Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. Compare the advantages of each choice. Which of these two ways of spending time do you prefer? Use specific reasons to support your answer.
Friendship is very important in our life. But making friends is a matter of choice, as it depends on our individual needs. Some people need only one or two very close friends, soul friends, others cannot live without having more friends. Spending free time with friends is the way we relax and entertain, but some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends when others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. The choice depends on individuals' character. Hanging out with one or two intimate friends and also spending time with a large number of friends are two options that each one has its advantages and disadvantages. In my opinion that we need both of these choices and we should choose the best option based on the situation in which we are. In the following I would make my opinion clear cut.
ReplyDeleteOf course there are advantages and disadvantages to both having a lot of friends and just a few close ones. It might be more fun and more exciting to have a number of friends. Each one of them is different and you can experience a lot of different situations with each of them. They can all teach you new things in life and in case you have a decision to make, you can get a lot of different opinions and benefit from their advice. I have lots of friends and all of them are fun to be with. I enjoy spending my time with all of them as much as possible. Though we rarely meet as a group nowadays because of other obligations circumstances, I still look forward to the day we meet all again. Just talking about the stuff and other foolishness we did back in school. I feel lucky to have them as my friends because they are more than just companions, they are like walls that I can lean on in times of crisis may it be emotional or financial.
However, the feeling like talking to one or two friend is different. I often exchange confidences with my intimate friends. It is easier to share your stories between two people than to do that among a large group. My closest friend and I can talk for hours together about our opinions, feelings or love secrets. She always tries to keep quiet about what I told her to do. But I am not sure that numerous group can do the same thing. In addition, behind my reason that help out each other among close friends lies an equally important fact that taking time with close friends would encourage each other to fight for the same career goal and to strive for life destination. It is worth to spend time with close friends who have the same interest and passion for one. I can also spend more time with a few of my best fiends. I have many relationships and things to do in my life other than friendship. So just a part of my time is for friends. You can keep frequent contact with many of your friends but you need much time, too. When I feel sad or happy and want to share with somebody, I often loiter with my close friend on the park or go to a coffee shop to gossip with her.
PAVANJEET KAUR
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ReplyDeleteThere is this saying that "No man is an island" and I agree to that. Everyone of us needs other people to be friends with. Friends help you to get up when you fall, gives you unending support and encouragement, and always tries to put a smile in your face when you're feeling low. True friends never leaves you in good times and in bad times. When we are with our close friends, we feel that someone care about our self, and we care about other, we are not
alone in the world. For me having time with my friend is very important, sometimes we are just in silence, but looking at each other's eyes we can understand what we want to say. Each way of spending time have advantages. Although I love going to crowded concerts, and football matches very much, but for me having time with close friends is inevitable, since with them I feel well, and they help me to solve many problems.
In conclusion, all in all, I believe that it is good to have really close friends that will catch you when you fall. I believe that we need to use both of the mentioned options because we have different needs that we can satisfy them through selecting the right choice in a particular situation. I am always willing to listen to them and share with my dear buddies not only happiness but also difficulties in our life’s. I hope our unshakeable friendship will go with us in the rest of our life’s.
PAVANJEET KAUR
(J09DN0132)
Friend is one who entertains for another such sentiments of esteem, respect, and affection that he seeks his society aid welfare, a well-wisher, an intimate associate, sometimes, an attendant. We all need to have friends, and I think the more friends we have the better. When you have a lot of friends, we are never alone. We will always have people who will entertain you, people you can trust, and people who teach you about life.
ReplyDeleteThe first reason is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others' experiences. For instance, among a large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes traveling very much and from their experiences we can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before. Of course, while differences give the opportunity to learn, they can also mean that sometimes it can be difficult to reach an agreement. This would not happen or at least would happen rarely if one decides to spend time with one or two close friends. In fact, in this case it is more likely that interests and preferences are the same.
Another reason is that a large number of friends can help us to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if we happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, our friends will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help us to consider better all advantages and disadvantages. When we have just few close friends, on one hand you develop a more intimate relationship with them and you feel you can trust them more, but on the other hand they often will give us viewpoints not so different from ours, adding less to our experience.
I want to have a lot of people I can have fun with. If I have a lot of friends, I always have people to laugh and joke with me. I have people to go to the movies or the mall with me. I have people to go to parties with me. If I have only a few friends, they might be busy when I want to do these things, or they might not enjoy some of the things I enjoy.
I like to have a lot of friends around me. I like to have fun with them and to learn from them and to know that I can rely on them. My life is better because of all the friends I have.
MARIYAH ULFAH BT SUBAWEH
J09DN0083
NAME: AHMAD NAJHAN BIN HASSIM
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Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. For my own self, I’ll more prefer to spend time with one or two close friends in a time. It is because, after make a long friendship relation, I realize that this kind of situation bring more advantages than disadvantages. As my own experience, I only have three close friends where I meet them during the primary school and the relation become more closer until to this moment even though we was temporarily separated to further our own study. But all of us still keep in touch through the phone or either chatting trough the social website to make sure that this relation will continuously as long that we desire.
The first phase which is the most important is, we have to choose the suitable and the right person who is going to be our close friend. It is not easy and for me, it takes a long period to state the suitable friends for us. That is why; I’m preferred to have my close friend that the relation is creating since our primary school. There’s lot of thing that we share together as we growth. So that, we will knows this friends further in many aspects that make us to trust each other. For me, it’s not easy to understand characteristics of a person in a short period. That’s why; the long relations between friends make us close and understand to each others. As my own experience, I’ll stay together with my close friends even though, I got new friends in the college, and it’s not easy to understand these new people. Like I said, to know any peoples, it takes a long period. So, it’s better for me to just stick with my old close friends.
When we have one or two close friend, it’s easier for us to share any problems or moments of our life. For me, on this sharing moment, we need to share it with the person that only we trust. Like example, when was in the situation of being cheated from any person, we’ll find this close friend to share the feelings. Not to say that we don’t need to share these problems with our own parent. But for me, these problems need to be share with the person who is in the same age with us so that more understanding can be created.
Like people always said, just enough with a lover, but in term of friends, make it as much that we can. Some said that more friends make us gain many experiences trough the life. But for me, in certain time, no need to have many friends until can create a group with more than five members. More person means that we need to get in with all these characteristics of our friends which are bit difficult and some people opinion may not link to ours one. This reason makes my point to have only one or two close friends become tougher. Otherwise, when we have large number of friends which a grouping will form, this condition will affect others perceptions and they will think that this group only will create any trouble to others.
As the conclusion, we have to choose the right person to be the close friends. It is not easy to have friends that really understand to each other. For me, the true friend will always with us in whatever situation either it is a happiness or sadness or during we are facing any problems. The person that wills themselves to stay with us in any situation just can be classified as our TRUE FRIENDS.
NURAFIQKHA BINTI ABDUL RAHIM
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There will often spring up a ubiquitous debate on the dilemma whether to spend time with one or two close friends or with a large number of friends. It should be fun to hang out with a group of friends at the party to celebrate the festivals. While, it will also be nice to chat with one or two close friends at the coffee shop on Sunday afternoon. Personally, I side with the latter. The most consequential and conspicuous advantages will be demonstrated as follows.
To begin with, it is normally said that one or two close friends could become the selection pool of true friends. In the light of this definition, people might regard one or two close friends as their true friends. It is reliable and creditable to share personal secrets in such small group, in which way people can share the happiness and adversities. Only close friends can understand their friends’ trouble or worry and can find out more or less solutions to eliminate. Take me as an example, I struggled to tell my close friends that I was in financial tight last year and find no way to support life anymore. They expressed great support and lent me alimony which could cover regular life for 2 months. Fortunately, 1 month later, I landed a job in the local community. I would not be able to afford a life if my close friends did not aid me. It is beneficial to have close friends to come over difficulties.
In addition, behind my reason that help out each other among close friends lies an equally important fact that taking time with close friends would encourage each other to fight for the same career goal and to strive for life destination. It is worth to spend time with close friends who have the same interest and passion for one cause to launch certain business by compensating the advantages and disadvantages. Thus, once or more examples tell us that taking time with close friends will make your life different.
Admittedly, spending time with a group of friends has undeniable merits, including party events, travelling and so on. However, the advantages of being with a group of friends carry less weight that those of staying with one or two close friends.
In conclusion, despite some minor drawbacks such as large scale of party events, spending time with close friends, compared with having fun with a group of friends, is instrumental rather than detrimental to us. It will benefit not only in sharing secrets, but also in fighting for career goals. Hence, enjoying time with one or two close friends will be valuable to people’s life.
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QUESTION 20:
Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion, i do prefer to spend time with only one or two of my close friends.
This is because, for me, if i spend more time with my close friends, i can share everything that i face with them. Let say, i hang out with my other friends that large number of friend, i have to select the best word to talk with them. Sometimes, we don’t know either one of my friends will hurt with the word that come out from my mouth.
In other situation, if i want to share something that personal, im not comfortable to share with a large of number of friends. This is not because im not trust them, but sometime when we share something, not everyone will understand what we are facing. But compare to the situation where i share something that personal with my close friends that one or two, i share everything and she or he can give me a support that i needed at that time.
In relationships, not even a family or friendships, if we always spend our time with one or two person, then if suddenly we change to spend time with the other friends that a large number of friends, that will make the person that always be with me feel sad or touching with me, he or she will think that i’m not longer trust him or her. And if in the bad situation, we can see the person that always with me will no longer talk to me or don’t want to make friends with me again.
Spending the time with only one or two friends can save the times. This is because of if we want to hang out or to buy something to the place that we plan to go, sometimes that not will be like what we planning. Such as, when we decided to go to the Times Square, then after that one of the friends want go to the Mid Valley. That will make we have to turn back to go to the place. Let say if we are in the running times, that will make other friends feel angry and that situation of course will make the friendship not very strong.
The conclusion here i say, if we have one or two friends is more comfortable and easy to manage. Sometimes, in friends also will cause of arguing between one and each other. So for me, friends that in a small number will make feel more happy and easy to communicate.
Despite friendship is one of the most important values in a man's life, people might have different preferences: some of them prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while other prefer to spend time with a large number of friends. In my view, I prefer the second outlook.
ReplyDeleteThe first reason is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others' experiences. For instance, among a large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes travelling very much and from their experiences you can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before.
Of course, while differences give the opportunity to learn, they can also mean that sometimes it can be difficult to reach an agreement. This would not happen or at least would happen rarely if one decides to spend time with one or two close friends. In fact, in this case it is more likely that interests and preferences are the same.
Another reason is that a large number of friends can help you to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if you happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, your friends you will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help you to consider better all advantages and disadvantages.
When you have just few close friends, on one hand you develop a more intimate relationship with them and you feel you can trust them more, but on the other hand they often will give you viewpoints not so different from yours, adding less to your experience.
In figure, although each choice a few close friends or a large number of friends presents its advantages and its weak points, I think that spending time with a large number of friends can add more to one's life.
SHAVINA RAJAN
J09DN0146
QUESTION 20
ReplyDeleteFARAHIN BT ROSLAN
JO9DN0074
HAVING COUPLE OF FRIENDS OR MANY FRIENDS
Friends are people who support us through our lives. Some people prefer to have one or two close friends. However, others prefer to spend their time with many friends. I think that the number of friends depends on one’s personality.
Personally, I prefer to have a couple of close friends. In this essay I will analyze both cases and present my view in favor of having a few close friends. First of all, a person can establish closer relationships with a few friends. They can spend their time together, relax, and watch a movie in a silence that does not feel awkward.
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ReplyDeleteSecond of all, close friends have more familiar atmosphere. They can share many beautiful moments and thoughts. For example, I have only two close friends – my neighbor and my class-mate. I can share my worries and great news and can tell everything to them.
From the other side, having many friends can be hard and stressful. One has to spend his or her time with each of them. I think it is not healthy because a person does not have time to relax and contemplate about his/her own life. I know this type of people. They like to be in the center of everyone’s attention. They talk a lot, make jokes, and tell stories and rumors. Unfortunately, they basically do not have true friends. They just play and pretend to be friends with other people. There is no doubt they succeed in it, but they spend so much time listening to other’s worries and troubles and entertaining them that they practically do not have time for themselves. In addition, it is difficult and almost impossible to relax, discuss interesting issues and just be oneself.
To sum up, I am totally agree with the statement that “a friend in need is a friend indeed”. I am sure that my close friends will always help me and never betray or turn me down. However, a large number of friends does not allow to establish close and deep relationships.So,I prefer having couple of close friend rather than having many friends.
Friends friends nowadays everywhere we see friends are first come to al the situations. In this era modernizations no teenage no friends. It’s something like that. Friends become most of the entertainers in all the matter. all need to have friends, and I think the more friends we have the better. When we have a lot of friends sure we will not miss our homes. But at the same time there are many good friends and bad friends are around. Its all in our hand to choose our friends because nowadays its all we very easy to lose our attitude by do some illegal things.
ReplyDeleteFrom a lot of friends we ourselves sure will have someone who we can trust by ourselves. We can share all our problems to them. Sure they will a good guide for us. At the same time a large of friends sure we can entertain ourselves. large number of friends can help us to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make us to be more open-minded.
For example, if we happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, our friends will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help us to consider better all prone and cons. When we have just few close friends, on one hand you develop a more intimate relationship with them and we feel we can trust them more, but on the other hand they often will give us viewpoints not so different from ours, adding less to our experience.
For me I want to have a lot of people I can have fun with. If I have a lot of friends, I always have people to laugh and joke with me. So that I can be relax and get rid of my family problem. I need people to go to the movies or the mall with me. I have people to go to parties with me. If I have only a few friends, they might be busy when I want to do these things, or they might not enjoy some of the things I enjoy. The right person for all this are friends.
Last but not least, not say friends are everything for me but they are one of the most entertainer. We can share all our problems, hang out together and can enjoy with them till to the max but there is limitations for everything. We should know our limitation and as a girl we shouldn’t not exceed to it.
Ahnathie subramaniam
Jo9dn0063
Friends are like flowers brighten in our lives. Where there are multi-colored flowers that can be encountered, as different types of friends that we can see. Without friends, we living like under a shell and getting bored and alone without friends. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion, these two approaches have their respective advantages. But for me I prefer to spend with one or two close friends.
ReplyDeleteNevertheless, if spending time with one or two friends, they may be those who really understand my thoughts because the discussion between 3 people is easier, convenient and peaceful. No argument between them and can discuss properly. Additionally, does not mean that people are only friends with one or two people did not have many friends. Maybe because they are feel comfortable and prefer to discuss in small group only. After all, if sharing a secret with two friends only, it will become easier because there are not many who would know about the secrets. I believe that close friends are likely their family and can be share any problems that should be expressed.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favorable to go shopping or to hang out to bar with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may arise problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities; as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
Friends are one of most important things in our lives. Unfortunately we have a few real friends. I have a lot of friends- girls and boys. It doesn't matter what they are and they have to be my real friends. He or she has to be good and reliable. It doesn't matter how he or she looks like. He or she has to be responsible and helpful. But I’ve found out that, only two or three friend that can really be my true friend. Thus if we are having too much friend to be share our problems, they might cannot help us and just make no heed.
We shouldn't forget that we are people, too. I'm sure that if we are good with people we will have more and better friends. I thought my life would be better if I can have a lot of friends that can entertain me, but only share my secrets or problems with few friend only.
NURFARHANAH BINTI AHMAD FADILLAH
J09DN0124
Everybody loves to spend spare time with their friends. And, especially we could spend our time with one or two friends or with a large group. Both of them could be enjoyable. Anyway, most of my friends could make me feel happy or funny. However, I prefer to spend my time with one or two friends. It can be much more fun and extremely convenient. To begin with, I am going to compare these two ways of spending time. Firstly, spending time with one or two friends. Secondly, a large group of friends.
ReplyDeleteFirstly, spending time with one or two friends it is going to be convenient. If I hang out with many friends, it is difficult to move to other places. So, it is going to be really inconvenient. But, if I only go with one or two friends, I don't need to care about those problems. Secondly, it is easy to talk or chat with my friends. Because if there are many people, everyone will just try to talk about their opinion at a time. And finally, they are going to argue each other. However, I could talk with my friends peacefully if I spend time with few friends. Thirdly, I could open up my mind easily with few friends. It means I could tell some secrets to my friends. Imagine this. There are a large group of friends. And can you tell a secret to your best friend? Of course, not. It is not going to be safe to talk. So, these things could be the advantages of spending time with one or two friends.
The benefits of spending time with a large group of friends. Firstly, we are never going to be sad or clumsy. Because everyone is going to talk about their ideas and opinion. And everyone is going to laugh about some jokes. So, they will never be sad or clumsy. Secondly, it is going to be helpful when we work as a team and I could get much information from different people. So, I think being with friends will help when we work as a team. Thirdly, we could to improve our social skills. We always meet new people every day. It could be strangers, friends or even family. So, if we keep being friendly to different friends, it could help with my social skills.
In conclusion, I'd noticed that there are also many differences between two of types. Also, it is good to have some more friends. However, I'd personally prefer to spend time with one friend than with a number of friends because I prefer to be quiet and peaceful.
NORAIN RAHMAN
JO9DN0109
Spend The Time With One Close Friend Is The Best
ReplyDeletePeople can choose as many friends as they want to keep relationship with but I would rather have my time with only a few ones. One reason is that I can belief in my dear friends. Another is that I also do not have much time. Moreover, I can take care of my friends better when I do not have many.
I often exchange confidences with my intimate friends. It is easier to share our stories between two people than to do that among a large group. For example, my closest friend and I can talk for hours together about our opinions, feelings or love secrets. She always tries to keep quiet about what I told her to do. But I am not sure that numerous group can do the same thing.
Besides that, I can also spend more time with a few of my best friends. I have many relationships and things to do in my life other than friendship. So just a part of my time is for friends. We can keep frequent contact with many of our friends but we need much time, too. For example, when we feel sad or happy and want to share with somebody, we often loiter with our close friend on the park or go to a coffee shop to gossip with her.
Finally, we want to understand our chums better and help them when they need us. For example, we can go to play with many people but can’t take a good care of all. With one or two friends, we can listen to them more and understand them deepeer. Therefore, it can make the friendship stronger and be a thoughtful friend.
In conclusion, having a big group of frequent friends is good but personally I feel best only when we stay beside our chummies friends. We can tell them my secrets and reserve our time for them. We always willing to listen to them and share with our dear buddies not only happiness but also difficulties in our lifes.
R.Chandara Khala
J09DN0069
In this era of socialization, friends play an important role in everyone’s life without ages. Nowadays, friends are important in every manner especially as we are in an emergency situation where friends will be around us to help us. We are even able to share our feelings and problems to our friends whom we are comfortable with.
ReplyDeleteSome people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends while some prefer to spend time with a large number of friends. Based on my opinion, I think spending time with more than one or two friends are better. It is because we tend to have lots of fun when we gather. For an instance, when a bunch of close friends are far apart from each other due to studies and when they do their gathering with the other friends, they tend to be very happy to see each other after a long time.
Secondly, by having many friends, we can even share our knowledge level as in we discuss on what is happening around the world when we are in the coffee shop with a cup of hot coffee in our hands. When our friends are around, we tend to forget our time and age although we are growing old day by day. Friends make our lives turn younger when we have gray hair on our heads.
Thirdly, by having many friends, we tend to learn everyone’s character and behaviour amongst us. As for my friends, I have some of my friends whom are very hot temper and some are really cool to mingle around. Due to this, we would be able to know how to handle people with hot temper.
Friends also bring benefit to us in a way where we can go jogging with our friends twice or thrice in a week. Indirectly it helps us to maintain our healthiness. We even can exercise and keep ourselves fit by playing games or even swimming. It is an activity to be done in a large number of people.
Finally, friends do benefit us in many ways but as long as there are no secrets and lies amongst us, the friendship that we value can be maintained forever.
Evelyn Sharmini
J09DN0071
Spend time with one or two close friend or large number
ReplyDeleteFriend is the people that close with us, they is like our real family. It is because, they always with us whenever we need a person to tell the problem and need the support. Some people is comfortable with 1-2 friend, and some people like a large number of friend.
For me, i like the large number of friend. It is because, in large number of friend we can share any thing with them, weather the thing is good or sad or whatever topic, they will still at there to listen to you. Other than that, the large number of friend will make we happy with our live, and make we enjoy our live with them.
A friend will make their friend happy, so if we in a problem, they will think the way to settle the problem. And give the good opinion. Other than that, we can learn something new in our live, such, if we is malay, our friend is other culture, we can know and learn about their culture. It is good to know about the opposite culture of other people.
Other person choose to have 1-2 friend. Is it so small population. If we have a problem, with 1-2 friend, that is not the granted for them to think how to solve our problem. Other than that, with 1-2 friend, we will feel empty, if other person can enjoy their live with their large number friend. You in 1-2 friend can’t to enjoy your live, you can enjoy, but not happy as they happy.
Conclusion is, whether 1-2 friend or large of friend, it is not important, the important is, we, we the one who have our group is happy or passive group. The one more thing is, not make our friend unset because of us, it is because, without them we will alone in this world.
NUR ATIKAH BT MD NOR
JO9DN0115
Everybody in the world have their own friends. They can choose as many friends as they want to keep relationship with but I would rather have my time with only a few ones. One reason is that I can confide in my dear friends. Another is that I also do not have much time. Moreover, I can take care of my friends better when I do not have many.
ReplyDeleteFor me, I will spend more time with a few of my best friends. It is not mean that I have no friends. I have many relationships and I enjoy with the relationship. One of my life parts is for my friends. We can keep frequent contact with many of our friends but we need much time too. Why I said that friends is one of my life is because, with friends we can share what we want to anytime. But it is usually happen to some of the special friend among them. Usually, when I feel sad or happy and want to share with somebody, I often loiter with my close friend on the park or go to a coffee shop to gossip with her. This is because, sometimes people that we aspect they can keep our personal secret, unfortunate they spread out the secret to whoever that they like. This is also becomes the reason that I do not like to share my personal secret among the groups. There is no privacy at all.
Besides that, I often exchange confidences with my intimate friends. It is easier to share our stories between two people than to do that among a large group. My closest friend and I can talk for hours together about our opinions, feelings or love secrets. Usually, we will take more time to spend together because we will talk and give advice to each other. My friend will always try to keep quiet when I was sharing my problems to her. But I am not sure that numerous groups can do the same thing or not. This is shows the respect of her to me. I like this kind of friends compare to a large numbers of friends discuss together which is lessen the values of respectful. For that purpose, I prefer to spend more time with only one or two close friends with the suitable event or sharing session.
Moreover, if we are only share or discuss with one or two of our close friends, they will not feel shame with what they want to share with us. Some people will may not share their problems because they think that they will laugh at him or her. When we are only in the small population, they will feel free to share and stories their problems. If there is a large numbers of friends sit together, they are not all of the will think for the solution, they will tend to ignore with what their friends talk about. Some of the think that the problems is not going on him or her, so that they have not plays an important role with the problem. For that purpose, that is the best way we sharing whatever we want to with our truly close friends.
Furthermore, that is a good way how we can truly know our friends characters. We usually will have one is the best friend among the others friend. We will choose our friends based on their attitudes and their personality. Of course we want people that close with us understand with ourselves. It means that, we are having the same interest. This is easy to us to share any stories and do activities together. We will feel enjoy when we are happy to do that together. So that, we will feel satisfied.
As a conclusion, having a big group of frequent friends is good but personally I feel best only when I stay beside my one or two close friends. I can tell them my secrets and reserve my time for them. I am always willing to listen to them and share with my dear buddies not only happiness but also difficulties in our life. I hope our unshakeable friendship will go with us in the rest of our life.
RUZIANA BT ANUAR
JO9DN0138
Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. Friends in my own word is a person that around us and close with us. He or she can accept us as what we are. Despite friendship is one of the most important values in life. People might have different preferences, but for me spending free time with friends is the way we relax and entertain, but some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends when others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. The choice depends on individuals' character. For me I choose to spend time with one or two close friends.
ReplyDeleteSome people think spending time with large number of friends is very cheerful. The environment is warmed up by many people, by this way we forget many everyday's problems. For example when someone feel upset, they go to see a movie with friends, spending time with lot of people, screaming when watching scary movie makes they totally relaxing. Going to big concert is also a kind of having time in exciting environment.
Not everyone likes to go to crowded places. Like me more prefer to spend time with 1 or 2 close friends, which is also very enjoyable. People need to talking with friends, sometimes need their friends to listen to their problems, and in return they listen to their friends' troubles. Sometimes just being with our close friend in silence is also good. When we are with our close friends, we feel that someone care about our self, and we care about other, we are not alone in the world. For me having time with my best friend is the best moment especially when we have the same hobbies example karaoke, watching movie, cycling and window shopping.
Each way of spending time has advantages. Although sometimes I love going to crowded places to see other people behaviour and window shopping, but for me having time with very close friends is inevitable, since with her I feel well, and also she help me to solve many problems.
NASRAH HASHIM
J09DN0102
Mohammad Sabri bin Sahudin
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Spending time with friends.
Time management and saving can make people more concern about time and every success people in the world are good in managing their time. Very unique aspect of the time is never return back and the past remains as the past even people feel nothing had been done for the past he or she unable to go back at those particular time. Although Albert Einstein believes that time can be turn back by proposing his theory but until now none of his theory are succeed. Logically think if time is reversible and can be forward many people will be confuse with their own time and all the history and future will be detected and no surprise element are develop in human due to all the thing had been known. People should appreciate their golden time by spending their time with more than two close friends. This is better because sharing session for solving life problem will be more effective and better outcome will be gained.
By spending time with more friends too we can make conversation more fun and interesting because mane friends will share their experience regarding related issues for example when there is a budget issues are being discussed more friends are better because different workplace of all your friend will give different situation.
Location to be spend out also could be varied due to taste and favorite location of your friends, so that a variation can be develop and this will make life become more enjoy and not bored. Spending time with many friends will develop more bonding and improve relationship among each other. Furthermore some of our money will be safe because many friend to support our meals for once during outing with them.
Spending time with many friends also can help in business development for business people because some of them are forget to tell small issues that not related to their business but during discussion they will remember the thing indirectly and some of their friends need to know the issues and this will growth the business.
In conclusion better for the person to spend their time with many friends rather than one or two only which not so food for social method. Beside that the benefit also good for a person.
Name: Shubashini D/ Mohana Sundaram
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Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion, i do prefer to spend time with only one or two of my close friends.
This is because, for me, if i spend more time with my close friends, i can share everything that i face with them. Let say, i hang out with my other friends that large number of friend, i have to select the best word to talk with them. Sometimes, we don’t know either one of my friends will hurt with the word that come out from my mouth.
In other situation, if i want to share something that personal, im not comfortable to share with a large of number of friends. This is not because im not trust them, but sometime when we share something, not everyone will understand what we are facing. But compare to the situation where i share something that personal with my close friends that one or two, i share everything and she or he can give me a support that i needed at that time.
In relationships, not even a family or friendships, if we always spend our time with one or two person, then if suddenly we change to spend time with the other friends that a large number of friends, that will make the person that always be with me feel sad or touching with me, he or she will think that i’m not longer trust him or her. And if in the bad situation, we can see the person that always with me will no longer talk to me or don’t want to make friends with me again.
Spending the time with only one or two friends can save the times. This is because of if we want to hang out or to buy something to the place that we plan to go, sometimes that not will be like what we planning. Such as, when we decided to go to the Times Square, then after that one of the friends want go to the Mid Valley. That will make we have to turn back to go to the place. Let say if we are in the running times, that will make other friends feel angry and that situation of course will make the friendship not very strong.
The conclusion here i say, if we have one or two friends is more comfortable and easy to manage. Sometimes, in friends also will cause of arguing between one and each other. So for me, friends that in a small number will make feel more happy and easy to communicate.
Question 20
ReplyDeleteName: nurshafiqah munirah
Matrix: JO9DN0126
Spend time with many friends
Friends are people who support us through our lives. Some people prefer to have one or two close friends. However, others prefer to spend their time with many friends. I think that the number of friends depends on one's personality. Friendship is one of the most important values in a human life and I more prefer to spend time with many friends.
The first reason is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others experiences. For instance, among a large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes travelling very much and from their experiences you can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before. Of course, while differences give the opportunity to learn, they can also mean that sometimes it can be difficult to reach an agreement. This would not happen or at least would happen rarely if one decides to spend time with one or two close friends.
Besides that, person can establish closer relationships with a few friends. They can spend their time together, relax, and watch a movie in a silence that does not feel awkward. Second of all, close friends have more familiar atmosphere. They can share many beautiful moments and thoughts.
Another reason is that a large number of friends can help you to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if you happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, your friends you will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help you to consider better all advantages and disadvantages.
From the other side, having many friends can be hard and stressful. One has to spend his or her time with each of them. I think it is not healthy because a person does not have time to relax and contemplate about his/her own life. I know this type of people. They like to be in the canter of everyone's attention. They talk a lot, make jokes, and tell stories and rumours. Unfortunately, they basically do not have true friends. They just play and pretend to be friends with other people. There is no doubt they succeed in it, but they spend so much time listening to other's worries and troubles and entertaining them that they practically do not have time for themselves. In addition, it is difficult and almost impossible to relax, discuss interesting issues and just be oneself.
As my conclusion is spend time with many friend is better and it is will make we can have social life, beside that it will make we can sharing any information regarding to new news, new place that suitable to travelling and many more. Other than that having many friend will make life is not bored because at every where we can meet them to spend time.
Some people nowadays prefer to spend time with one or two friends and in other side prefer to spend time with many friends that is in a large number of friends. For me ,it is better for me to spend my time with one or two only friends. This because if too many friends with us, we will feel uncomfortable to do something or speak something.
ReplyDeletePeople prefer to spend time with one or two close friends does not reflect that they do not have a large number of friends. It merely implies that they rely on their close friends in the significant aspects, such as the private secret and intellectual discussion. The reason is that they believe that the close friends are like their family members; therefore it is reliable to express the views to the close friends in such matters.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favorable to go shopping or to hang out to bar with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may arise problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities; as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
More over, spending time with too many friends will effects on bad things like easily to expose to unhealthy activity like smoking. Our friends will ask to try some new thing that we ourselves do not realize it is a bad thing. Many friends will influenced and this can be happened to us too. Other than that is, if we hang out with too many friends, it will cause loud noise that can make people surrounding us will feel uncomfortable and we will be ashamed with that situation. The conclusion is, it is more preferred to spend time with one or two friends that we can cooperate and tolerate each others with more friendly and in a nice situation.
Matrix Number : J09DN0090
Name : MOHD FAIZ BIN JAMALUDIN
Nur Afrina Binti Rosni
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THE ADVANTAGES WHEN WE SPEND TIME IN LARGE AMOUNT OF
FRIENDS
Friendship is one of the most important values in a man's life, people might have different preferences: some of them prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while other prefers to be surrounded by a large number of friends. In my opinion, I prefer to choose large number of friends.
The first reason is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others' experiences. A large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes travelling very much and from their experiences you can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before.
Of course, while differences give the opportunity to learn, they can also mean that sometimes it can be difficult to reach an agreement. This would not happen or at least would happen rarely if one decides to spend time with one or two close friends. In fact, in this case it is more likely that interests and preferences are the same.
The reason is that a large number of friends can help you to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if you happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, your friends you will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help you to consider better all advantages and disadvantages. Not only that, it can be as fun discussion and avoid from bored because every person got difference attitude and opinion.
But, when you have just few close friends, on one hand you develop a more intimate relationship with them and you feel you can trust them more, but on the other hand they often will give you viewpoints not so different from yours, adding less to your experience.
The conclusion is, both present their own advantages and this advantages but I more interest to spending time with a large number of friends that can add more to one's life and more learning and experience that u will get.
Friend is everything for some people. How about you? Sometime people just want to be alone and do not want to make a friend. Maybe they are trauma to have a friend because have bad experience that they can’ t forget about friend. Spend time with friend is the best part right. We can enjoy together. Which one all of you more preferred whether spend time with one or two friend or many friends? These questions if you ask me for answer I will choose spend time with one or two friend only.
ReplyDeleteThere have a lot of reason why I said like that. Imagine if you going to shopping complex with five or six friend. Everyone of them include you must have different desire place want to go. I am sure you will not spread together. You will walk together and just go inside the shop that you never like because your friend wants to go there. It consuming time and just make your shopping become boring. Furthermore you only can spend short of time at your shop that you want to go because your friend also wants to find her things at other shop. It more easy if you go with one or two friend because you can spend more time at shop that you like and feel more enjoy.
Besides that, one or two friend is easier to have discussion. Let say if I want to go for picnic. So I only will have discussion with two of my friend. When two friends we will choose only 3 places that we want to go and decides which one we want. Imagine if six to seven people have their own place want to go. It is harder to make decision because we must take of their feeling. If we make wrong decision I am sure there must have argument and fighting.
Other than that, if spend time with two friend only there must be common between us and more understanding each other. Small group is easy to handle. If we have common and understanding we will have good relationship and we will enjoy spending time together. Big group not all of them will have same favorite so there must be unsatisfied feeling among them. So life is so stress up and turn bored.
As conclusion, we must spend time our time with the person we happy with. So for me one or two friend is enough. Less of argument, more understanding and easy to handle. Simple right and very enjoyable. It my opinion how about people out there?
NAME:NUR ASMA BT OTHMAN
MATRIC NUMBER:JO9DN0114
Friends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends; while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion I agree spend time with large group friends is better than spend time with two close friends.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends does not reflect that they do not have a large number of friends. It merely implies that they rely on their close friends in the significant aspects, such as the private secret and intellectual discussion. The reason is that they believe that the close friends are like their family members therefore it is reliable to express the views to the close friends in such matters.
Another reason, is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others' experiences. For instance, among a large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes traveling very much and from their experiences you can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before.
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ReplyDeleteOf course, while differences give the opportunity to learn, they can also mean that sometimes it can be difficult to reach an agreement. This would not happen or at least would happen rarely if one decides to spend time with one or two close friends. In fact, in this case it is more likely that interests and preferences are the same. In addition, it may arise problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
Lastly, is that a large number of friends can help you to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if you happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, your friends you will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help you to consider better all advantages and disadvantages. When you have just few close friends, on one hand you develop a more intimate relationship with them and you feel you can trust them more, but on the other hand they often will give you viewpoints not so different from yours, adding less to your experience.
In sum, although each choice – few close friends or a large number of friends – presents its advantages and its weak points, I think that spending time with a large number of friends can add more to one's life.
Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. Compare the advantages of each choice. Which of these two ways of spending time do you prefer? Use specific reasons to answer.
ReplyDeletePeople can choose as many friends as they want to keep relationship with but I would rather have my time with only a few ones. One reason is that I can confide in my dear friends. Another is that I also do not have much time. Moreover, I can take care of my friends better when I do not have many.
I often exchange confidences with my intimate friends. It is easier to share your stories between two people than to do that among a large group. My closest friend and I can talk for hours together about our opinions, feelings or love secrets. She always tries to keep quiet about what I told her to do. But I am not sure that numerous groups can do the same thing.
I can also spend more time with a few of my best fiends. I have many relationships and things to do in my life other than friendship. So just a part of my time is for friends. You can keep frequent contact with many of your friends but you need much time, too. When I feel sad or happy and want to share with somebody, I often loiter with my close friend on the park or go to a coffee shop to gossip with her.
Finally, I want to understand my chums better and help them when they need me. I can go to play with many people but I can not take a good care of all. With one or two friends, I can listen to them more and understand them deeply. Therefore, I can make our friendship stronger and be a thoughtful friend.
As a conclusion, having a big group of frequent friends is good but personally I feel best only when I stay beside my chummiest friends. I can tell them my secrets and reserve my time for them. I am always willing to listen to them and share with my dear buddies not only happiness but also difficulties in our life. I hope our friendship will go with us in the rest of our life.
SHARMELA D/O MANOKARAN.
J09DN0145.
Some people prefer to spend their time with one or two close friends. But, others choose to spend their time with a large number of friends. These are the advantages if they spend their time with a large number of friends and the disadvantages for the people who spend time one or two close friends.
ReplyDeleteThe advantages of spend time with a large number of friends is they can get to learn more from the other’s experience. If one of their member group of friends like particular sport or play instrument or others, we actually start to take interested with their activities. With a lot of friends, we can get variety of particular interest activities.
Another advantages are we can get a lot of opinion to think and to choose if we have a question that ourselves cannot find the answer. With a lot of friends, we also can get different opinion. They will also explain their own opinion and which is the best and which is are not suitable for the answer.
The disadvantages for people who prefer to spend their time with one or two close friends is difficult to get help. What I mean was if their friends have some important things to do and you live alone with their work. When you want to ask somebody for something let say like assignment, you don’t have someone close to you to ask and help you together to complete your work because maybe your friend will know better to solve the problem.
Besides that, they could probably been call arrogant person. For example, when we always more alone only with one friend besides, and rarely to get involve with other friends, they usually been call arrogant. Maybe they will think that you are choosing a person to take as a friends. Sometimes, they much prefer with their own group of friends and ignore you. They just do their work by themselves.
In conclusion, for me, I prefer to spend my time with a large number of friends than being with one or two close friends. It is because the benefit that we can get it is much more better than the first opinion.
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SITI ZUBAIDAH BINTI ABD GHANI
J09DN0152
Friends are people who support us through our lives. Friendship is very important relationship that all people need to have.Some people prefer have one or two close friends only. But some others like to have a large number of friends to spend their time ,with a large number of friends because can give many advantages for us.Normally,this friends include our school friends,classmates or our relatives.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, a person can establish closer relationships with a few friends. They can spend their time together, relax, watch a movie in a silence that does not feel awkward One of the advantages to have a large number of friends is we can share more knowledge or relatives.It can help us to earn many good thing and improve our knowledge.Sometimes,friends who have many experiences in lives,they will know which is good and wrong thing to do.They can share their opinion with each other friends and able to guide some of people in trouble condition.So that,having a large number of friends can have more experiences and more knowledge.
Beside that,help each other also one of the advantages of having a large number of friends .If spent more time with friends,it can improve friends relationship.For example,if a person have finance problems,the other friends can support their friends by borrow the money to their friends as solving the problems.This shows the friends will help another friends to solve problems and can help each other who having problems.Friends also will appreaciate the other friends afford.
Next,friends also able to understand another friends feeling or problems.Some people always prefer to share their problems with their friends than their family members.They think friends always can understand their feeling because of age factors.For example,people in school life always like can share or earn opinion through their friends.It can easy for them to solve the problems and believe with their friendsip.
As conclusion,friends is very important for every person.It have many advantages to have a large number of friends than have one or two friends only.It also can improve the trustness of each other and able th share all problems with friends.
SITI FAIRUZ HARUN
J09DN0148
Friend is a person that always with us. Nowadays, it is very difficult to get true friends that always accompany us either during in difficulty or happiness. Spending time with friends also is good activity for us to relieve stress either with one or two close friends or in a large number of friends. As my opinion, I more prefer to spend time with a large number of friends compare to only one or two close friends.
ReplyDeleteMany advantages that we get if have many friends. We can share our experiences or knowledge with them in direct communication. Sometimes, we not realize that sharing experiences with friends can improve our level of knowledge through discussion with friends besides reading books or searching from internet. So, if we have a large number of friends, it means many new things that we can share together.
Furthermore, sometimes our friends are comes from different culture, state and background. So, we can share and changes opinion between others. It is because, every person have different thinking and opinion, so it is advantages for us to open our mind widely. We cannot feel bored if spending most of time with many friends and it will make our life more cheerful.
In aspect of socialize, it is a good thing for us because when we have a large number of friends that spend together, it can make us know the right way to socialize and avoid from feel lonely and stressful. Sometimes, spending time with friends such as during weekend can relieve our stress and make us feel enjoyed. Besides that, we also can create a good relationship with them.
Otherwise, many activities that we can do with friends such as playing netball, futsal and others. So, in health view, we can improve our health status besides make good friendship with them. As a result, having a large number of friends is valuable thing for us. Furthermore, when spending time with them, we can share our problems. Their different opinion can we use as a way to overcome our problems.
Last but not least, spending time with many friends can give many benefits for us. But, we must ensure the friends that we choose are a good friend that always with us either in any situations. Sometimes, we not realized that friends are a nearest person with us beside our family. Most of our times also we spend with friends since kindergarten until nowadays.
SHARIFAH NURHADAINA BT. SYED BAHARUDDDIN
J09DN0144
Noorain Binti Ahmad
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Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. For me, I prefer to spend my leisure time with one or two friends because for me that is more enjoyable and I can go to anywhere with my friends. Besides that I do not have any problems if we went for a holiday, we can just book for one room only. That is the one of the advantages that I can state here. Other than that, I also can do a lot of activity without have to waiting for long time such as when I play the bowling game I do not wait for long to wait for my turn.
Moreover, if we spend time with one or two friends only, we can have more interaction and easy communication with others. This is because we do not have to hear too much voice or too much problems such as when we want to decide about something. When we are in the large number, there will be more difficult because everybody want to give an opinion and also give the idea where we want to go. From that, maybe there will be a misunderstanding between us because if we choose one the others opinion will ask why we cannot do what they have said. That is the example how the problems will arise when we in the large number of friends. After that, it will be easy for us because when we go and eating somewhere at the restaurant as example, we do not have problem to find and book the table because our number is two to three person only. Not need to search first we can on the spot sit there.
Spending time with two or three friends also give us other benefit such as we only use one car when we want to hang out. I do not need to drive to cars because there is only three of us. That’s why I prefer to spend my time with two close friends only. T support my opinion, the best thing is hen I want to tell something that secret in my life, I can tell to my close friends without worried anybody here what I have said. If we are in the large number of friends, of course it will be difficult for me to find a suitable time to tell the story. It just only three of us. There have no barrier in between us.
As a conclusion, spending time with two close friends is more enjoyable and meaningful for me. There have a lot of advantages if we spend time with two or three person only. But all this is depends to other people because some of them prefer to spend time with a large number of friends because maybe for them, they will be more happy and it is a chaos situation whereas they will not be boring.
Friends play an important role in our life others than family members. We need friends in our life. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. However, I will choose to spend time with a large number of friends. I think the more friends we get the more merrier and better. We will never get alone if we have lot of friends. Moreover it is meaningful to spend time with them because they may be those who understand my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteSpending time with large number of friends will be more fun and enjoy especially in entertainment activities. When in leisure time, I can go shopping, watching movie and hang out to have a picnic together. It is not enjoyable when we spend time with one or two friends only. Sometimes, they might be busy and cannot entertain me or maybe one or two close friends might not available and enjoy some of the things that I enjoy. In addition, spend time with a group of friends are more enjoyable which is merrier compared to one or two close friends.
Next, I want to have a lot of friends that I can trust. If I have any problems, I can share with them. Maybe, some of people would prefer to share their privacy or problems with their close friend only, but, not for me. Actually, I did not mind to share with them. They are understanding and can give me advice if I got any problems or make any mistakes. It is more easily to have a lot of friends because they are there whenever I need them. I can easily find friends to talk with. If I have only one or two close friends, they might not be available when I need them.
Besides that, a lot of friends can teach me how the life it is. Everybody has their own behavior. If I have a lot of friends, I can learn how the different of people in this world. In addition, we can share the knowledge that we have. It is beneficial to share and exchange our opinion on various matters such as books and films or their experience of life. It will not variety or the knowledge that we get are limited if I only friends with one or two friends. Truly, sometimes friends can be a good role model too.
As a conclusion, these two approaches have their own advantages and disadvantages. Maybe, some of them would chose to have one or two close friends. Actually, it is depends on the individual whether to have one or more friends. However, I chose to have a large number of friends. I will be more enjoyable because the more is merrier. My life is complete and better because of all the friends that I have besides my family.
NAME : SITI HALIJAH AZMI
MATRIX NUMBER : J09DN0151
Friends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends; while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion, these two approaches have their respective advantages.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends does not reflect that they do not have a large number of friends. It merely implies that they rely on their close friends in the significant aspects, such as the private secret and intellectual discussion. The reason is that they believe that the close friends are like their family members; therefore it is reliable to express the views to the close friends in such matters.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favorable to go shopping or to hang out to bar with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may arise problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities, as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
Besides, spending time with a group of friends is really amazing. When I am with some friends of mine I can learn lots of things from them. Moreover, I can express my ideas and find out my friends’s opinions about them. Also, when I want to go out for a long time, say more than 3 hours, I prefer to go with a bunch of friends because I can share my time speaking with all of them. In addition, I like to go on a long journey with a lot of friends.
It is indisputable that friends can spark our lives; I personally believe that these two approaches have their respective advantages. For the entertainment activities, it is joyful and interesting to hang out with a large number of friends. I, however, would prefer to share my secret with my close friends.
name : mohamad hafez bin zakaria
matrix no : J09DN0084
NAME:NUR RAIHANA BINTI ROSLI
ReplyDeleteMATRIX NUM: J09DN0119
Friends play crucial role in our lives.With friends we will feel like being appreciated and love.Friends can make our life wonderful but friends also can make our life disaster.So,we must be careful when choosing friends.This is because human got many faces and not all can really being trusted.They may be very nice in front of us but at the back,they talk bad about us.Just be careful.
Back to our topic, some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends only,but others choose to spend time with a large number of friends.I think these two views may have their relevant reasons.Might be it can be influenced by the purpose on spending the time. When it comes to privacy matter,may be some people prefer to spend time with close friend only but different if in other way.
Some people rely on their close friends to talk about private secret or intellectual discussion. They make their close friend like their family and really trust them. That’s why when come to private matter, some people prefer to spend time with their close friend only. Of course we don’t want our secret to be spread.So,we must be careful to choose close friend.Usually,close friend must help us when we got problem and still be with us also when we are happy. Definitely this can help us to feel more comfort and relieve after share secret or problem with them.
Different if they want to spend time more on entertainment activities.Usually,for this purpose,people like to spend time with a large number of friends.For example,if they would like to spend time shopping,discussing or sharing and exchange opinions like sharing opinions on books,films or even cuisine.This can provide us with satisfaction on sharing and caring.Many interest can be combine to gain great moment when spending time together.
Before ending this discussion,I want to highlight that if me,I prefer to spend time with a large number of friends.This is because I’m not trusting any close friend from my previous experiences.Close friend may betray us not only one time but may make until our life disaster.Besides,if I just friend or spending more time with my close friend, people may get wrong on me.Maybe they will think that I am a choosing type of person,only want to be friend with some person.For others,close friend may be important,but not for me.I have my family and they are the best friend of mine.
Do you know that friends have a very strong bond within everyone? The words friend itself shows that the powerful of the relationship with one and another. Friend means someone that will be together with us no matter weather in happy or also sorrow time. They are able to share everything with us and friend as the person who do not lie or hide any secret from us.
ReplyDeleteThere are some type of people who have one or two close friends and some of them prefer to have a large number of friends. This both have its own advantages and also disadvantage. Commonly, all of us like spend plenty of our time with friends rather than with family. No one can denied this because when schooling time we are with our friend, working time also with friend. So most of the time we spending with friends.
In that case, people who choose to spend time with one two friends are normally friends from childhood. They feel free to share anything about their problem no matter whether it is about personal problem that even could not share even with their parents. Friends is one of the best partner to share all this things. They feel very close to them rather than to gout with many friends and also feel secure.
Normally, people who prefer to spend time with one or two friends is usually those who are like to have privacy in life. They only choose a certain group of friends only to be their close friends. This is because they felt that easy to move around and don’t have much problem to share any opinion or also idea and at the same time able to communicate well among them without any distraction.
On the other hand, people who choose to spend time with large number of friends are usually very friendly and they always feel that the most precious time is to spend with friends. This is because they can share many ideas among them because they are in a big group. At the same time they will learnt on how to mingle around with others by give and take policy. There are so many things that can be learnt by the people who spend time with large number of friends.
Lastly, I would like to tell that both categories of people also have its own benefits and we as a public has our own choice to choose what type of friends we want but normally not everyone get the chance to have the true friendship. So, spend time friends is the one of the most best part in our life and we should appreciate it.
KASTURI A/P BALAN
J09DN0079
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ReplyDeleteSome people prefer to spend time with one or two close friend. While other choose to spend time with a large number of friends. Friends actually needed by all people that live in this world. Everyone need friend and each of us have our own best friend and close friend. Friend is actually one of the place that we can talked and discuss everything. And I choose to spend time with large number of time.
ReplyDeleteSometimes it can be very boring with just lounging around your home doing the same old thing, like watching television alone with a bag of potato chips or surfing the internet looking for friends to send messages to on facebook. Get together with those friends and plan something fun to do, like going to the theater or going out to dinner. If we going out with a large number of friend we actually can have more fun and also can relieve tension that we have compare if we just spend time with one or two friend.
. Besides that, quality time spent with large number of friends is very beneficial to you and your friends. It give you all time to bond closer together and have a great time, instead of a boring time spent alone or just spend time with one or two friends. Life needs balance, sometimes being alone is beneficial, but it is not always good to be alone with only one friend. Being in a large number of friends should be a part of the balance we need in our lives, so the next time your friends invite you to a party or ask you to take a road trip with them, tag along.
Friends can cheer you up when you are feeling down. You might have lost your job, your boyfriend or girlfriend may have broken up with you and your friends being there to offer their comfort and support is what you need from them during bad times. You can also be there for your friends when they are going life's turmoils. Having a large number of friends will make we feel that we are not alone in this world because friends will support us when we feel sad.
As a conclusion, I prefer to spend time with a large number of friends compare than spend time with only one or two friends. Being with large number of friend will make we feel more enjoy and through this will makes us feel relieves. Friends will support us whenever we need them and they will comfort us when we feel uneasy and uncomfortable.
NURUL IZWANI BINTI RAZALI
J09DN0130
SPENDING TIME WITH FRIENDS
ReplyDeleteSome prefer to spend time with one or two close friends and the others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. But i like to spend time with a large number of friends and i would like support this view.
People can choose as many friends as they want to keep relationship with but I would rather have my time with only a few ones. One reason is that I can confide in my dear friends. Another is that I also do not have much time. Moreover, I can take care of my friends better when I do not have many.
I often exchange confidences with my intimate friends. It is easier to share your stories between two people than to do that among a large group. My closest friend and I can talk for hours together about our opinions, feelings or love secrets. She always tries to keep quiet about what I told her to do. But I am not sure that numerous group can do the same thing.
I can also spend more time with a few of my best fiends. I have many relationships and things to do in my life other than friendship. So just a part of my time is for friends. You can keep frequent contact with many of your friends but you need much time, too. When I feel sad or happy and want to share with somebody, I often loiter with my close friend on the park or go to a coffee shop to gossip with her.
Finally, I want to understand my chums better and help them when they need me. I can go to play with many people but I can not take a good care of all. With one or two friends, I can listen to them more and understand them deeplY. Therefore, I can make our friendship stronger and be a thoughtful friend.
In conclusion, having a big group of frequent friends is good but personally I feel best only when I stay beside my chummies friends. I can tell them my secrets and reserve my time for them. I am always willing to listen to them and share with my dear buddies not only happiness but also difficulties in our lifes. I hope our unshakeable friendship will go with us in the rest of our lifes.
SHANTINI DEVI RAMOO
J09DN0143
Friends are a person that always with us in our daily living. We share our love, laugh, sadness and happiness together. They will be next to us whenever or whatever and support us no matter what happen. I believe by spend time with large number of friend will be the best moment together.
ReplyDeleteThe first reason is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others' experiences. For instance, among a large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes travelling very much and from their experiences you can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before.
Of course, while differences give the opportunity to learn, they can also mean that sometimes it can be difficult to reach an agreement. This would not happen or at least would happen rarely if one decides to spend time with one or two close friends. In fact, in this case it is more likely that interests and preferences are the same.
When we plan for a vacation together it will be nice to spend time in huge number. This is because we can save our budget. Besides that, friends will be able to help each other in much condition. It’s always been said that a friend in need is a friend indeed. Your friends will always remember with what you had done towards her.
Another reason is that a large number of friends can help you to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if you happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, your friends you will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help you to consider better all advantages and disadvantages.
When you have just few close friends, on one hand you develop a more intimate relationship with them and you feel you can trust them more, but on the other hand they often will give you viewpoints not so different from yours, adding less to your experience.
As a conclusion I believe that by spending time by with a large number of friend will make you feel happy instead of enjoy your day out together.
NAME:MUHAMMAD AIZAD BIN LUDIN
MATRIX N0:J09DN0096
FATIN ASHILA SAHIDAN
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Friend is the person who has a huge influenced towards us. We usually need a friend to be by our side. Friend is not only a stranger, even our sister or mother can be our friends. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. This both option have a lot of advantage and disadvantage. In my opinion I prefer to choose it based on situation.
Hang out with one friend does not mean that you don’t have many friends. For me I like to spend my time with one close friend especially when I want to share a private secret. If I shared with a lot of friends it not called a secret anymore. Furthermore some time too much of opinion also was not good for me.
Spend time with my close friend also can make me understand her deeper. This is the time I will know her more than always. As we know life is always busy with a lot of work and activities that make us sometimes forget our close friend. If I spend with a lot of friend I might not be able to understand all of them because it has various attitudes.
I do like to spend a time with a large number of friends when I go for a holidays. It was fun when we have a lot of friends and we do a lot of activities together. I also can learn a lot of skills and experience when gather with them. I can express myself and share with them what I know.
When I am facing a problem, my friends have many ideas to solve it. For example, when I can’t make a choice my friends will help consider all the possible solution for me. Imagine if I have ten of friends, I have ten possible solutions. Isn’t it nice when we can solve a problem with various solutions?
For the conclusion, it has a lot of pro and contra spends time with one friend or a lot of friends. I prefer to spend my time with them according to what situation. So we should know which situation that we want to spend with which option of friend.
Friends play a very important role in a life of every human being. While some people have a lot of friends, the predominant part can name only two-three people as their buddies. Are they different from the first ones, with a dozen of friends? I do not think so, because sometimes it is much more better to spend free time with a couple of closest friends than to go to parties with 10-20 buddies. The examples and reasons listed farther in this essay will strengthen my point of view.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, the nicest thing in friendship is trust. We can trust someone only if we are familiar with his personality; we can rely on this person, we can tell him all the secrets we cannot keep inside of us for a long time. If one has a lot of friends, with whom he did not spend much time in personel, one has a risk to be frank with an unreliable person. On the contrary, if one has only 2-3 friends, his risk of telling a secret to an unreliable person is much lower compared with the first case.
Secondly, while some might argue that communicating with a lot of different people is more interesting, I strongly believe that your closest friends can never be boring, simply because you, as an employed adult with a family, do not have an opportunity to communicate with them every day. I admit that sometimes talking with a total stranger can be fascinating and extremely interesting, but without trust all you have is new impressions, experiences, and opinions about issues.
To sum up, I do not mind having a lot of friends, but because I do have only three of them, I believe that it is better to spend your free time with a couple of trustworthy best friends, whom you consider absolutely reliable and responsible for keeping your secrets and opinions. It may be very interesting to meet new people and become friends with them, but your old buddies will be anyway the best company to spend spare time with.
NAME: SERI SHARUDIN
MATRIX: JO9DN0141
Ariffnor Bin Azmi
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“ Life is an option, but time that create life never give us option”. Based on this phrase, it showed that as a human we had given a fully controlled of our own self to make choices that may lead us to certain paths of life, either it is a positive of negative one. For example, in term of choosing friends to spend out some time with, it’s kind of style or maybe behaviour ,which some of us preferred to go out with one or two close friends, while others preferred going out with large number of friends. Both choices got it’s own advantages depend on type of friends that we chose to follow. But for myself, personally I preferred more to spend my time with just one or two of my close friends.
There are many advantages of spending time either with your close friends or with a large number of friends, but I’ll pick several of them to support my stand while comparing both advantages. First and foremost, we should think about the purpose or motive of the meeting, is it just like to have fun and reducing stress level after study or want to have some confidential conversation between the close friends. It’s not wrong to join a large number of friends, because we can feels the unity will formed or at least we can start to know each other better. But if the meeting is more on personal matter, I’ll preferred going with one or two of my close friends. Why I say so? It’s because it is really hard to identify or choosing friend especially guys that owned ability to listen and give good responds. So this kind of quality mostly can be found only on our very close friends.
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ReplyDeleteOther than that, if we choose to hang out with our close friends, it’s not a problem to plan the activities or places to be visit because of level of understanding toward each interest that quite high between them. I’m not just referring this point only among the same gender, because I’ve found out some of them preferred choosing a close friends from the opposite sex. Compared the condition in making decisions; on how to plan the activities among the big group of friends, we must understand the concept that majority will win, and do not deny the fact that not everybody in the group has the same interest like others, such as maybe most of guys in the group preferred spending their time playing football or in door games while the other half preferred visiting nice places or going for window shopping. And the end result is, the outing cannot satisfy some of their desires.
Like what I’ve said before, depending on the main purpose of the outing for example between the close friends, a more conducive condition and rapport can be develop. What do I mean is, in problem solving, the most important thing is to be honest, open minded and have a trust to each other. And all these are quite possible to achieve among the close friends compared to the other one. As we all know most of guys preferred to keep it as a secret whenever they got problems and they feel that, they can solve all those alone without getting help from others. But for me, this condition is not good for their health especially on mental and their emotion. Can you imagine what are the complications if all the stress has gone out of limit? The only solution is to start sharing those with others around us especially our close friends. Although the problem cannot be fully solved, at least it will help to reduce the stress a bit.
From all the reasons and advantages that I’ve explained above, I can conclude that, the first priority before making friend with others is to set up our friendship goal and try to find out what type of friend that suit ourselves the most. Above all that, I strongly agreed to spend my time mostly with one or two of my close friends.
Q2 WEEK 5.
ReplyDeleteFriends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends; while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion, these two approaches have their respective advantages.
The fact that people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends does not reflect that they do not have a large number of friends. It merely implies that they rely on their close friends in the significant aspects, such as the private secret and intellectual discussion. The reason is that they believe that the close friends are like their family members; therefore it is reliable to express the views to the close friends in such matters.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favorable to go shopping or to hang out to bar with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may arise problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities, as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
It is indisputable that friends can spark our lives; I personally believe that these two approaches have their respective advantages. For the entertainment activities, it is joyful and interesting to hang out with a large number of friends. I, however, would prefer to share my secret with my close friends.
Nur Afiqah Binti Borhannordin J09DN0111.
Mohamad Ismat Izzuddin bin md Salleh
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There will often spring up a omnipresent debate on the problem whether to spend time with one or two close friends or with a large number of friends. It should be fun to hang out with a group of friends at the party to celebrate the festivals. While, it will also be nice to chat with one or two close friends in the coffee shop on Sunday afternoon. The most important and obvious advantages will be demonstrated as follows.
It is normally said that one or two close friends could become the selection group of true friends. It is reliable and worthy to share personal secrets in such small group, in which way people can share the happiness and adversities. Only close friends can understand their friends’ trouble or worry and can find out more or less solutions to eliminate.
In addition, the reason that help out each other among close friends lies an equally important fact that taking time with close friends would encourage each other to fight for the same career goal and to strive for life destination. It is worth to spend time with close friends who have the same interest and passion for one cause to launch certain business by compensating the advantages and disadvantages.
Admittedly, spending time with a group of friends has incontrovertible virtues, including party events, travelling and so on. However, the advantages of being with a group of friends carry less weight that those of staying with one or two close friends.
In conclusion, despite some minor disadvantages such as large scale of party events, spending time with close friends, compared with having fun with a group of friends, is instrumental rather than harmful to us. It will benefit not only in sharing secrets, but also in fighting for career goals. Hence, enjoying time with one or two close friends will be valuable to people’s life.
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ReplyDeleteWAYS SPENDING TIME WITH FRIEND
In the world of modernization nowadays, many teenagers can think whether want to make friend with one or a large number of friends. Friend is the most people in our live after the family including the siblings. Friends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit from them.
For me, spend time with many friend is better. We can discuss anything and can share the opinion too. Many people join many opinions can come out and much new knowledge we can get. For example, if we having the discussion in a large group of friend we can discuss the problem. Beside that, if got a friend is weak in study, the other friend can help them. Not for the study group only, if they in same class them can make a group presentation too. Its also make a good relationship among them. For those who not exposed to urbanization, friend among them can help to exposed to it. For another hand, they also can have the entertainment together. It will make the parent not too worried about them, who they go out. Moreover, if one of them has a problem like financial problem or family problem, the other friend can help them. For example, if one of them get a financial problem, the rest can help she with give a money to borrow or get a family problem the other friend can talk to her family because friend is the one who close to us. It happens because most of time we spend time friend not only at school but during study time too. Other than that, a large number of friends also can make the chatting among them more interesting and can share the problem. Not for chatting, they also can share about the nowadays fashion trend.
If we spend time with one or two friend only, it also can be just like the large of friend but it’s not too interesting. They just can make discussion among them and the thing will share not in large quantity. But there has advantage is just spend time with one or two friend, they can share the problem among them and not to tell to the others. Beside that, the relationships between them like a family members.
As the conclusion, if we make a friend in a large of friend is better but not said make friend with one or two friends is not good. But all this have their own advantage and disadvantage.
NAME: WAHIDAH BINTI ABD GHANI
MATRIX NO.: J09DN0158
A friend is friendly, happy, and playful, too. A friend doesn't yell at you. You play with each other all the time. You try not to fight with a friend. You help each other when you get hurt.
ReplyDeleteFriends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends; while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion, these two approaches have their respective advantages.
The fact that people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends does not reflect that they do not have a large number of friends. It merely implies that they rely on their close friends in the significant aspects, such as the private secret and intellectual discussion. The reason is that they believe that the close friends are like their family members; therefore it is reliable to express the views to the close friends in such matters.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favorable to go shopping with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may arise problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities; as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
I personally believe that these two approaches have their respective advantages. For the entertainment activities, it is joyful and interesting to hang out with a large number of friends. I, however, would prefer to share my secret with my close friends.
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Name: MOHD HASRUL BIN JUNUS
ReplyDeleteMatrix no: J09DN0091
Spend time with large friend and one or two friends
A friend is a person who is always beside us, accompany us almost the time and give advice for our good. There are two classifications of friend which is true friend and ordinary friend. True friend always beside us whenever you in trouble or happiness. Nowadays, people have choice to spend their time with friend rather hang out with large friend or hang out with close friend.
There are some advantages if we spend time with large friend such as we can do interesting activities like go to waterfall together. Besides that, spend time with close friend also can make our life easier because we can go our favourite place such as karaoke or play bowling with them. I prefer to spend time with close friend because we can do a lot of activities together.
In spite of that, we can share our problem with because they are our true friend who always supports us. We also can do our favourite activity together because they also like to do the same activity with us. Besides that, only close friend can understand our problem or dilemma because they are more concern about us. In addition, our close friend can give us best advice to support our ambitious for example Bill Grates dropped from Harvard University and began to start the engine of Microsoft with Allen, the only guy who could understand Bill’s ambition. As a result, they succeeded to produce the biggest software company.
However, spend time with large friend is not wrong because some activities we need large number of people such as go picnic and do a party together. This will make the activities become more interesting because we will be cheerful by their attitude or their behaviour. In spite of that, activities done with large friend can teach us how to manage certain program by cooperation they give to us in achieve the success for the activities.
ReplyDeleteIn conclusion, there are some people like to spend time with large friend because they think can give excitement to them. Besides that, some people also like to spend time with their close friend because they can share their problem with them. In addition, we can choose either one of them because we can think what the best for our life is. Moreover, friends always there to give us support and ideas to do something and help us to achieve something.
Friendship is one of the most important values in a man's life, people might have different preferences: some of them prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while other prefers to spend time with a large number of friends. In my view, I prefer to spend time with one or two close friends.
ReplyDeletePeople can choose as many friends as they want to keep relationship with but I would rather have my time with only a few ones. One reason is that I can confide in my dear friends. Another is that I also do not have much time. Moreover, I can take care of my friends better when I do not have many. I often exchange confidences with my intimate friends. It is easier to share your stories between two people than to do that among a large group. My closest friend and I can talk for hours together about our opinions, feelings or love secrets. She always tries to keep quiet about what I told her to do. But I am not sure that numerous groups can do the same things.
Besides that, I can also spend more time with a few of my best friends. I have many relationships and things to do in my life other than friendship. So just a part of my time is for friends. We can keep frequent contact with many of our friends but we need much time, too. For example, when we feel sad or happy and want to share with somebody, we often loiter with our close friend on the park or go to a coffee shop to gossip with her. We want to understand our chums better and help them when they need us. For example, we can go to play with many people but can’t take a good care of all. With one or two friends, we can listen to them more and understand them deeper. Therefore, it can make the friendship stronger and be a thoughtful friend.
Friends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends; while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. In my opinion, these two approaches have their respective advantages. Spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favorable to go shopping or to hang out to bar with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may arise problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities; as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
In conclusion, all in all, I believe that it is good to have really close friends that will catch you when you fall. I believe that we need to use both of the mentioned options because we have different needs that we can satisfy them through selecting the right choice in a particular situation. I am always willing to listen to them and share with my dear buddies not only happiness but also difficulties in our life’s. I hope our unshakable friendship will go with us in the rest of our lives.
RUBINEE BARLAH
J09DN0137
Friends are people who support us through our lives. Some people prefer to have one or two close friends. However, others prefer to spent their time with many friends. I think that the number of friends depends on the personality of a person. Personally, I prefer to have a couple of close friends. In this essay I will analyze both cases and present my view in favor of having a few close friends.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, a person can establish closer relationships with a few friends. They can spend their time together, relax, watch a movie in a silence that does not feel awkward. Second of all, close friends have more familiar atmosphere. They can share many beautiful moments and thoughts. For example, I have only two close friends which are my classmate and my old school friend. I can share my worries and great news and can tell everything to them.
From the other side, having many friends can be hard and stressful. One has to spend his or her time with each of them. I think it is not healthy because a person does not have time to relax and contemplate about his or her own life. I know this type of people. They like to be in the center of everyone's attention. They talk a lot, make jokes, tell stories and rumors. Unfortunately, they basically do not have true friends. They just play and pretend to be friends with other people. There is no doubt they succeed in it, but they spend so much time listening to other's worries and troubles and entertaining them that they practically do not have time for themselves. In addition, it is difficult and almost impossible to relax, discuss interesting issues and just be oneself.
To summarise up, I am totally agree with the statement that "a friend in need is a friend indeed". I am sure that my close friends will always help me and never betray or turn me down. However, a large number of friends does not allow to establish close and deep relationships.
NAME : NABILAH BINTI MAT SYNED
MATRIX : J09DN0098
Friends are gift of God in our life. They play a role in everyone life that each person get benefit from their friends. From friends we learn about life and world development. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while others choose to spend time with a large groups friends. In my opinion, these two choice have their own respective advantages.
ReplyDeleteHanging out with one or two friends may be convenient for us sometimes it would rather difficult to move to other places with many friends. Secondly, it would be easy for us to share our secrets since some issues can be only told to some of our friends only. Not every of our friend would be convenient to share our secrets.
I think going out with more friends is better rather than going out with only one or two friends. Hanging out with only few friends could only help us to share private secrets or intellectual discussion but spending time with large numbers of friends would be more enjoyable as we could make havoc among ourselves. When you have lot of friends surrounding you, you are never alone. They can entertain with us and they can also teach us about it.
The main benefit of spending time with many friends is, we can assure safety for ourselves as hanging out with few friends safety is not guaranteed. Furthermore, we can share expanses among friends. For example, if we hire a taxi, we could share the payment of taxi among friends and we could cut cost of our expenses.
Other than that, every person would have different characters and different taste which would reflect themselves. It is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters such as books, film and even cuisine. In addition, they can experience and we can learn life experience and also to be matured. We can also able to study many of our friends characters.
In conclusion, there are many advantages between these two choices. But I prefer going out with large numbers of friends as I like to enjoy and have fun with many.
RATHIGA SELVANATHAN
J09DN0136
For your information, friends play a very important role in a life of every human being. While some people have a lot of friends, the predominant part can name only two-three people as their buddies. Are they different from the first ones, with a dozen of friends? I do not think so, because sometimes it is much better to spend free time with a couple of closest friends than to go to parties with 10-20 buddies. The examples and reasons listed farther in this essay will strengthen my point of view.
ReplyDeleteActually, the nicest thing in friendship is trust. We can trust someone only if we are familiar with his personality, we can rely on this person, we can tell him all the secrets we cannot keep inside of us for a long time. If one has a lot of friends, with whom he did not spend much time in private, one has a risk to be frank with an unreliable person.
On the contrary, if one has only 2-3 friends, his risk of telling a secret to an unreliable person is much lower compared with the first case. For example, I have only three persons, whom I can undoubtedly name my best friends and absolutely trustworthy persons. I have never been in an unpleasant situation when your so-called buddy tells everyone about your plans for the future, your failures and wrong steps. I think that this did not happen partly because I have got a few friends.
In other hand,, while some might argue that communicating with a lot of different people is more interesting, I strongly believe that your closest friends can never be boring, simply because you, as an employed adult with a family, do not have an opportunity to communicate with them every day. I admit that sometimes talking with a total stranger can be fascinating and extremely interesting, but without trust all you have is new impressions, experiences, and opinions about issues.
As a conclusion, I do not mind having a lot of friends, but because I do have only three of them, I believe that it is better to spend your free time with a couple of trustworthy best friends, whom you consider absolutely reliable and responsible for keeping your secrets and opinions. It may be very interesting to meet new people and become friends with them, but your old buddies will be anyway the best company to spend spare time with.
PREFER TO SPEND TIME WITH ONE OR MORE THAN ONE FRIEND.
ReplyDeleteDifference person had difference style. Some people prefer to spend their time with one or two close friend, but others prefer to spend their time with a large number of friend. For me, I prefer to spend my time with just a few of my friend which are my best friend. For me, it’s better because with many numbers of friend can make us a lot of problem, and from that, I also feel comfortable to share a story with my best friend better than many friend.
I often exchange confidences with my intimate friends. It is easier to share your stories between two people than to do that among a large group. My closest friend and I can talk for hours together about our opinions, feelings or love secrets. She always tries to keep quiet about what I told her to do. But I am not sure that numerous groups can do the same thing. I can also spend more time with a few of my best friends. I have many relationships and things to do in my life other than friendship. So just a part of my time are for friends.
From the other side, having many friends can be hard and stressful. One has to spend his or her time with each of them. I think it is not healthy because a person does not have time to relax and contemplate about her own life especially for person who are always busy. I know this type of people. They like to be in the centre of everyone's attention. They talk a lot, make jokes, and tell stories and rumours. They spend so much time listening to other's worries and troubles and entertaining them that they practically do not have time for themselves. In addition, it is difficult and almost impossible to relax, discuss interesting issues and just be oneself. In conclusion, having a big group of frequent friends is good but personally I feel best only when I stay beside my best friend. I can tell them my secrets and reserve my time for them. I am always willing to listen to them and share with my dear buddies not only happiness but also difficulties in our life. I hope our unshakeable friendship will go with us in the rest of our life.
AISHAH BINTI ROSLAN
J09DN0064
Spend Time with One Friends or Large Number of Friends
ReplyDeleteFriends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. For my opinion, I would choose spend time with a large number of friends because I can get a lot of information and so on.
I have lots of friends and all of them are fun to be with. I enjoy spending my time with all of them as much as possible. Though we rarely meet as a group nowadays because of other obligations circumstances, I still look forward to the day we meet all again. Just talking about the stuff and other foolishness we did back in school. I feel lucky to have them as my friends because they are more than just companions, they are like walls that I can lean on in times of crisis may it be emotional or financial.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favourable to go shopping or to hang out with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may be problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities; as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
There is this saying that "No man is an island" and I agree to that. Every one of us needs other people to be friends with. Friends help you to get up when you fall, give you unending support and encouragement, and always try to put a smile in your face when you're feeling low. A true friend never leaves you in good times and in bad times. This is advantage when we are in large number of friends. They can help us when we are in problem.
As a conclusion, for me have a large number of friends is more advantage than have one or two friends. When we in large group of friends, friends will always have a hand to help us and we can get more opinion and information about everything and also get entertainment activities together. They also give us support and always encourage us to do something.
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NOR AZHANI BINTI ABDUL RAZAK
J09DN0107
Spend Time with One Friends or Large Number of Friends
ReplyDeleteFriends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. For my opinion, I would choose spend time with a large number of friends because I can get a lot of information and so on.
I have lots of friends and all of them are fun to be with. I enjoy spending my time with all of them as much as possible. Though we rarely meet as a group nowadays because of other obligations circumstances, I still look forward to the day we meet all again. Just talking about the stuff and other foolishness we did back in school. I feel lucky to have them as my friends because they are more than just companions, they are like walls that I can lean on in times of crisis may it be emotional or financial.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favourable to go shopping or to hang out with a group of friends. Moreover, it is beneficial to share and exchange our opinions on various matters, such as books, films or even a cuisine. In addition, it may be problem when one or two close friends are not available for the leisure activities; as a result, staying at home may probably the only means to spend the time.
There is this saying that "No man is an island" and I agree to that. Every one of us needs other people to be friends with. Friends help you to get up when you fall, give you unending support and encouragement, and always try to put a smile in your face when you're feeling low. A true friend never leaves you in good times and in bad times. This is advantage when we are in large number of friends. They can help us when we are in problem.
As a conclusion, for me have a large number of friends is more advantage than have one or two friends. When we in large group of friends, friends will always have a hand to help us and we can get more opinion and information about everything and also get entertainment activities together. They also give us support and always encourage us to do something.
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NOR AZHANI BINTI ABDUL RAZAK
J09DN0107
Friends are most important people in our life without friends we will feel the life very bored. We need friends to share our happiness, sadness, problems and more. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friend. Other choose to spend with large numbers of friends. I also prefer to choose large number of friends to spend my time.
ReplyDeleteWhen I have a lot of friends I never feel alone. They also can entertain me very well when we all go out together. Most journey make the journey more happening and also interesting. We also will never fell bored. If our friends number is one or two they cannot make much happening the journey. Sometimes no things to talk or to laugh. We can feel bored very fast. If we feel bored the rest of our time our mood will spoil and also the journey will be more interesting.
We can get more idea or sharing when we have more friends. Different people have different type of idea and experience. When they share their experiences that they have we also can get some idea to decide something. For example if we go shopping with my friends we can know more things or get more idea about the things that we want to buy. So this make our selection more best. If we go out with one or two friends we not have chance to get more idea or experience. We get some idea only to choose or buy anything.
Other than that, we also can see different type of people when we mix around with large group of people. We can get to know different type of people and different type of character. This may be more understanding and tolerable with people. If we have one or two close friend we cannot get to know about more type of character. We will still with the people of same character. So that we want to get to know different type of people.
When we go outside with many friends we can save money by sharing the transportation cost such as taxi rent. As a example if we go out with one or two people our taxi rent increase. But if we go out with many people we can divide and the rate that we pay will reduce.
The conclusion of this topic is I feel that I have more prefer to spend time with large number of friends. We can get more idea, can get know different peoples and different characters, more happening and more. We always will be happy and learn new things from all friends.
Arcana D/O Udaiyakumar
J09DN0066
Friends is a person who u know very well and like , and who is not usually a member of your family. We also can said that friend is a gift of god in our life . It is very hard to find a friend who will cry with us when we cry and who will happy together with us when we happy. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two friends. Other choose to spend time with a large number of friends. I prefer to spend time with a large number of friends. I prefer to spend time with one or two close friends.
ReplyDeleteFriends is a important person in our life and they can change our lifestyle and we also can be easily influenced by them. People can choose as many as friends they want in their life. But they can’t share their problem with everyone . They only able tell the secret with one or two friends who their believe a lot.
If we have a lot of friends , our life will be more great,enjoyable and happy . We can be happy with everyone but it is very difficult for me to understand and accept everyone character. The human being have different of character,sometimes we can’t accept their character. I always exchange confidence with my close friends. It will be more easier to share our secret between one or two people than with a large group. For example , if we have a close friends we always can share our secret , problems , feeling and opinion together. The person who is our close friends able to keep our secret as their secret, but if we have a large groups, im not sure that the person will keep the secret or not.
Nowdays , everyone are busy with their own life so if I have a lot of friends but if I can’t share my problem with them,and if I can’t believe them, it is such a waste things. Is better to be friend with close friends who will always with us when we need them , and give their shoulders and help us when we need them.
Finally , if I have one or two close friends , I able to understand their problem and I also can help them but if a large group of friends, not everyone will give the ear to listen to our problem. Some of them will listen and then they will talk behind of us. It is more painful and it will hurt us more. So with one or two friends , I can listen to their problem more and understand them deeply. Therefore , I can make our friendship stronger and be a thoughful friends.
As a conclusion , having a big group of friends is a good because we can learn a lot of new things and can understand a lot of people character and we also will be more enjoy but it is more better for me to have my close friends with me . I will be more happy in my life if I have someone with me when I need them .
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VIJIYA VANI D/O RAMENY
J09DN0157
Friends are people who support us through our lives. Friendship is very important relationship that all people need to have. Some people prefer have one or two close friends only. But some others like to have a large number of friends to spend their time ,with a large number of friends because can give many advantages
ReplyDeleteTo begin with, it is normally said that one or two close friends could become the selection pool of true friends. In the light of this definition, people might regard one or two close friends as their true friends. It is reliable and creditable to share personal secrets in such small group, in which way people can share the happiness and adversities. Only close friends can understand their friends’ trouble or worry and can find out more or less solutions to eliminate. It is beneficial to have close friends to come over difficulties.
In addition, behind my reason that help out each other among close friends lies an equally important fact that taking time with close friends would encourage each other to fight for the same career goal and to strive for life destination. It is worth to spend time with close friends who have the same interest and passion for one cause to launch certain business by compensating the advantages and disadvantages.
In addition the advantages of spend time with a large number of friends is they can get to learn more from the other’s experience. If one of their member group of friends like particular sport or play instrument or others, we actually start to take interested with their activities. With a lot of friends, we can get variety of particular interest activities.
Another advantages are we can get a lot of opinion to think and to choose if we have a question that ourselves cannot find the answer. With a lot of friends, we also can get different opinion. They will also explain their own opinion and which is the best and which is are not suitable for the answer.
In conclusion, despite some minor drawbacks such as large scale of party events, spending time with close friends, compared with having fun with a group of friends, is instrumental rather than detrimental to us. It will benefit not only in sharing secrets, but also in fighting for career goals. Hence, enjoying time with one or two close friends will be valuable to people’s life.
MOHAMAD SHAMSULHUDA BIN HASSAN
J09 DN 0086
In some countries, teenagers have jobs while they are still students. After thinking about it from several aspects, I don’t believe it is a good idea. The reasons are presented below.
ReplyDeletePart-time jobs may affect students’ academic studies. Working several hours a day consumes a lot of time and one might be too exhausted to study. The main purpose of school life for teenagers is to learn scientific knowledge and techniques in preparation for their future. It is generally suggested that in order to master what they have leaned at school; students must spend at least 3 hours each day on their homework.
It would be impossible for a student to work part time while maintaining a high standard of academic learning. As a result, they may find it hard to adjust to what the school and society expects from them s well as what their employers expect them to perform on job.Another reason why I don’t approve teenagers to work part-time is that working while studying will deprive their time of sleep and will do harm to their health. Teenagers are in the process of building up their body.
They need time to do exercises and engage in other activities, and they also need plenty of rest. If they work, they may sacrifice their time for sleep, club activities, exercise and recreations. Sometimes, teenagers have jobs that consume more strength than they can afford. This will be definitely harmful their health.
If I would be to choose to spend my time with one or two of my close friends than to spend time with a large number of friends, I would choose the second option.
ReplyDeleteI have lots of friends and all of them are fun to be with. I enjoy spending my time with all of them as much as possible. Though we rarely meet as a group nowadays because of other obligations circumstances, I still look forward to the day we meet all again. Just talking about the stuff and other foolishness we did back in school. I feel lucky to have them as my friends because they are more than just companions, they are like walls that I can lean on in times of crisis may it be emotional or financial.
Out of my circle of friends, I have a best friend. A one in a million kind of a person. There are things that I can not tell to my other friends. But I can reveal anything and everything to my best friend. And we've been tested by time and circumstances. I also like to spend my time with her because she's also a jolly person like the rest of my friends. But nowadays, she's been busy with work but we still find time for girly talks. There was not a week that passed that we didn't exchanged calls.
There is this saying that "No man is an island" and I agree to that. Everyone of us needs other people to be friends with. Friends help you to get up when you fall, gives you unending support and encouragement, and always tries to put a smile in your face when you're feeling low. True friends never leaves you in good times and in bad times.
Spending time with large number of friends is very cheerful. The environments is warmed up by many people, by this way we forget many everyday's problems. For example when I am upset, I always go to see a football match with my friends, spending time with lot of people, screaming when goal is scored make me totally relaxing. Going to big concert is also a kind of having time in exciting environment.
We might have more funs and act more wildly that usual when we spend time with a large amount of friends, but after the joyful period, we have to face our problems alone and no one understand what we are suffering. When I am going to celebrate a special event, such as New Years Eves, I prefer to spend it with a large number of friends since I do not want to ruin others happy moods, and others will not ruin mine, too.
FATIN ATHIRAH BT.ZULKIPLI
J09DN0076
NUR AIN BINTI MOHAMAD MARZUKI
ReplyDeleteJ09DN0113
Friends are people who support us through our lives. Some people prefer to have one or two close friends. However, others prefer to spend their time with many friends. I think that the number of friends depends on one's personality. Personally, I prefer to have a couple of close friends. In this essay I will analyze both cases and present my view in favor of having a few close friends.
First of all, a person can establish closer relationships with a few friends. They can spend their time together, relax, and watch a movie in a silence that does not feel awkward. Second of all, close friends have more familiar atmosphere. They can share many beautiful moments and thoughts. For example, I have only two close friends. I can share my worries and great news and can tell everything to them.
From the other side, having many friends can be hard and stressful. One has to spend his or her time with each of them. I think it is not healthy because a person does not have time to relax and contemplate about his/her own life. I know this type of people. They like to be in the centre of everyone's attention. They talk a lot, make jokes, and tell stories and rumors. Unfortunately, they basically do not have true friends. They just play and pretend to be friends with other people. There is no doubt they succeed in it, but they spend so much time listening to other's worries and troubles and entertaining them that they practically do not have time for themselves. In addition, it is difficult and almost impossible to relax, discuss interesting issues and just be oneself.
To sum up, I am totally agreed with the statement that "a friend in need is a friend indeed”. I am sure that my close friends will always help me and never betray or turn me down. However, a large number of friends do not allow establishing close and deep relationships.
QUESTION 20
ReplyDeleteBETWEEN TWO FRIENDS OR IN GROUPS
Friends play a crucial role in our lives because we benefit a lot from them. For example, it is graceful when we get the help from our friends. Moreover, it is meaningful to spend time with our friends because they may be those who really understand my thoughts. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while others choose to spend time with a group of friend. For my opinion, it is the best and right time when we spent time with the large number of friends.
The first reason is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others' experiences. For instance, among a large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes travelling very much and from their experiences you can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before. Of course, while differences give the opportunity to learn. Another reason is that a large number of friends can help you to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if you happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, your friends you will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help you to consider better all advantages and disadvantages.
On the other hand, spending time with a large number of friends would have multitude merits, especially the entertainment activities. First of all, it is favorable to go shopping or to hang out to bar with a group of friends. The fact that people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends does not reflect that they do not have a large number of friends. It merely implies that they rely on their close friends in the significant aspects, such as the private secret and intellectual discussion. In conclusion, I think that spending time with a large number of friends can add more to one's life.
NURUL FAHANA BINTI MASDI
JO9DN0128
NUR SHUHAIDA BINTI HAMDAN
ReplyDeleteJ09DN0120
Despite friendship is one of the most important values in a man's life, people might have different preferences: some of them prefer to spend time with one or two close friends, while other prefer to be surrounded by a large number of friends.In my view, I prefer the second attitude.
The first reason is that staying in contact with a large number of friends gives the opportunity to learn more from the others' experiences. For instance, among a large number of people there could be someone who practices a particular sport, or plays an instrument or likes travelling very much and from their experiences you can be attracted to try something new that you had never considered before.
Of course, while differences give the opportunity to learn, they can also mean that sometimes it can be difficult to reach an agreement. This would not happen or at least would happen rarely if one decides to spend time with one or two close friends. In fact, in this case it is more likely that interests and preferences are the same.
Another reason is that a large number of friends can help you to consider all the possible solutions to a problem and to make you more open-minded. For example, if you happen to face a problem and ask them for advice, your friends you will see that issue from their different point of views and accordingly they will help you to consider better all advantages and disadvantages.
When you have just few close friends, on one hand you develop a more intimate relationship with them and you feel you can trust them more, but on the other hand they often will give you viewpoints not so different from yours, adding less to your experience.
In sum, although each choice – few close friends or a large number of friends – presents its advantages and its weak points, I think that spending time with a large number of friends can add more to one's life.
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ReplyDeleteFriends play an important role in everyone’s life without ages. Nowadays, friends are important in every manner especially as we are in an emergency situation where friends will be around us to help us. Thus, we are even able to share our feelings and problems to our friends whom we are comfortable with.
ReplyDeleteBesides that, some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends while some prefer to spend time with a large number of friends. Based on my opinion, I think spending time with more than one or two friends are better. It is because we tend to have lots of fun when we gather. For an instance, when a bunch of close friends are far apart from each other due to studies and when they do their gathering with the other friends, they tend to be very happy to see each other after a long time.
Having many friends, we can even share our knowledge level as in we discuss on what is happening around the world when we are in the coffee shop with a cup of hot coffee in our hands. When our friends are around, we tend to forget our time and age although we are growing old day by day. Friends make our lives turn younger although we have gray hair on our heads
Friends also bring benefit to us in a way where we can go jogging with our friends twice or thrice in a week. Indirectly it helps us to maintain our healthiness. We even can exercise and keep ourselves fit by playing games or even swimming. It is an activity to be done in a large number of people. Friends do benefit us in many ways but as long as there are no secrets and lies amongst us, the friendship that we value can be maintained forever.
Name : Maha Lechmi d/o Jeminthar
Matrix number : JO9DN0082
Adibah Mustapha
ReplyDeleteJ09DN0060
Friends are the most important peoples of our lives. Without friends, we may be lonely. Without friends, there’ll be no one believing in us even our wildest dreams. Without friends, there’ll be nobody supporting our back to keep going in life without turning back. Friends are priceless and very valuable. True friends may be rare and one of a kind but they last for a lifetime. Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends while others prefer with a large number of friends. As for me, I would prefer to spend time with one or two of my close friends.
Spending time with one or two close friends will be more fun compared to large number of friends. It would help to make decision easier and even more privacy of discussing personal matters. Research shows that a one-to-one conversation is more effective than one-to-many conversation. The attention is given only to one side of the listener rather than dividing the attention to a larger number of people with different perspectives.
Going out with one or two friends also made decisions easier rather a larger number of people with different interest. Sharing interest is fun but sometimes may be difficult as one can never accept the others opinion even when it comes to deciding what to eat. Each people have different opinion and one may not accept others and this may lead to misunderstood. Misunderstood are the common problems in friendship but is not necessary especially for the smallest things.
A person loves attention. With a large number of people in a group, the attention is diverting to each one of the people in the following group. One may have a conversation with the other on fashion while one may talk on sports with another individual in the group. Sometimes the aim of the gathering may slip from the situation especially when others start making their own decision of what to do and there is no teamwork and understanding of the current situation. This comes jealousy and even anger. At least with one or two friends, there will be less complicated situation such as a more private and comfortable environment of discussion and more things can be shared.
Close friends are like our own siblings. Sharing bad and good times together, close friends are the most important people in our life after our family. Spending quality time with them will bring great memories of a lifetime. Most importantly is to appreciate the values of friendship and never waste a friendship for the smallest misunderstood which leads to fights and broken a valuable friendship as friendship is something priceless and can never be the replaced by others.
Some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends. Others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. Compare the advantages of each choice. Which of these two ways of spending time do you prefer? Use specific reasons to support your answer.
ReplyDeleteFriends play crucial role in our lives. With friends we will feel like being appreciated and love. Friends can make our life wonderful but friends also can make our life disaster. So, we must be careful when choosing friends. This is because human got many faces and not all can really being trusted. They may be very nice in front of us but at the back, they talk bad about us. Just be careful.
Back to our topic, some people prefer to spend time with one or two close friends only, but others choose to spend time with a large number of friends. I think these two views may have their relevant reasons. Might be it can be influenced by the purpose on spending the time. When it comes to privacy matter, may be some people prefer to spend time with close friend only but different if in other way.
Some people rely on their close friends to talk about private secret or intellectual discussion. They make their close friend like their family and really trust them. That’s why when come to private matter, some people prefer to spend time with their close friend only. Of course we don’t want our secret to be spread. So, we must be careful to choose close friend. Usually, close friend must help us when we got problem and still be with us also when we are happy. Definitely this can help us to feel more comfort and relieve after share secret or problem with them.
Different if they want to spend time more on entertainment activities. Usually, for this purpose, people like to spend time with a large number of friends. For example, if they would like to spend time shopping, discussing or sharing and exchange opinions like sharing opinions on books, films or even cuisine. This can provide us with satisfaction on sharing and caring. Many interest can be combine to gain great moment when spending time together.
Before ending this discussion, I want to highlight that if me, I prefer to spend time with a large number of friends. This is because I’m not trusting any close friend from my previous experiences. Close friend may betray us not only one time but may make until our life disaster. Besides, if I just friend or spending more time with my close friend, people may get wrong on me. Maybe they will think that I am a choosing type of person, only want to be friend with some person. For others, close friend may be important, but not for me. I have my family and they are the best friend of mine.
MOHD NOR AFFANDI BIN HANAFIAH
J09DN0092
Question 20
ReplyDeleteNoashikin binti Mohd Narawi
J09DN0104
Friends are people who support us through our lives. Some people prefer to have one or two close friends. However, others prefer to spend their time with many friends. I think that the number of friends depends on one’s personality. Personally, I prefer to have a couple of close friends. In this essay I will analyze both cases and present my view in favor of having a few close friends. First of all, a person can establish closer relationships with a few friends. They can spend their time together, relax, watching a movie in a silence that does not feel awkward.
Second of all, close friends have more familiar atmosphere. They can share many beautiful moments and thoughts. For example, I have only two close friends – boyfriend and my class-mate. I can share my worries and great news and can tell everything to them. From the other side, having many friends can be hard and stressful. One has to spend his or her time with each of them. I think it is not healthy because a person does not have time to relax and contemplate about his/her own life. I know this type of people. They like to be in the center of everyone’s attention. They talk a lot, make jokes, and tell stories and rumors.
Unfortunately, they basically do not have true friends. They just play and pretend to be friends with other people. There is no doubt they succeed in it, but they spend so much time listening to other’s worries and troubles and entertaining them that they practically do not have time for themselves. In addition, it is difficult and almost impossible to relax, discuss interesting issues and just be oneself.
To sum up, I am totally agreed with the statement that “a friend in need is a friend indeed”. I am sure that my close friends will always help me and never betray or turn me down. However, a large number of friends do not allow establishing close and deep relationships. That is why I agreed to spend time with one or two close friends only.