They think they know the best for them. They even don’t like their parents or other adult relatives to take part to make decision for them. For them if the parents or other adult relatives make decision for them it just disturb their development as a teenage. Same as me, I disagree if the parents or other adult relatives make important decisions for teenage children. But not said I don’t like just I feel a bit disturbance to grow as normal teenage. I know why parents or other adult relatives being like that. It just because they have the same experienced before us.


    For me it good to lets go the teenage to make their own decisions. Its can make them more matured and thinking the best just in age 15 to 18 years old. Why I said it can make them more matured? For example, they just make a mistake and they don’t want repeat the same mistake. Sometimes they share the mistake to their friend and make it as lessons for them. Matured not only in that aspect, it also can describe by their dressing. Some teenage want to have a look like a supermodel but it can’t be realize just because the parents or adult relatives stop them to dressing like that. For them, it just like want to show off or the way they dressing are too sexy. But the reality the teenage want to follows the trend now. Some parents or other adult relatives think in the age of 15 to 18 years old not enough to choose their own style because they think only them know the best to make their teenage children personality. But the true life, in age of 15 to 18 years old is best age to build up the personality for them.


    Furthermore, the teenage children deserve their right to choose the education or friend. As example, the parents want their children be a doctor or other in a medical line but the children don’t like that career just because they like in culinary course. It may have some problems when the parents forced them to continue their study in medical line. The problem may be the children not study hard and waste the money or else the children make a trouble when the parents keep forced them. In addition, the teenage children have their own right to choose their friend. Why I said like this? It is because only the children know how to choose friend because most of the time they have with their friend. So they know the good either bad friend.


    As the conclusion, the teenage have their own right to make their own important decisions. Only they know the best for them but in my suggestion the parents should observe them to avoid other bad things happen to them.


    NAME: WAHIDAH BINTI ABD GHANI
    MATRIX NO.: J09DN0158

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  82. Question 2

    I do not agree that parents or other relatives should make any important decisions for their children. Since we need to live in the society and parents cannot raise us forever, we must rely fully on our own. Therefore, in my opinion, I think teenagers have a right to select their own education, their own friends and their own jobs.
    Children should decide what they need to learn. Only do children themselves know what they are really interested. When I finished my high school, my parents gave me a chance to decide which faculty I need to continue in a college. They always gave me any information of each faculty. They also gave me the financial support when I need to take more courses for entrance examination. They, however, never forced me to select any faculty they need. They know I should learn what I really want to learn. I became successful in my education simply because my parent never made decisions for me.
    Moreover, children should also decide their own society. Parents may not need their children to mingle with other children from slum. They may not need their children to be friends with someone who always steels other people’s belongings. However, they should not force their children. Children should make a decision by themselves what kind of friends they need to associate with. They may decide to mingle with bad friends but that will cause them understand the real lives. After that , when they grow up, they will know what kind of people should not associate with and how to prevent themselves from those people. Parents cannot protect children forever; thus they should give their children a change to select their own society.
    Finally, children should select their own job. Parents may not need their children to work very far from their own home. They may not want their children to work for a small company. However, children may think that working far away can broaden their society. Moreover, small company may be able to give them a good position. Parents, thus, should respect children’s decision.
    In conclusion, I know that all parents always want to give their children the best things. However, making all important decision for their children may make children become weak and diffident people. Giving children an opportunity to make any decision by themselves will cause them able to stand on their own feet when they grow up.

    NO MATRIX : J09DN0135
    NAME : RAFIDAH BINTI KERMAN

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  83. Afiqah Mahrum Bt badaruddin
    J09DN0061
    Question 6
    Parent or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their teenage children (15 to 18 years old).I disagree with this statement.the teenage children is able to make the decision because they know the good things to they or bad things to their life.the parents just give the advice to their children to make the decision with experience what the parent through away teenage period.This is reason to support my opinion.
    First at all,every teenage has their own life and every one should know what their want do to with it.So the teenage must make decision to their life because this is their life and their know what their want to do with it.Around age 15 to 18 years,all the teenage should know what their want to be in future based on their level of knowledge and educational and what their like. So the teenager must make decisions what their want to be because just their know the level of themselves. The parents just give advice to their children to make their decision.
    Secondly,the teenager must make the own decisions because this manner help them to be matured and help them to life in this world. This it can help them to survive their life after the secondary school period. Them can make right decision without advice from parents or relative because them matured to make a decision. Example for this statement is the teenager know to manage their finance during their studies or work future without advice from parents.
    Other than that, children from fithteen to eighteen years old like to have some privacy in their lives and to live in the way and style that they like to live.So,when parents make important decision for their children then there is also a possibility that the children will not be convinced and tolerance by his parents decisions. For instance, when a child needs to decide for which country to travel for education his parent might decision for him to go for Paris,but the child might want to go to Japan. As a result, the child might not study hard to achieve his parent aims,as he will not be motivated and convinced with them.
    As a conclusion, I very disagree parent or other adult relative should make decision for their teenage children (15 to 18 years old).the teenage children must make decision because this is importance to their life in future.

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  84. I do not agree that parents or other relatives should make any important decisions for their children. Since we need to live in the society and parents cannot raise us forever, we must rely fully on our own. Therefore, in my opinion, I think teenagers have a right to select their own education, their own friends and their own jobs.
    Children should decide what they need to learn. Only do children themselves know what they are really interested. When I finished my high school, my parents gave me a chance to decide which faculty I need to continue in a college. They always gave me any information of each faculty. They also gave me the financial support when I need to take more courses for entrance examination. They, however, never forced me to select any faculty they need. They know I should learn what I really want to learn. I became successful in my education simply because my parent never made decisions for me.
    Moreover, children should also decide their own society. Parents may not need their children to mingle with other children from slum. They may not need their children to be friends with someone who always steels other people’s belongings. However, they should not force their children. Children should make a decision by themselves what kind of friends they need to associate with. They may decide to mingle with bad friends but that will cause them understand the real lives. After that , when they grow up, they will know what kind of people should not associate with and how to prevent themselves from those people. Parents cannot protect children forever; thus they should give their children a change to select their own society.
    Finally, children should select their own job. Parents may not need their children to work very far from their own home. They may not want their children to work for a small company. However, children may think that working far away can broaden their society. Moreover, small company may be able to give them a good position. Parents, thus, should respect children’s decision.
    In conclusion, I know that all parents always want to give their children the best things. However, making all important decision for their children may make children become weak and diffident people. Giving children an opportunity to make any decision by themselves will cause them able to stand on their own feet when they grow up.
    NO MATRIX : J09DN0135
    NAME : RAFIDAH BINTI KERMAN

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  85. Parents take the correct decision to teenager children.


    Many teenage children who are aged from 15 to 18 years old tend to take important decision in their life. But this is the period where the hormonal changes take place in human. Some children took the right path and reach a good destination but some children choose the wrong path and end their life in a terrible way. So many people think that the parents or other adult relatives should make the important decision for the teenagers.
    I agree to that statement because nowadays the thinking of the school children are very extends and that age particularly needs some adventure and exploration. This may lead to some adverse circumstance. Some teenagers are not aware with who they mix. So it is important for the parents to know the children’s friends. Moreover, the wrong friends may lead to a wrong influence such as gangsterism, drug addiction and truancy.
    At this age, teenagers would think to achieve their decision. Sometimes, it may be wrong decision but they tend to do it for their own sake. This shows they are not stable mentally and their parents should lead them to take decision. The parents also want their children to have the best in their life. Parents are always concern to their offspring.

    Nowadays, many teenagers have involved in pre- marital sex. This is a very sad incidence happening around the world. As a parent, they have the rights to discuss with their young ones about the life partner they have chosen. Parents even have right to restrict them from having relationship with their opposite gender. Because the teenagers love relationship would distract the concentration in their studies.
    As we know, the parents are the one who introduce as to this world. So, they have the full rights to control us. Every parents desire to make their children’s life wonderful and they act on it. So as conclusion parent should make the important decision to make the children life easier.

    AYSURIA A/P C.SAYGARON
    JO9DN0068

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  86. Adibah Mustapha J09DN0060

    Teenager is an individual between the ages of 15 to 18 years old. At this stage, teenagers went through a puberty phase where the development of characters and identity began. Here, they tend to be very curious on the happening around. Parents play an important role in protecting their teenage child from social problems such as drug abuse and others.
    Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their teenage child. Why? Because parent understands their child better than anyone else. A mother will always know her children’s feeling although everything seems normal. Parents have their own reason of being protective and making such decision is because they want their children to have the best in life. A father working every day and night just to give the best education for his child, not wanting them to go through the hardship. Besides, parents would not want their child to repeat the same mistakes that they had done before. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.
    As we can see in the news today, most social problems involves teenagers especially in illegal racing, abortion and drug abuse cases. These things are mostly caused by the peer pressure around them. Parents should decide whom their child should be friends with. It’s really important as friends are the closest companion after parents. The best way for parents to keep an eye of their children and friends are to invite them to their house. In that way, parents will be able to meet their children’s friends.
    Most teenage will dreamed of feeling the freedom after secondary school and continue their studies in a high level of education. This is where the rough time begins between parent’s and child’s decision. Parents will always prefer their child to pick the career that would keep their child’s financial secure and also a permanent job in the future. Yes, it’s an individual choice but parents know better. Looking at the economy today, most graduates face difficulties of finding a job. Professional careers are mostly the popular choices today as people see the opportunity as a protection of lifetime.
    Development of children is most obvious especially during the teenage period. At this stage, they are exposed to various types of influences. They tend to follow the trends and got themselves into trouble. Teenagers are prone to suffer depression and other psychological disorders caused by their surroundings. Clearly without the supervision of parents, teenagers would be tied up without string following a path without a clue. However, its best to discuss everything and find the solution. Every problems has its own solution. Whether parent’s or teenager’s choice, a family discussion of pro’s and con’s will always be the right solution.

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  87. QUESTION 6

    Who Should Make Important Decisions for Their (15 to 18 years old) Teenage Children.
    Decisions should always be taken by those who are affected. Everyone should know what is good for them. Although parents have more experiences and they are more reasonable and mature, teenage children should be allowed to make their own decision. And for sure I agree if teenage children wanted to make their own decisions. Furthermore, one has to considerer that some teenage at the same age are more mature than other. Everyone has their own life and everyone should know what they want to do.
    During the years of adolescence, all the decisions for the children are being made by their parents. In some families this tendency still takes place as the children are growing and becoming more mature. I strongly believe that starting age 15-18 years old, teenage must start making important decisions up to their own discretion. Doing that, teenagers will become more independent, increase self-confidence and prevent themselves from unintentional mistakes that their parents could make.
    First of all, sooner or later child will be in situations when she must do her own choice. Seventeen years old is exactly the age when teenagers are applying for the college and therefore, have to leave their home and live away from their families. If one always told what to do by their parents, either do the homework or go to bed, she would not be able to make such basic decisions alone. Therefore, making their own decisions in the early stages of teenage years will give children necessary experiences, indispensable for living alone.
    Children from 15-18 years old like to have some privacy in their lives and to live in the way and style that they like to live. Also, when parents make important decisions for their child then there is also a possibility that the child will not be convinced by their parents’ decisions. For instance, when a child need to decide for which country to travel for education parents might decide her to go for Paris, but the child might want to go to Canada. As a result, the child might not work hard to achieve their parent’s aims, as she will not be motivated and convinced with them.
    Public cannot say in general what an important decisions is. In some cases it might be good when parents let kids not take painful experiences and lead them to good education and behaviour. Especially when child is not reasonable. Other decisions like the ones mentioned before are less important and parents should ask themselves whether it is necessary to interfere. For example, a kid should be allowed to choose their own friends.
    As a conclusion, I adhere to the opinion that in age of 15-18 years old, teenage can and should act up to own discretion making important decisions by themselves. Indeed, it teaches them how to be more independent, increase their self-confidence and protects them from possible mistakes of their parents. In my view, I prefer for children to make all decisions on their own based on the reasons.

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    NOR AZHANI BINTI ABDUL RAZAK
    J09DN0107.

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  88. Question 6

    Parents nowadays always take care of their children and sometimes they will make a decision for their children. They think they can make their children life become more easier so that the parents will make decision according to the children life such as education, course that the children must take when they are in university or enter the college, type of job that they must do and also the partner for their children.
    The parents act like that they don’t want their children make wrong decision until they interfere to the children life. Some of children will accept their parents decision but some of children didn’t accept. They think that when their parents make all the decision they don’t have any opportunity to make their own decision. So not all children will accept their parents decision. Maybe they will not comfortable at all when parents interfere to their life matter such as in marriage.
    For children age at 15 to 18 usually parents will make decision for their education. They will ask their children to take certain course that can give benefit to them. Parents will ask their children to study and pass exam. Not only pass they will ask their children to get the highest mark in their exam. This is one of the decision that parents make to make sure that their children get comfortable life and can continue their studies.
    Teenagers will feel want to do something new. Because of this, parents will always control their children on doing something. For example, usually in the range of age 15 to 18, they will get many friends. If the parents don’t know well about their children, they will always control their children especially when their children want to go out with their friends. The good way is, children can introduce their friend to their parents such as invite them to their house, to make parent know their children friend because usually parents want their children be friend with good person.
    Additional is when their children got mature and when they want to get married, parents will feel worried about their children choice. All of parents in this world want their children happy with their life and because of that they will interfere to this matter. They think that their children have not big enough to make a the decision and for sure that not all children feel comfortable with the parents decision.
    The conclusion is, parents must take their children opinion before doing something that related to the children life. Sometimes what parents do, the children don’t like it and they will think that they cannot make their own decision.

    NABILAH LAILA BT ZAINAL ABIDIN
    J09DN0099

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  89. Question 6
    Noorain Binti Ahmad
    J09DN0105
    Regarding the statement parents or adults relatives should make important decision for their 15 to 18 year old teenage children. Frank to speak here, I 100% agree with this valuable statement. There got a lot of reason why I agreed in this situation. First of all teenagers that including in this old stage is in growth and development of their mental, lifestyle and also their interest in new things in life. They all are unable to thing maturedly of certain things that happenned around them.
    Nowadays, we can see a lot of social problems amongst this teenagers. For an easy examples, most of them are influenced by the bad lifestyle such as smoking, having a love relationship that not good for them at all. In this stage they are influenced by their friends that in the school or maybe outside the school. When they befriends with children that are very social in their life, they also interested to become like them. As examples, after the school time they not go home immediately but they go to shopping complex and hanging there with the school uniform. From this, they also will smoking like we can see now. There have no shame at all when public looked at them.
    Then, for children that just finished their PMR, of course they need to choose the right course for them. Parents are very important to make a decision because parents know better what their children actual suitable on. This is the best way to make the children learn until they successfull in their education aspect. For teeenagers they also have a changes in their behaviour because at this time, they want to know many things and try it out. By looking at their own friends that is more up to date in fashion as examples, they also want to be apart like that. This is a good changes but most of them cannot think about it nicely. At the shopping complex itself, we can see many styles that is not suitable for the teenage ages like ghotic and also the hip hop style.
    Love is also one major thing that occur at this age. Parents must observe their children by knowing all the nearest and closed friends. Because if they are in love affair it can disturb the study and also they forgot about the good and bad things. This is all the reason why there are a lot of social problems like pregnant before married and many more. Other than that, teenagers also think about doing the driving license. Parents should send them and it is for easyness in the future. It’s rather send them to do something valuable for them.
    Parents have their own reason why they must do important decision because maybe they do not want their children repeat their mistake. Parents are the one that knows the best for their children. As a conclusion, parents must be a good friends to their children to avoid any bad things in future.

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  90. Parents are in most cases our first teachers and friends. From my everyday experience I have to agree with the statement that important decisions should be made by our parents or adult relatives. In the following paragraphs I will give my reasons to support this statement.
    First of all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. When I was 18 years old I thought that the world was perfect and everything seemed to be simple. Teenagers are basically inexperienced; they aspire for independence and try to make their first steps towards freedom. I think that it is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support. An independent life is a big and significant part in a person's life. So, my point is that it is very important to make this step right.
    Second of all, I think that parents have right to interfere in their children's lives. They need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their spare time. For example I had an eighteen years old friend who got really angry with his parents when they prohibited him to be friends with a young man. Somehow his parents found out that that young man was occasionally taking drugs. That man was dead in a year because of drug abuse. After that accident my friend thanked his parents for that interference.Finally, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes.To sum up, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best.
    As parents’ making difficult decisions is part of the process of loving the children, losing a child is the worst feeling imaginable. Making the decision to allow them to die is something no parent should experience. The children are supposed to outlive their parents, not the other way around.

    Mohamad Hafez bin Zakaria
    JO9DN0084

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  91. In this world, now have many thing that happen to the teenager or the one who do the wrong thing that is a teenager. Teenager now, can’t be control by their parent. It is because, their parent is so busy with their work and not have time with their teenage children. It can cause the teenage become worse person. So, to make sure the teenager become a good person, their parent must make the decision regarding the future of their teenage children.
    Every thing that we made must be a reason. So our parent will make a decision about our future also may have the reason. The first reason is, they want their children have a good ambition in life, so they will make a decision what their children will be in future. Such as, mother want there son to be a doctor in future. So their children will study and make her mother dream come true and he be a doctor.
    Other than that, the reason why the decision in good, it is the make us be friendly. Friend is the second person who close with us, so the parent must choose the right person to be a friend to their children. That is for make sure that our children in not friend with bad person. Normaly, a person can change their attitude is because of influence from friend.
    In that year, children will face the SPM, so parent must set the decision for their children. That is for their children focus in study and not think other, such as falling in love, playing around with friend, and other. The last reason is, our parent want the best for their children. They want their children will live in good condition. In other hand, our parent did not want we make the same mistake like what they have do before.
    Teenager is the time where the children must be look after carefully. It is because, the blood of teenager is hot. They want all their desire is fulfil by parent. So, the important is parent must take an decision regarding their children in the year 15-18.


    STN NUR ATIKAH MD NOR
    JO9DN0115

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  92. Name: MOHD HASRUL BIN JUNUS
    Matrix no: J09DN0091
    Question 6

    Important of Parent or other Adult Relative in Teenager Decision Making

    Teenagers are people that have mind to think about all their action. Their emotional status is unpredictable and not stable enough. They like to enforce people to follow their style and way. This shown when they want to decide something such in buy something they wanted or enters the university with their favorite course. I strongly agree that teenagers between 15 and 18 should decide for themselves.
    Teenagers should have right to speak for their right in making their own decision such as entering the college or university. This is first step for them to independent in their life because they can make own decision. This also way to improve themselves by think the best choice and face their own risk because make the decision. These prove by the teenagers who have entered the boarding school they are train to independent and make their own decision. Besides that, they also have been train to do their home work by themselves and start their own revision before parent have to tell them. This shown that they have known what is important and priority for their life. They can get experience independent values by doing their work before being told by anyone.
    Furthermore, every school have introduce that every student should involve in society club such as scout, teens cadet or environmental lover club. These have shown that teenagers have chance to prove that they can be a leader and make their own decision for the benefit those club. Then, they can learn how to communicate well with other people and achieve the best decision for their club by manage the formal meeting. Besides that, they also have been taught about management for the club and this make them wiser and mature. The teachers also have give chance to teenagers to make the decision for their club based on their effort. Then, they also been given chance to handle their own club program or activities to train them to independent and mature.

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  93. Back to the point, decision making in their own life in choosing the right college or university should they study. Many parents have wrong in choosing their children college or university and make their children suffer in future. This is not to blame parents but we should give our children to choose their own future life by entered the right university and course. Besides that, parents should know their children personalities and interest because this will help in their future life. Psychologists have proved that the children who choose their own career based on their personalities and interests have achieved the great life and success in future. Then, teenagers have been train to make their own decision and become mature by facing the risk. Those statements are not mean to frighten teenagers but it’s for their own good and improves their self-esteem in facing the real life after this.
    Finally, teenagers between 15 and 18 should be given chance to make their own decision in choosing right university and course, their own stuff like shirt or pants and in managing a club or society. Early action to those teenagers can improve their attitude and make them more independent. Besides that, our country development based on the asset we have such as teenagers who can make their own decision and it’s for citizen in the country.

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  94. During adolescence, all the decisions for the children are being made by their parents. In some families, this tendency still occurs as the children are growing and becoming more mature. I believe that starting with 15-16 years old, teenagers must start making important decisions up to their own discretion. By doing that, teenagers will become more independent, increase self-confidence and prevent themselves from unintentional mistakes their parents could made.

    First of all, sooner or later child will be in situations when he must do his own choice. Seventeen years old is exactly the age when teenagers are applying for the college and, therefore, have to leave their home and live away from their families. If one was always told what to do by his parents, either do the homework or go to bed, he would not be able to make such basic decisions alone. Not to mention living for months, studying and providing him with the sustenance. Following directions of his parents hi still is callow even in 20 and 25. Therefore, making their own decisions in the early stages of teenage years will give children necessary experience, indispensable for living alone.

    Secondly, observations of your own successful decisions will increase self-confidence in personality of the child. Such positive experience will make teenagers believe in themselves and act matured in the future. As example, student in age 18 have made him or her decision to choose the course the him or her interested instead of following parents decision. And finally, they success with their life with their own decision. Therefore, making their own decision, children strengthen confidence in themselves.

    Finally, parents, trying to help to their teenage children by advices sometimes unintentionally making decisions that are inherently wrong. When I was a teenager and just finished my study in the high school, I and my classmates had to choose which major to go on in the college. I knew in the first place that I adored Biology and was going to do fast track degree by enter the matriculation college. In contrast, many of my classmates did not know who they wanted to be. Their parents have chosen for them appropriate programs that, as they considered, would best fit for their children. But soon, many of my friends had changed their course because it was not exactly what they would like to study. Hence, decisions, being made by parents are not necessarily the best ones for their teenagers who can come up with more effective solutions.

    Summarizing, I adhere to the opinion, that in age of 15-18 years old, teenagers can and ought to act up to their own discretion making important decisions by themselves. Indeed, it teaches them how to be independent, increases their self-confidence and protects them from possible mistakes of their parents.


    NAME : NABILAH BINTI MAT SYNED
    MATRIX : J09DN0098

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  95. NAME: SYUHAIDAH BINTI MUSTAFA
    MATRIX NO: J09DN0155

    Parents or other adult relatives should make important decision for their teenage children which are age 15 year to 18 years old. I agree with the statement. Teenage children in age 15 year to 18 years old are a child who in a physical changes, most likely a gossip and want to change their lifestyle.

    If children begin their education at a very early age, they won’t waste their time, probably will turn into well educated persons, but too serious and also could start hating school. On the other hand, if they spend most of their time playing, they could develop vital skills, but they’ll be probably be bored of studying and could not find a good job. First of all, because children have good memory and learn quickly, childhood is a great time to study hard, which could be a great advantage in future.

    Parents can overprotective in choosing life partner and choosing life career. As an example, parents can invite friends in to their house to know children friend. It is because they have experience before this. They want know friend of their children because do not want their children involved in a free sex.

    Furthermore, they do not want their children involved in pre married life. It is also can make their children no future especially in their life. Actually, the parents do not want their children influence by their peers. Some of their friend can give a bad influence in a setting up of life and their ambition.

    All the parents want the best in their children life because they was seen many things before this. They also do not want their children repeat a mistake when their youngest. Furthermore, starting a child’s education at very early age means this child will not waste his or her time in watching the same episodes lots of times. They often are wondering what to do and it’s a great opportunity and the best decision for a child to study. However, if children spend most of their time on school studies, they’ll probably become too serious, which could be a great problem for his or her parents.

    There are many other areas where it may be appropriate, and in the interest of the children in the age group of 15 to 18, to let more knowledgeable and experienced people to take some decision on their behalf. I am not saying that the adults should be able to dictate term to younger people. But when adults who love and care for their children, give some advice, the younger people would benefit by paying attention to it.

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  96. NAME: KOKILAWANI D/O KALAI SELVAN
    MATRIK NUMBER: J09DN0081
    Parents are in most cases our first teachers and friends in our life. I was agree that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their(15 to 18 years old) teenage children. In following paragraphs, I will give reasons to support my statement because I think is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support.
    First for all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. When, I was 16 years and old. I think the world was perfect and everything seem simple in my life. My parents are thought me that world was not simple and perfect such as I think.
    Besides, they need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their spare time. We must invite our friends to home. We also need tell to the parents with whom we going and where we go for. They do want their children get influence with other peers.
    Moreover, they parents should have right to what stream their children have to go such as science or art stream. We have consult our parents because they know what stream we need to study if compare to what we want to be when became elderly.
    Then, their have right to decide our lives when we was 15 to 18 years old because their experience before us. There know what is right and what is wrong. Their want their children have to best in their life. They parents will still care the children even though the children hurt them. They parents have decide the teenage children life because they do want their children do the same mistake as previous they do such as they do want to study when their parents ask them to study.
    There parents do want their children influence through now days fashion and styles. They worried if their daughter wear sexy clothes that can attract guys. Their parents should take decisions in 15 to 18 years old because that time was we will get depression through physical and psychology changes such as breast changes so what types of clothes we need to wear.
    In chart, despite of all the possible reasons for all parents that should implement extra efforts to understand and come with certain decisions that might be not affording their children life in the future, they should sometime felt a bit stressful to understand some part of our children mentality of action because of generation gap that arise among them.

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  97. PARENT OR ADULT RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DICISION
    During the years of adolescence, all the decisions for the children are being made by their parents. In some families this tendency still takes place as the children are growing and becoming more matured. Some of the parent said that they have to make the decision for their children because, they don’t want their children make a wrong decision and take a wrong step. Other than that, nowadays parent are too paranoid about the social life and activity that involve by many of the children such as vandalism and gangsters, smoking and drug.
    Nowadays, parents very alert about the social problem that relate with teenagers. So that, parent always made their children decision to choose whether this friend can be their friend or not. The purpose that parent always do that is to avoid their lovely children involve in the activity no moral. Some of the parents invite their children’s friend to come home and introduce themselves, to know whether the children be a friend with a right person or not. It is the right method to avoid the children from take a wrong step and regret. Certain of parent make the decision for the children whether the children have to choose courses such as science stream or art stream.
    Now, parent also too protective with their children because some of children had a culture shock when he or she grows up and involve in social life especially when they in the college. In the college, children socialize is different from school. So many of the parent do their own decision whether want to choose the college for their children without talking and discuss first. It make the children so unhappy. Certain of parent thing that whatever that their children choose and wear, it must get the approval from their parent. Whether the ways she or he dress up or be friend, it’s must get their permission.
    As a conclusion, the purpose that our parents do all that things is do not their children from making the wrong decision. It maybe because of they had their own history that make them paranoid of it and don’t want their children face the same mistake. They also want be the best for their children because of their life experience. It maybe cause the children not independent, but it good for themselves.
    AISHAH BINTI ROSLAN
    J09DN0064

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  98. QUESTION 2

    This is a very important issue it has to tell that what kind of decisions can make by teenagers. In my opinion, i believe that parent’s should make important decision because teenagers is a very important time period that can’t make wrong decision because it will effect the future later.
    The reason I prefer that parents should make important decision for their children because teenagers are not yet mature enough for making such important decision. An example, if a teenager child make some decision then there will be some probability that the decision could be wrong, and this decision reflects some bad effects in their life. So, parents must take the decision.
    Furthermore, teenage is an only time period, where a teenager can indulge in some bad activities. At that time, all the children are either studying in school or just passing out from school. They don’t know about the real world, and they easily indulge in some activities like smoking and drinking. If their parents are able to choose their school friends and also make some important decision, then they can control their child.
    Other than that, people just say that by making important decision on their own can make a child mature, but this is not the right time for testing their maturity level. For example, if the teenager choose a subject for higher education, then there will be some chance that they will not survive with that subject and they will fail in the examination. Parents know their children very well, they know their children’s capabilities and so they will always choose better option for their children.
    As a conclusion, parents should make important decisions for their children because in this world parents are the only member in our family who always want their children’s happiness. Parent’s are mature and they know about real world and they can make important decision correctly.

    SAGUNTHALA PALASUPRAMANIAM
    J09DN0139. 

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  99. PARENT OR ADULT RELATIVES SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DICISION
    During the years of adolescence, all the decisions for the children are being made by their parents. In some families this tendency still takes place as the children are growing and becoming more matured. Some of the parent said that they have to make the decision for their children because, they don’t want their children make a wrong decision and take a wrong step. Other than that, nowadays parent are too paranoid about the social life and activity that involve by many of the children such as vandalism and gangsters, smoking and drug.
    Nowadays, parents very alert about the social problem that relate with teenagers. So that, parent always made their children decision to choose whether this friend can be their friend or not. The purpose that parent always do that is to avoid their lovely children involve in the activity no moral. Some of the parents invite their children’s friend to come home and introduce themselves, to know whether the children be a friend with a right person or not. It is the right method to avoid the children from take a wrong step and regret. Certain of parent make the decision for the children whether the children have to choose courses such as science stream or art stream.
    Now, parent also too protective with their children because some of children had a culture shock when he or she grows up and involve in social life especially when they in the college. In the college, children socialize is different from school. So many of the parent do their own decision whether want to choose the college for their children without talking and discuss first. It make the children so unhappy. Certain of parent thing that whatever that their children choose and wear, it must get the approval from their parent. Whether the ways she or he dress up or be friend, it’s must get their permission.
    As a conclusion, the purpose that our parents do all that things is do not their children from making the wrong decision. It maybe because of they had their own history that make them paranoid of it and don’t want their children face the same mistake. They also want be the best for their children because of their life experience. It maybe cause the children not independent, but it good for themselves.
    AISHAH BINTI ROSLAN
    J09DN0064

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  100. In this globalization era’s nowadays, teenagers who are fifteen to eighteen years old are easy to be influences by their surrounding environment. They are not enough experiences in their life yet and not matured in making decision without adult’s references. In fact of that, I’m agreed with these sentences that parents and other adult relatives should make important decision for their teenage children.
    First, the reason why parents should make important decision for their children is teenagers are not matured to make the right decision in their life. They can’t think very maturely to make a important decision. Parents should know with whom their child making friends. Parents must help their child in choosing good friends. For example, invite child’s friend to house and get close to them too. Parents should not ‘judge a book by its cover’ because we can’t just judge a person before we know they better. So, parent must know their children’s friends.
    Moreover, teenagers around fifteen to eighteen years old was have changes especially in their behaviors. They start to be interacted to the opposite sex. They want to have a ‘special boyfriends’ or ‘special girlfriends’ because their schoolmate was having lover. At least, parents must know the better partner for their child. Let’s said that parents know their child’s partner, and he or she are good and trustable person, then parents can support their child but always advices them not doing such things.
    Teenagers also not mentally stable to make the decision. Children without parent’s controlled are prone to get involved in social problems. They don’t have any person to support them. So, they can do whatever they likes such as illegal racing, open sexual, smoking and drugs.
    Furthermore, with making important decision for child parents have their own reason which they want the best for their child’s life. They don’t want their child repeated what mistakes that they have done on previous.
    In conclusion, parents should make the important decision for their child. So that, their teenager child will have successful in their life.

    NUR ZANARYAH SHAFIIE
    J09DN0122

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  101. QUESTION 6

    TEENAGE CHILDREN

    There were several of age that life together in the world and there were included from we are in born until become adult. Habitual and characterized will changed according to increasing in our age. But have you realized that the existence of teenage children and do you really understand about their truly life? A teenage child is the person in the age of 15 to 18 year-old. They want to do whatever they want and like. We as the parents need to take an action and put supervision for our child especially teenage. That was truly when the parents need to be protective towards their teenage children but don’t be to be over protective and that was disagree statement when parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their teenage children.


    What the important decisions that we need to be concern about? For example our social life, setting up of ambitious, and our pals and soul mate. That was very Asian when the parent decides in our life. There were difficult moments when we want to setting up of ambitious. For the teenage in 16, they need to choose either want to enter for the science scream or add scream. Teenage need to make own decision to determined their own life and do the things that they dream in their life. When comes the feel of interested in our heart that was the easy process to be whatever we want. Moreover, that was the one of process learning to be more mature.


    Teenage children have the tendency to cling to their pals than their parents. Your teenage child's friends represent the future community in the society, to which he and she wants to get associated. You can encourage your teenager's friends at your home. In that way you will get to know whether your children are in a good peer group or not. However if you have a negative opinion about any of the visiting friends, never tell it your child at the first shot. You can slowly compare that particular friend with other good friends and ask your child to judge the good one.
    Many parents are skeptical about the opposite gender pals of their teenage children. It is always better to acquaint with all your teenage children than restricting them. Any restriction based on mere suspicion will make your teenage children rebellious and lead them to more infatuations. Many parents feel that their intimacy and affection towards the teenage children may make them pampered brats. Ensure a bright future for your children with a little care in their adolescence.


    NAME: NURUL FAHANA BINTI MASDI
    MATRIX NO.: J09DN0128

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  102. Recently, Malaysia had been shocked by a lot of cases create by a teenagers especially related to a love problem. We also read at the new paper has many cases social problem regarding teenagers. The minister also provide the courses of this problem, and the main courses of this problem is because a lack of contributationa of parents in teenagers life.
    Teenagers nowdays need more guidance, especially in making decision by their parents to make sure in leading them into the right path. For example many of parent does not agreed or knowing much about their children’s friends. So the best idea in introducing their friends by invites them to come to the house especially in the friendly atmosphere such as birthday party, family occasion, family gathering and so on.
    Actually teenager in 15 to 18 years is difficult to follow their parent advise, but not to all teenagers it is depend on how communication and relationship between parent and children. Parents has be smart to be a friend for their children so that can make children more comfort and be open in sharing story. So at this way parents can more understanding about their children and parents can know what is their child problem.
    Parent always worried about their child whether their child is become adult. Because of that parent always aware their child and make decision on their child because their want do the best for their child. Beside that parent want to protect their child form the social problem and other dangers that can disturb development of their child. Teenager around 15 to 18 years is still no matured anymore because of that parents is always beside they to help their child make right decision and as a counselor.
    All of the Experian’s of a parent as a guild to them to teach their child from to do anything wrong in life and parent did not want their child do the same mistake that their do at all time ago. As a parent their did not give up to guild their child to do the best for their child such as their always give moral support, some advise, and also be aware their child from dangers or social problem that can influence their child and at the same time can make their child lose in life.

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    SUHAILA BEE

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  103. Nur Afrina Binti Rosni
    J09DN0112
    PARENTS SHOULD MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR THEIR TEENAGER CHILDREN
    Parents are in most cases our first teachers and friends. From my everyday experience I have to agree with the statement that important decisions should be made by our parents or adult relatives. In the following paragraphs I will give my reasons to support this statement.
    First of all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. When I was 18 years old I thought that the world was perfect and everything seemed to be simple. Teenagers are basically inexperienced; they aspire for independence and try to make their first steps towards freedom. I think that it is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support. An independent life is a big and significant part in a person's life. So, my point is that it is very important to make this step right.
    Second of all, I think that parents have right to interfere in their children's lives. They need to know what kind of friends their children have and how children spend their spare time. For example I had an eighteen years old friend who got really angry with his parents when they prohibited him to be friends with a young man. Somehow his parents found out that that young man was occasionally taking drugs. That man was dead in a year because of drug abuse. After that accident my friend thanked his parents for that interference.
    Not only that, as an adult person, parents has been through a lot experience that can be as guided for them and they don’t want us to repeat same mistake that they has been done. This is why the most important person that we should trust is our parent.
    Finally, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes.To sum up, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best.

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  104. I agreed, I am so strong in admit that parent’s or other adult relatives should make important in making decisions for their (15 to 18) years teenage children. Youngsters nowadays are not mentally prepared or in other hand they are not capable in making the correct t decisions.
    However, teenagers need to give more priority of giving them guides and teach them the each steps of courage to get the best future for their child. Other than that, parents are the first roll model for their children from the early age. And this make them has an example and has a lesson adviser to share with in everything’s commonly. Next, their emotional, thoughts, thinking’s, personals issues and many more other factors.
    Besides, the other adult relative should make important decisions by giving them some advising in making a suitable choice in their life. An example a educate brother in law or sister in law can give advice to the teenagers is explanations regarding the educations laves or getting to know even in details. They also can clear or give them a chance to know about their doubts in making their own decisions.
    Furthermore, this is a must because teenagers are easily influenced by wrong or negative behavior examples. Unexpectable situations may or may not happen has we decides. That’s why parents are strict and even controlled their children to make decisions. Normally, the parents will notice that their children’s pysiocological changes that makes them worried about their child. The pre marital sex changes that make the parents to consider what will happen to their children life and future. Thus , parents are more alert because they are more experienced and they do not want their child to do the same mistakes that they have made before.
    In conclusion, parents will make important decisions because they want the best for their children to be or to make a correct decision to achieve in their life. As for me, the teenagers need to think and consider about their parents decisions it is for our goodness.
    Name: Maha lechmi d/o Jeminthar
    Matrix number : JO9DN0082
    Group : 2/2009 (3)

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  105. Parent are the individual that very important in our life .Parent are the one who guide us until we grow older .Without them we can’t achieve in our life so parent are the one who need to take all the decision their children life .In the aged of 15 to 18 years old teenage children they start to become more matured in physically and mentally.
    First of all , the parents are more eldest than us so they have more experience in their life .They always take the best decision in their children life .Most of the parent will think twice before take any decision . If the children take the decision in their own self of course it will be wrong decision. That’s why now days most of the children was involve in many social activities such as smoking , bully and
    Moreover, the children in the aged of 15 to 18 years old they start to become puberty so they start to expose their self in the sexual activities .Parent are the one who will be guide them and take care of their self. Normally in the aged of this the children will fall in love and also influence by their friends.
    Besides that , the parents are the one who know more about our self compare to the others. The decision that made by the parents always will be best .In the aged of this the teenagers will decide their ambition . So in this age the parent, who is the one choose a correct and best ambition to them.
    Lastly , the parent should take decision in their children life . Without them of course we can’t achieve in their life .

    chemalah
    jo9dn0070

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  106. As we all know that now days teenagers are capable to do their own decision without the interfere of their parents. At the same time they are going to face so much of problems regarding to their decision that they have made because without consulting with their parents, sometimes the decision that they have made not the right choice. So, for that case, I’m agree with the statement that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their 15 to 18 years old teenage children. This is because the parents already face all the problems and they got the experience in their life and the teenagers should take it as example before do any decision.
    Furthermore, teenagers that between 15 to 8 years old are not really capable to make important decision in their life because they are not experienced so much in their life and there are still so many things that all of them need to go through in their life. Some of the important decision that the parents need to take for their children is setting up the ambitions. Since small the parents already set up in their mind what should their children to be, So, for that cases in the age of 15 they need to choose weather go to science or art stream.
    On the other hand, parents also need to choose the friends that their children should be with. This is because now days children are very fast to be get involved with the cultural shocked that are becoming very serious in this millennium. So, teenagers at the age of 15 are easily to loose their control and will end up in trouble and also social problems that are increasing rapidly among them. In such cases parents should invite their children friends to their home and get to know about them, so that they are always in front them are able to control their movement.
    Moreover, parents usually want the best for their children no matter in choosing clothes or even foods for them. So, indeed for their children life also, they will make the right choices for them. They always think that whatever they decide is the best among the best because they already go through so many obstacles in their life and it will be the guidance to their children to be success in their life and also future. It is better if the parents took the important decision for their children rather than let the teenagers make a decision because it can change the total life of the children if they does not choose the right pathway.
    Last but not least, the parents need to take some of the important decision in their children’s life because they don’t want the children influence by the wrong peers. This is because it can lead to even serious social problems. So, whatever is the decision, it is better to have discussion with the elder one.
    As a conclusion, I’m agree with the statement that parents or other adult relative should make the important decision for the teenage children age around 15 to 18 years old. This is to prevent them from taking a wrong decision in their life and at the same time parents want the children to have a nice future and also don’t want their children also face the same problem as they face last time.

    KASTURI A/P BALAN
    J09DN0079

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  107. Question 2 Week 2
    In this new era, there are many problems facing by teenager. They have to choose right way of their life. I agree with the statement that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15-18 years old) teenage children. In this between age, they are not too matured to think what right or what wrong to them.
    Usually, after their parent, teenage will make their friends as somebody close to them. As parent, you must know with whom your daughter or son be friends. There are many ways you can know their friends such as invite them to the house and lunch together. From that moment, you will know what their behavior, where they come from, the way he/she talk and others. Friends can influence how your child behave because they more spent time together.
    Furthermore in this stage, teenager had their hormonal changes. So they will shock and do know what happen to themselves such as menstrual period, physical changes, behavior changes and other. Parents should told them that are normal changes happen for each human. But there have different between girl and boy.
    Other than that, for their physical appearance, the way they talk, they walk, dress up and so on also need to tell them what nice and what bad. If the way of their dress up sexy and not nice, the risk of rape will increase. So , parent should tell them the correct and nice way to wear.
    As conclusion, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes.To sum up, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best.
    NORAIN RAHMAN
    JO9DN0109

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  108. Parents Decision to the Children

    Parents play the most important role in the growing up of their children. In my opinion, despite some very good characteristics parents have, they can be the best teachers of their children but the parent also should give a chance to their children try to be a responsible and independent child. Although their children is fifteen to eighteen year old, I think that at this age, is the best time to the children grow up their experiences and knowledge about to be independent.

    First of all, parents are able to have knowledge in some fields, but not all the fields. It is not true that parents know everything in the world. Sometimes, they just have a passing acquaintance of some subjects. They shouldn’t teach their children something that they don’t know thoroughly.
    Secondly, parents want to teach their children by their ways. They are right, and they are wrong sometimes. For those who aren’t be educated how to be good teachers, it might be a very big problem. They can be good parents, but hardly good teachers. For instance, it’s not simply to tell children what they should do and what they shouldn’t. If the children don’t follow, their parents might get angry. In that case, they lose their control, and they just want their children to obey them without any decent explanation for their behavior. Parents should help their children be aware of the wrong and the right in order that they will know why their parents want them to follow their advice.

    Thirdly, parents are easy to be wrong in educating their children in that they have much emotion. Under their eyes, their children are obviously the best ones. They praise their children and encourage them to keep doing things though under other eyes, the children should stop behaving like that. Consequently, parents should be strict and thoughtful in some situation.
    In a nutshell, I hope the children also will give a very full attention in the way to make any decision. The children need to think wisely and properly before do something because once wrong step taken, the parent will be no more chance to children make their own decision because they did not want bad thing happen again to their lovely child. One more thing, the child also need to listen some suggestion and advice from the parent.

    Name: Nik Mohd Faris bin Nik Musthafa
    Matric no.: J09DN0103

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  109. NUR SYAFIQAH YUSRA BINTI ISMAIL
    J09DN0121
    Question 6.
    Many people hold the option that parents or other relative adults should make important decisions to their older teenager important life stages. I agree about that because of various reasons. In the following paragraphs, I will give my reasons to support my opinion.
    First of all, teenage children have the tendency to live in their own fantasies. This is due to the fact that their hormonal change was increase those times. This is because of the growth development insides their body. They do not clearly understand the rules of a real life. Besides that, parents can protect their child from social problem such as gangsters, black metal, early sexual and others. This is because there are influences by their friends to try something new without thinking the causes they can get from it.
    Besides that, teenager especially inexperienced; they aspire for independence and try to make their first steps towards freedom. I think that it is like starting to walk when a baby needs its parents for support. An independent life is big and significant part in a person’s life. Parent also wants to save their children from mistakes; it is natural desires, it is right in my opinion. All the parents want their child become a good person. Anybody should learn and sometimes makes mistakes; otherwise he would become in adult life helpless and weak.
    Children, from their side, becoming teenager do not realize themselves like babies, they consider that know everything in this world and think that parent get nothing in the modern life, so that cannot help them to make correct decision. Children want to rush out from parents concern. This is because they attracted to by adult life.
    Finally, I think teenage children should be more open-minded with their parents. It will help them to make the right choice and avoid many mistakes. To sum up, I believe that young people should trust their parents because they wish their children only the best.

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  110. NURUL ATHIRAH BINTI AHMAD KAMAR
    J09DN0127
    Many people hold the opion that parents or other relative adults should make important decisions for their older teenage children, since they do not want their children to make any wrong decision or mistake during the important life stage. While, I do not agree with them at all. Because age fifteen to eighteen is such a crucial period for the teenage children to form their personality, to learn how to make decisions and take responsibily of it, as well as to develop where their talent lie. No one can make the important decisions for their life but themselves.

    First, the age fiftteen to eighteen, accoding to many research, is the time for teenage children to form thier personality. They need to make their own choices and follow their own hearts. If all the decisions were made by their parents or adult relatives, we can not image where is the creative side, and where is the distinguish side. The world will be lack in innovation.

    In addition, it is also the age for the older teenage children to learn to be responsible for themselves. No matter the child is a girl or a boy, most of the important decisions in thier life should be made by themselves. On one hand, children will be dependent on their parents and adult relatives' decision making and do not want to and feared to make their own decisions. How is their parents and adult relatives who made the important decisions for them pass away? How can they make their own decisions in their later life? They should have the ability to make their own decision even when they are only teenage children. On the other hand, all the decisions could be ricky, who can take responsiblity to the children if the decisions do not benefit? It is the child's own life, so, in order not to make anyone feel guilty or regret for the results, it should be the child who make the decisions in his own life.

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  111. continued....
    NURUL ATHIRAH BINTI AHMAD KAMAR
    J09DN0127

    Furthermore, parents and adult relatives should not make the important decision for the children since people are different from each other, no one knows the child better than the child himself. The child knows on which field he can be really good at, and on which field he lacks talent in. During the age I was eighteen, my parents make the decision for me to go to study Finance, but for me, Asian studies seems much more attractive and I have strong will to study on that. Since they make the decision and I did not obey their will, four years collge life on Finance make me feel really bad. And I even fell to pass two of the courses since I have no interest in them. I feel so regret for the desicion, and it takes me more time to achieve the success on Asian studies during graduate school. This is what a parents-making decision will lead us to. On most circumstances they only follow their own will to choose for you but ignore where your talent really lie.

    In conclusions, parents and adult relatives do all the things to make the children benefit the best and not to make wrong decisions. But they fail to notice that it is their own life and the life should be choosen by themselves. They are themselves and they should decide which direction to go but not follow their parents or adult relatives' guide.

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  112. Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children. Use specific reasons and examples to support your opinion.
    The first reason for this is that no one understands children as well as their parents. Parents know what they need and they make the best decisions for them. These decisions are very essential and useful. They help children a lot, bring them in a right direction to develop. For instance, parents should decide which school their children will attend. A good school will benefit children a lot, bring them a pleasant condition that they can improve their knowledge and skills much more remarkably.

    Second, if children are allowed to make their own decisions, they are likely to get in a lot of troubles. Therefore they not only can't learn anything from their mistakes but also can be put in an extremely stressful state. This is very not good because it will distract children from their studies, make them always feel confused and disheartened. Moreover, children who cannot cope with the stress may commit suicide. This will remain heart-rending suffering for the children' family.

    In addition, nowadays lots of parents, especially who divorced, indulge their children. They give their children a lot of money, allow them to do everything, to make any decisions. By this means, they are spoiling their children as immature children with no control of parents are probably become corrupt. They will have no interest in studying, all day hang out with the others or maybe commit social evil. These results of children making decisions are disastrous and can harm a lot to society.

    In conclusion, parents should be who direct and make important decisions for their teenaged children. Teenagers who follow their parents' advices will have a good preparation for their future lives.

    MOHD NOR AFFANDI BIN HANAFIAH
    J09DN0092

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